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I broke up with bf/ I'm back

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heatherrae said:
yep. I'm a dummy. lol.
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you know I respect you
I hate to hear of the alcohol abuse
I licked that problem once before
and while sober I married an alcoholic girl
I did so much for her
 
heatherrae said:
yep. I'm a dummy. lol.
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Not really. I dated the female version of your geriatric horndog. She drank so much one night she spit in my face in front of about 50 friends. She then tried to sit down in a chair...only to miss the chair and smack her head on the concrete floor.

I put up with 5 years of really bizarre behavior.

I knew it was over when I was more concerned with refilling my drink than to check her head for blood.

Seriously, get the boat.
 
hotzie said:
i have guns , for the right price he can disappear.
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LOL I have guns and training I am in it can be a dual operation really stealth and it can look like he was pulled through a window by himself because he felt so bad doing it to you.
 
gotmilk said:
Not really. I dated the female version of your geriatric horndog. She drank so much one night she spit in my face in front of about 50 friends. She then tried to sit down in a chair...only to miss the chair and smack her head on the concrete floor.

I put up with 5 years of really bizarre behavior.

I knew it was over when I was more concerned with refilling my drink than to check her head for blood.

Seriously, get the boat.
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LOL...I actually just want to get away from him and have my own sane, quiet, calm place again. I really in a way feel sorry for him. He is so nuts that he just self destructs. One thing I've learned is that you don't have to wish harm on people like that, it just seems to find them. I just hope he smartens up one day and that his kids are going to be okay with him.
 
heatherrae said:
LOL...I actually just want to get away from him and have my own sane, quiet, calm place again. I really in a way feel sorry for him. He is so nuts that he just self destructs. One thing I've learned is that you don't have to wish harm on people like that, it just seems to find them. I just hope he smartens up one day and that his kids are going to be okay with him.
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Don't feel sorry for people who can only interact if they control you.
 
lol....as much as he has accussed me of cheating, I sort of wish that I had been. At least then I would feel like I got a little something over on him.

I was doing the time without doing the crime.

I have mixed emotions about rebound sex, at this point...lol. I think I just want to be quiet and alone for a while before I get tangled up in anything again.
 
heatherrae said:
I have mixed emotions about rebound sex, at this point...lol. I think I just want to be quiet and alone for a while before I get tangled up in anything again.
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oh dont worry about i wont get attached , and we both will get what we want.
 
hotzie said:
oh dont worry about i wont get attached , and we both will get what we want.
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LOL....

I knew you guys would make me laugh at myself. Just what the doctor ordered.
 
needtogetas said:
so was pdaddy taping that ass can you confirm or denie this.
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Whose? Mine? LOL. No one has been tapping mine. I have been snuggled up with my Yorkie every night, like an old spinster. ;-)
 
gotmilk said:
Not really. I dated the female version of your geriatric horndog. She drank so much one night she spit in my face in front of about 50 friends. She then tried to sit down in a chair...only to miss the chair and smack her head on the concrete floor.

I put up with 5 years of really bizarre behavior.

I knew it was over when I was more concerned with refilling my drink than to check her head for blood.

Seriously, get the boat.
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my xwife had a severe asthma condition
she'd get drunk and upset,which is easy to do drunk
and then have an asthma attack such that I thought she was going to die
god I had forgotten that fear
I cared for her so much
 
4everhung said:
my xwife had a severe asthma condition
she'd get drunk and upset,which is easy to do drunk
and then have an asthma attack such that I thought she was going to die
god I had forgotten that fear
I cared for her so much
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Is she still drinking? You could get her some Advair for Christmas
 
JavaGuru said:
I'm sorry to hear it.... What is the situation in your County? In mine he would be up for a felony but they presecute heavy for dv here. Did you see any signs beforehand he would do this?
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Yep, he had slammed doors into me and stuff before but I sort of blamed myself a little for staying there mouthing off to him. He had slammed my fingers in a door, blacked my eye with a door, and twisted my ankle in various pushing bouts. He almost through a TV on my head once, and he wasn't even mad at me. He was mad at the girls for watching TV when they were grounded. He NEVER even says he is sorry. He says that everyone else needs to be "normal" so that he won't get pissed off. !!!
 
heatherrae said:
Yep, he had slammed doors into me and stuff before but I sort of blamed myself a little for staying there mouthing off to him. He had slammed my fingers in a door, blacked my eye with a door, and twisted my ankle in various pushing bouts. He almost through a TV on my head once, and he wasn't even mad at me. He was mad at the girls for watching TV when they were grounded. He NEVER even says he is sorry. He says that everyone else needs to be "normal" so that he won't get pissed off. !!!
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wow. and to think that only a tiny part of the world knows this. strange, the faces we show those we get close to....
 
heatherrae said:
Yep, he had slammed doors into me and stuff before but I sort of blamed myself a little for staying there mouthing off to him. He had slammed my fingers in a door, blacked my eye with a door, and twisted my ankle in various pushing bouts. He almost through a TV on my head once, and he wasn't even mad at me. He was mad at the girls for watching TV when they were grounded. He NEVER even says he is sorry. He says that everyone else needs to be "normal" so that he won't get pissed off. !!!
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I'm not trying to blame you for anything, but did you think it would change? Is he up for a felony DV charge?
 
Heather u down for getting the Island now with me and breeding a litter?

btw..welcome back, and post nudes
 
JavaGuru said:
I'm not trying to blame you for anything, but did you think it would change? Is he up for a felony DV charge?
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Well, I filled out the affidavit and just told my story. I wouldn't have called 911, but I thought he was really going to hurt me badly. At this point, is up to the prosecutor. I don't have any choice what charges are brought, but the cop that came said that he viewed it as pretty a pretty violent attack. I won't lie for him, though, no matter what. I take sworn oaths very seriously, and I'm not going to be one of those wimpy women who recants what they clearly know is the truth.
 
domestic violence is no joke. you lose all kinds of rights. no guns, if you're a cop or fireman, you're fired.
 
Wulfgar said:
Heather u down for getting the Island now with me and breeding a litter?

btw..welcome back, and post nudes
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LOL...the island sounds even better now!
 
heatherrae said:
Well, I filled out the affidavit and just told my story. I wouldn't have called 911, but I thought he was really going to hurt me badly. At this point, is up to the prosecutor. I don't have any choice what charges are brought, but the cop that came said that he viewed it as pretty a pretty violent attack. I won't lie for him, though, no matter what. I take sworn oaths very seriously, and I'm not going to be one of those wimpy women who recants what they clearly know is the truth.
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In Ohio all you had to do was go to a hospital and it would have been an F2. The Supreme Court of Ohio has affirmed it...in Ohio, I just wasn't sure about Florida.
 
I didn't go to the hospital. I may still go to a primary care physician, and I know this sounds goofy, but I didn't want to incur the bill and add that onto moving expenses, etc. Somehow I feel really sore, though, like when you have been in a car wreck and everything just hurts for a few weeks.
 
HumanTarget said:
wow. and to think that only a tiny part of the world knows this. strange, the faces we show those we get close to....
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and in answer to your question
I don't think she's drinking still
she came from a very conservative "Church of Christ" family
our 2 years of marriage were a lie to her family
she came to the funeral home for a visitation after we had been divorced a number of years
she apologized to my mom(I wasn't there)
pregnant now and married again
I had apologized to her family long before
 
HumanTarget said:
domestic violence is no joke. you lose all kinds of rights. no guns, if you're a cop or fireman, you're fired.
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yeah I guess that depends on where you live.

my long lost best friend had been living with a fireman whose father was also the mayor and whose brother was on the police f0rce in this town. everytime he's beat her ass and she'd call the cops - guess who shows up to their house/ daddy and brother. until the day I was there and witnessed him choking her out in a locked bedroom. her sister and I called the cops and they real deal actually showed up but it took quite a bit of explanation and convincing for them to believe it was anything more than an alcohol-induced lover's quarrel.
anywho he was convicted (not sure of the exact charges) and he never lost his job as far as I remember but this was a while ago so I could be off there. but anywho yeah. that fucker knocked me down to the concrete when I yelled obscenities at him in a distraction attempt. I basically yelled hey fuck you motherfucker come fucking hit me and see what you got coming you pussy. at least it was enough for him to to let go of her throat so she could breathe but that concrete did hurt my toosh LOL then I went home and told my daddy.
 
Smurfy said:
yeah I guess that depends on where you live.

my long lost best friend had been living with a fireman whose father was also the mayor and whose brother was on the police f0rce in this town. everytime he's beat her ass and she'd call the cops - guess who shows up to their house/ daddy and brother. until the day I was there and witnessed him choking her out in a locked bedroom. her sister and I called the cops and they real deal actually showed up but it took quite a bit of explanation and convincing for them to believe it was anything more than an alcohol-induced lover's quarrel.
anywho he was convicted (not sure of the exact charges) and he never lost his job as far as I remember but this was a while ago so I could be off there. but anywho yeah. that fucker knocked me down to the concrete when I yelled obscenities at him in a distraction attempt. I basically yelled hey fuck you motherfucker come fucking hit me and see what you got coming you pussy. at least it was enough for him to to let go of her throat so she could breathe but that concrete did hurt my toosh LOL then I went home and told my daddy.
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good for you. not many women have friends like that.
 
I'm glad you are back and okay.
 
heatherrae said:
Well, I haven't been on here for a while, because my ex-bf always said I was on here flirting and emailing pictures. I've been called every name in the book by that guy. So, I agreed not to come on here. However, he started getting so jealous that I couldn't even leave the house to go to the gym, or anywhere else, for that matter, and last night, he did this:

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Yep, that is my blood and what used to be a pretty nice dress and purse. =-(

Had to call 911, etc. He is out of the house for a few days so that I can leave.

This is probably the most embarassing, Jerry Springer type situation I have ever been in. Wow, I can't believe I let him tell me to not talk to my friends. Screw him.
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Dam girl glad you are ok. The most important thing is getting out and getting your lfe back. You don;t need someone like that in your life. Lucky you found out now before you married him.
 
4everhung said:
and in answer to your question
I don't think she's drinking still
she came from a very conservative "Church of Christ" family
our 2 years of marriage were a lie to her family
she came to the funeral home for a visitation after we had been divorced a number of years
she apologized to my mom(I wasn't there)
pregnant now and married again
I had apologized to her family long before
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sounds painful.
 
Smurfy said:
yeah I guess that depends on where you live.

my long lost best friend had been living with a fireman whose father was also the mayor and whose brother was on the police f0rce in this town. everytime he's beat her ass and she'd call the cops - guess who shows up to their house/ daddy and brother. until the day I was there and witnessed him choking her out in a locked bedroom. her sister and I called the cops and they real deal actually showed up but it took quite a bit of explanation and convincing for them to believe it was anything more than an alcohol-induced lover's quarrel.
anywho he was convicted (not sure of the exact charges) and he never lost his job as far as I remember but this was a while ago so I could be off there. but anywho yeah. that fucker knocked me down to the concrete when I yelled obscenities at him in a distraction attempt. I basically yelled hey fuck you motherfucker come fucking hit me and see what you got coming you pussy. at least it was enough for him to to let go of her throat so she could breathe but that concrete did hurt my toosh LOL then I went home and told my daddy.
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That's Smurfy for you! YOu are the best Smurf!

I grew up in a very violent household. I saw my stepdad beat my mom so badly that he broke bones, kicked her in the stomach when she was pregnant, causing a miscarriage, etc.

I really honestly thought that it would never happen to me because I thought I would never fall for that type of guy. I generally like more nerdy, smart, professional types. I really sort of jumped in this headlong without getting to know him well enough first.

It sort of started out like a fairytale and slipped slowly backwards, and by then I was too ashamed to admit to my friends and family that I had made a mistake. I am proud to a fault.

I still don't want to tell my family that I screwed up.
 
heatherrae said:
He says that everyone else needs to be "normal" so that he won't get pissed off. !!!
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:lmao: Well bless his heart.


I ended up with a dude once that evolved into posessivenss and abuse. First time he hit me I hit him in the face with a serving bowl and broke his nose. Then he threw me headfirst into a sheetrock wall. I retaliated by pulling the sparkplug wires out of his car since I knew his ride was his baby. Then he tried to come after me again and I whipped the hell out of his face with the wires till he was on his knees covering his face. His neighbors called the police saying a woman was killing the guy next door. We both got arrested. Then he moved onto a chick what would take his gay bullshit.

They give exactly what they know you'll take. Dont take anything at all, ever. :)
 
heatherrae said:
That's Smurfy for you! YOu are the best Smurf!

I grew up in a very violent household. I saw my stepdad beat my mom so badly that he broke bones, kicked her in the stomach when she was pregnant, causing a miscarriage, etc.

I really honestly thought that it would never happen to me because I thought I would never fall for that type of guy. I generally like more nerdy, smart, professional types. I really sort of jumped in this headlong without getting to know him well enough first.

It sort of started out like a fairytale and slipped slowly backwards, and by then I was too ashamed to admit to my friends and family that I had made a mistake. I am proud to a fault.

I still don't want to tell my family that I screwed up.
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Right. The thing you know though is that your family loves you no matter wha, and ultimately they want you to be safe and happy.
 
RottenWillow said:
:lmao: Well bless his heart.


I ended up with a dude once that evolved into posessivenss and abuse. First time he hit me I hit him in the face with a serving bowl and broke his nose. Then he threw me headfirst into a sheetrock wall. I retaliated by pulling the sparkplug wires out of his car since I knew his ride was his baby. Then he tried to come after me again and I whipped the hell out of his face with the wires till he was on his knees covering his face. His neighbors called the police saying a woman was killing the guy next door. We both got arrested. Then he moved onto a chick what would take his gay bullshit.

They give exactly what they know you'll take. Dont take anything at all, ever. :)
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Damn Girl! LOL. Remind me not to tick you off. I do believe you could whip my butt. You know what is weird? Whenever anyone has ever tried to hit me in the past (not bf's. This is the first for that) I have always kicked their butts. However, when he pushes and shoves, throws things, etc I have always just tried to get him to quit and calm him down.

Damn, when the hell did I become an enabler, rewarding his outbursts by cooing at him to calm down? DUH!
 
RottenWillow said:
:lmao: Well bless his heart.


I ended up with a dude once that evolved into posessivenss and abuse. First time he hit me I hit him in the face with a serving bowl and broke his nose. Then he threw me headfirst into a sheetrock wall. I retaliated by pulling the sparkplug wires out of his car since I knew his ride was his baby. Then he tried to come after me again and I whipped the hell out of his face with the wires till he was on his knees covering his face. His neighbors called the police saying a woman was killing the guy next door. We both got arrested. Then he moved onto a chick what would take his gay bullshit.

They give exactly what they know you'll take. Dont take anything at all, ever. :)
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It only takes once for me and I'm done with them. And women are just as violent as men. Most men are just too embarrassed to admit it.
 
BTW, did I say I'm sorry and that we're glad to have you back!
 
biteme said:
It only takes once for me and I'm done with them. And women are just as violent as men. Most men are just too embarrassed to admit it.
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I don't doubt that a bit. Women think they can do it and get away with it. Either way is wrong!
 
Holy shit girl, I am so sorry. I cannot see the pics as my comp screen is messed up, and also I am not sure that I really want to see them.
If you need any one to talk to or vent/bitch to I will listen.
Btw, glad you are back. Shit loads of people have noticed you missing!
 
heatherrae said:
However, when he pushes and shoves, throws things, etc I have always just tried to get him to quit and calm him down.
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Probably b/c he pressed your "mommy" button and you tried to help him.
 
Angel said:
Holy shit girl, I am so sorry. I cannot see the pics as my comp screen is messed up, and also I am not sure that I really want to see them.
If you need any one to talk to or vent/bitch to I will listen.
Btw, glad you are back. Shit loads of people have noticed you missing!
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THanks sweetie! =-)
 
heatherrae said:
THanks sweetie! =-)
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EEEeeeckk, I think you are right. I always took pride in thinking that living in an abusive home as a child had no impact on me and was proud that I went on to be an attorney, didn't need anyone, etc. etc. Then, something like this happens and I realize that I try to make nice with people like that. The more they act up, the more I try to fix it, fix them, fix all their problems, blah, blah.
 
heatherrae said:
EEEeeeckk, I think you are right. I always took pride in thinking that living in an abusive home as a child had no impact on me and was proud that I went on to be an attorney, didn't need anyone, etc. etc. Then, something like this happens and I realize that I try to make nice with people like that. The more they act up, the more I try to fix it, fix them, fix all their problems, blah, blah.
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Girl you need to leave and never look back. You are worth far more than to ever be treated like that. There is absolutely NO excuse at all for a man to act like that reguardless of what he believes his woman is doing.
I am truly glad that you are ok..Stay strong hun, things can only go up after they have gone down.
 
does this make you want to work with abused woman in the future? First hand experience can be a powerful motivator.
 
gotmilk said:
does this make you want to work with abused woman in the future? First hand experience can be a powerful motivator.
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I actually thought about that. Back when I had my own shingle hung, I did lots of work for abused children. Those cases only paid $250 per case, and I usually spent more out of my own pocket than I made, but I felt like I was making a difference, which is good.

Maybe there is a reason that life sort of took me in a full circle to my past. ??? I like to look at the silver lining to every cloud.
 
God, thanks so much guys! I feel like this huge weight has been lifted off of me. I have been kept under this weird isolation and secrecy for so long. As embarassed as I am, I feel so much better to have gotten it out in the open.

You are really a great group of people.
 
heatherrae said:
I actually thought about that. Back when I had my own shingle hung, I did lots of work for abused children. Those cases only paid $250 per case, and I usually spent more out of my own pocket than I made, but I felt like I was making a difference, which is good.

Maybe there is a reason that life sort of took me in a full circle to my past. ??? I like to look at the silver lining to every cloud.
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How about working with abused C&C posters? :qt:
 
heather I'm so sorry that man touched you like that. I'd rip his nutz off & shove them down his throat so far that they'd come out his ass if I could for you. He's obviously got his own issues. No one deserves that treatment.
 
Sassy69 said:
heather I'm so sorry that man touched you like that. I'd rip his nutz off & shove them down his throat so far that they'd come out his ass if I could for you. He's obviously got his own issues. No one deserves that treatment.
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Agreed and love the visual

*small hijack* Sassy go over to my roll call thread I need to know how to get the rest of this protan off me by next Satuday. KTHKS :qt:
 
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Glad your OK HR, welcome back.


LOL! @ all the peeps spinning horrible e-game at HR. Give it up.
 
heatherrae said:
That's Smurfy for you! YOu are the best Smurf!

I grew up in a very violent household. I saw my stepdad beat my mom so badly that he broke bones, kicked her in the stomach when she was pregnant, causing a miscarriage, etc.

I really honestly thought that it would never happen to me because I thought I would never fall for that type of guy. I generally like more nerdy, smart, professional types. I really sort of jumped in this headlong without getting to know him well enough first.

It sort of started out like a fairytale and slipped slowly backwards, and by then I was too ashamed to admit to my friends and family that I had made a mistake. I am proud to a fault.

I still don't want to tell my family that I screwed up.
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You didn't screw up...he did. Case closed.
 
redguru said:
What's with the sophomoric attempts at E-game in this thread?
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What's with the pointless comments about people just trying to help somebody thru a difficult situation?
 
Dial_tone said:
What's with the pointless comments about people just trying to help somebody thru a difficult situation?
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What's with everybody asking questions in this thread?
 
heatherrae said:
That's Smurfy for you! YOu are the best Smurf!

I grew up in a very violent household. I saw my stepdad beat my mom so badly that he broke bones, kicked her in the stomach when she was pregnant, causing a miscarriage, etc.

I really honestly thought that it would never happen to me because I thought I would never fall for that type of guy. I generally like more nerdy, smart, professional types. I really sort of jumped in this headlong without getting to know him well enough first.

It sort of started out like a fairytale and slipped slowly backwards, and by then I was too ashamed to admit to my friends and family that I had made a mistake. I am proud to a fault.

I still don't want to tell my family that I screwed up.
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I've never seen such violence
not me
not my sisters
not my brother
not my mom/dad
not my grandad/granma
etc.
 
all your clues were most likely available to you in the first hour
but you didn't notice them
 
HR, glad to know you made it out only slightly scathed. The worst is behind you now; and to quote a famous philosopher "Love is a battlefield"
 
hotzie said:
but id still hit
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she's a sharp girl
I was disappointed in what was happening
kind of clear to me
you could tell from her involvement here she liked attention AND to participate
and she goes and settles down with a guy that's going to throttle her
 
pdaddy said:
HH, glad to know you made it out only slightly scathed. The worst is behind you now; and to quote a famous philosopher "Love is a battlefield"
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lol I think that may have been a freudian slip?

You did mean HR, not HH right?


:qt:
 
GoldenDelicious said:
theres only one thing i hate more than guys that hit women...

fat chicks
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What about guys who hit fat chicks?

So what are you going to do for money HR? Can you move in with friends or relatives, do you have a job you can support yourself with.
 
Smurfy said:
rofl!!!!!!!!!!!! You little rascal.

Im too observant for your own good.

That's ok. I still love you/
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That's the first time you ever told me you loved me, I think we just had a real moment there.
 
GoldenDelicious said:
toughie. they kinda cancel each other out. id have to say...its alright
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What if you have a girl who is attractive now but was extremely fat 5 year ago? What if you have a girl who is extremely fat now but will be attractive down the road?

These are the questions Buddhists think of to clear their minds.

FTR I love chubby women. Thick thighs and the curve of a love handle under a tight shirt are really hot to me.
 
Lao Tzu said:
What if you have a girl who is attractive now but was extremely fat 5 year ago? What if you have a girl who is extremely fat now but will be attractive down the road?

These are the questions Buddhists think of to clear their minds.
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I've come to the conclusion that if they are fat, there's a 90% chance that they are gonna stay that way or revert back to being fat once they lose weight. People are creatures of habit, and those habits are hard to break.
 
biteme said:
I've come to the conclusion that if they are fat, there's a 90% chance that they are gonna stay that way or revert back to being fat once they lose weight. People are creatures of habit, and those habits are hard to break.
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True. Preaching weight loss is like preaching abstinance. It sounds great on paper but doesn't work too well in reality.
 
Lao Tzu said:
What if you have a girl who is attractive now but was extremely fat 5 year ago? What if you have a girl who is extremely fat now but will be attractive down the road?

These are the questions Buddhists think of to clear their minds.

FTR I love chubby women. Thick thighs and the curve of a love handle under a tight shirt are really hot to me.
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the answer depends on how she looked at the moment of impact

buddhists, mang. they think theyre all brainy but really, they got no common sense :eolleyes:
 
GoldenDelicious said:
the answer depends on how she looked at the moment of impact

buddhists, mang. they think theyre all brainy but really, they got no common sense :eolleyes:
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You misspelled rolleyes brainiac. :rolleyes:
 
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