Honest answers only....about relationships.....

[PHATchik]

LOL @ Beating with a club!! I am not even going to make comment, LOL.

GoodLuck PC.

Love is grand when with the right person, it is never purrrrrfect. It requires effort, & communication, also commitment.

Thanks. And I agree.

 

[velvett]

Is rory his real name?

I want a great lover, a great dancer, a great friend and a great cook in that order.

Yes.

I cook better than I dance but I'm a better friend and lover than chef.

 

[vinylgroover]

Yes.

I cook better than I dance but I'm a better friend and lover than chef.

that's ok, coz I can teach you how to dance...........but you can't teach someone to cook.

You're hired velvett

 

[flex123]

I think it's unfair to expect perfection from another person-- I sure as hell wouldn't want someone to expect me to be perfect. It's VERY easy to maintain a relationship with someone who always says the right thing etc. But that's not a very genuine relationship.

Sometimes I think you have to go through hell with someone to really realize how much the relationship means. I'm in a happy relationship right now with my best friend-- but sometimes I really just want to strangle him. lol And I'm sure he thinks the same of me from time to time. But we're happy way more than we're not.

I think we were both a lot happier with our relationship when we accepted that we're both flawed people and we have to actually work to keep things exciting. You can't just coast-- it works at first but not after a long while.

I think you have the perfect view on it right there. It's frustrating when you feel someone is only saying just what you want to hear, just to say it.

People need to be truthful and not just same the right things cause they feel it would make things better.

And yeah both people in a relationship shouldnt be expecting perfection from each other. No ones perfect and most important in a relationship is compadibility and how you handle issues that both deal with personaly and together.

 

[Taps]

Back to Rory for a second here.

He's 44 and unmarried. Is he rich, or at least well off? I get the feeling he is...just a hunch.

 

[PHATchik]

Back to Rory for a second here.

He's 44 and unmarried. Is he rich, or at least well off? I get the feeling he is...just a hunch.

Looking for inspiration?

 

[Taps]

I'd prefer observation over inspiration, but I'll take constipation and molestation instead -- way more fun.

 

[Raina]

I've never had a long-term very close friend in a non-romantic sort of way who didn't drive me up the wall from time to time. I think that in a romantic relationship you have to weigh what you have, pros and cons against what you're potentially missing out on by being comitted.

For me, I wouldn't want to be with anyone else. Sometimes he's a huge pain in the ass, but he's MY pain in the ass. lol It's unconditional. I don't just quit on the whole deal because he had a crappy day and isn't up for listening to me chatter about whatever. Nor does he just say "screw this" when I'm moody and less than a peach. It's give and take. But we're an awesome match.

I don't think every moment has to be buttercups and giggles, but there's no reason for anyone to tolerate mistreatment or unhappiness. Life's too short to be tied to someone who's holding you back. I think a good relationship is a partnership-- you are going in the same general direction in life, sometimes side by side and sometimes helping the other along.

 

[PHATchik]

I'd prefer observation over inspiration, but I'll take constipation and molestation instead -- way more fun.