Honest answers only....about relationships.....

[Dial_tone]

Well, I thought that my wife and I had that exactly. I fell in love with her the first night I met her and I thought she had the same. At least, thats what I thought for the last 5 years until I just recently found out that she was still sleeping with another guy for the first month I knew her.

Knew her or dated her? maybe it took that long to wrap up whatever relationship she was in. 5 years later she's still with you, sounds good to me.

 

[wannabeflexygrl]

Originally posted by gab9681

Gab,

If you seriously have all that but your wife made a mistake five years ago.......then let it go.


You have something that not many people will ever have. Now go kiss your wife........

 

[gab9681]

Gab,

If you seriously have all that but your wife made a mistake five years ago.......then let it go.


You have something that not many people will ever have. Now go kiss your wife........

Yeah, exactly, that was my point. I was disappointed to find this all out, but that is her only flaw. And yes, I will kiss my wife now I believe.

 

[Code]

Are you the girl who's husband cheated on her and he came on here to apologize??


Anyway, hold out for the "whole package", I did. It will come.

Since my whole DRAMA SESSION I've been thinking a lot about relationships. I keep fantasizing about a relationship where when you meet eachother you just look at eachother and you just know that this is the right one for you. A relationship where the sex stays exciting because you both always want eachother. A relationship where you are always on the same page. A relationship where you make love for the first time and everything is just right......

Does anyone know what I'm talking about? Is it too much to expect the whole package, good conversation, attraction, good sex, same morals and values?

Is this just a pipe dream? Am I just brainwashed by society and TV?

 

[PHATchik]

I wouldn't settle for anything less....

 

[Sir-Que]

I wouldn't settle for anything less....

BULLSHIT!!!!! The truth is most people will settle for almost anything. I see both men and woman, young an old dealing with people I would refuse to have a conversation with. If a guy say's I WON'T SETTLE I would be inclined to believe him even though sometimes it ain't true.

But women 70% to 80% of the time women do settle. Men just have more EQUALIZERS than women socialy so it's not possible for most women NOT to settle, cause most do and know it til later

 

[PHATchik]

BULLSHIT!!!!! The truth is most people will settle for almost anything. I see both men and woman, young an old dealing with people I would refuse to have a conversation with. If a guy say's I WON'T SETTLE I would be inclined to believe him even though sometimes it ain't true.

But women 70% to 80% of the time women do settle. Men just have more EQUALIZERS than women socialy so it's not possible for most women NOT to settle, cause most do and know it til later

You called bullshit on the wrong person babe. This woman won't settle. I actually had a conversation about a few weeks ago with a friend of mine. She was my RA last year and had gone through a lot of stuff with me. We discussed the idea of settling. She was actually afraid that I might.

Here's the thing though. You can settle for less. I could find that person that would treat me like gold and love me dearly. I don't think I would have to worry about him ever getting tired of me. But what if I don't love him that much? What if it's not that knock your socks off kinda love? It's not fair to him. Doesn't he deserve someone that feels that same way? I know this because I know someone like that now. He's stuck around for nearly four years waiting for me to give him a chance even when I was involved with someone else. No, he's not psycho before any of you say it. And yes, some women would settle for that. He would do his damnest to make me happy. He'll help me out in any way he can. I told him he deserves better though and that I can't be what he wants. I have never felt the same way nor will I. He knows this, and it breaks my heart that he can't move on.

Then there's the kind of thing that is described in this thread. That passion. That romance that never dies. That love that you feel everytime you think about that person or you see them or anything like that. I've had a taste of what she described in this thread once upon a time, and there's no way in Hell I'd settle for anything less than that. I think we all deserve to find that person that will make us feel that way. And if it's not there, then I can't be a part of it. So no, I don't intend to settle.

 

[Code]

Brolly, it took me 2 years to get into phatchick's pants.
She's a tough cookie.

BULLSHIT!!!!! The truth is most people will settle for almost anything. )

 

[PHATchik]

Brolly, it took me 2 years to get into phatchick's pants.
She's a tough cookie.

LOL!

 

[Dial_tone]

Brolly, it took me 2 years to get into phatchick's pants.
She's a tough cookie.

I've struck out for a year and she graduates in a few months....I'm fucked and not in the good way.