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Razorguns
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You hear about the garbage that beat and killed his 7 y/o son here in la?? All over the news. Such ghetto trash.
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goodbye mother.
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You hear about the garbage that beat and killed his 7 y/o son here in la?? All over the news. Such ghetto trash.
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btw, as some of you might know, about 5 years ago (maybe more), i lost 100 lbs in around 10 months.
during that time, i had very little contact with my mother.
when i was done losing the weight, my mother said i'd look perfect if i could lose another 20.
my grandmother said i'd look great, if only i could slim down my thighs.
that is my family.
this is what i looked like (i look relatively the same now, just with neater hair and bigger boobs):
during that time, i had very little contact with my mother.
when i was done losing the weight, my mother said i'd look perfect if i could lose another 20.
my grandmother said i'd look great, if only i could slim down my thighs.
that is my family.
this is what i looked like (i look relatively the same now, just with neater hair and bigger boobs):
Razorguns
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The petty comment was not directed at letto's situation.
I think what her mother said was pretty fucked up actually. I just couldn't imagine not having a relationship with my mother/father. I would try to work things before putting them completely out of my life.
Oh shit, now I'm gonna sound like Psych 101, but I seriously think the root of her vitriol is her own loss of youth and total projection of her insecurities onto you. There probably is a real, nuturing concern deep down for your welfare which she really doesn't know how to express beyond a weird sort of contempt.
I think the mother-daughter dynamic has got to be the reference for the primordial archtype of a creator-destroyer (Ariel?) I seriously think it's the one force that could destroy a world.
I know you know that you are none of those hateful things she implied. And I completely understand that your grief lies in the Loss of that one person who is supposed to love you unconditionally.
She needs a good flooding of crone imagery.
I think the mother-daughter dynamic has got to be the reference for the primordial archtype of a creator-destroyer (Ariel?) I seriously think it's the one force that could destroy a world.
I know you know that you are none of those hateful things she implied. And I completely understand that your grief lies in the Loss of that one person who is supposed to love you unconditionally.
She needs a good flooding of crone imagery.
no, i hear ya.
i don't want to not have a relationship with her. i don't know how i will at this point. i mean, first of all, right now i'm too mad and hurt to want to talk to her, but even once i get over it, i don't think i'll want to SEE her, or have her see me, knowing how little she thinks of my looks.
my hair is never "cute" enough, i don't dress well enough, my dogs are not well behaved enough, my kids are too quiet, she can't understand why i don't hire a cleaning woman, get botox, or shop in designer stores only.
even with all of that, I'm always a good host when she visits. Even she says so.
well i can't anymore.
That's really fucked up. I'm sure they are and always have been completely perfect
Maybe you should just do what swole suggested lol.
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