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goodbye mother.
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She would have a fuckin field day with this thread.
Razorguns
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Probably 50 replies by now. I'm gonna search and see if she posted a thread saying she's leaving or something. Someone do some research and get back to me!
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That's horrible. She is your mother, even if those things were true (which those that have seen you/pictures knows its not) she should not say it anyway. Just due to her being your mother she needs to have your feelings take account for something.
People like that do not deserve you. I know she is your mother and it is a harsh thing to decide. However, if she has nothing nice to offer you (at all) than you are better off without the nonsense. If this was a one time rudeness than maybe there is something going on in her life that has you so stressed. You need to keep in mind that you only get one mother in this world.
Very tough situation regardless. My mother drives me nuts and makes me want to smash my head into a wall, however she is my mum. So I stand by her idiotic ways....I would be very conflicted if I were in your shoes.
People like that do not deserve you. I know she is your mother and it is a harsh thing to decide. However, if she has nothing nice to offer you (at all) than you are better off without the nonsense. If this was a one time rudeness than maybe there is something going on in her life that has you so stressed. You need to keep in mind that you only get one mother in this world.
Very tough situation regardless. My mother drives me nuts and makes me want to smash my head into a wall, however she is my mum. So I stand by her idiotic ways....I would be very conflicted if I were in your shoes.
yeah, i know.
i've been having the most messed up conversation with her - i'm showing her that she acted JUST like her mother, who she doesn't talk to. She said it's not the same at all, because her mother said things like that to her to be mean, and she didn't. I said I bet grandma wouldn't agree with that. I also asked her how she feels now that I just told her something very similar. she said i'm just being mean and vindictive.
okay... and the difference is what?
so i asked if it would be ok if i said it because i care?
she's not talking to me now.
i can't deal with it. she holds money over my head to make me think it's okay.
Sorry to hear about that.
My father has said some nasty stuff to me that is crushing.
I can relate. ((hugs))
you're not alone, and I know it doesn't make it easier, because it sucks
did you ever get past it?
(it's not what she said, it's the fact that my own mother said it, for no reason).
past it?
oh yeah totally.. if you enjoy becoming a non-confident, anxiety ridden,hard drug user(clean now)
other than that it's been a breeze
I love my life right now with my daughter and wife and that's all the joy I need in the end
I find this thread to be rather pathetic.
Family members say fucked up things to each other. That is the way things go. Get over it. Your idyllic vision of a mother-daughter relationship does not exist in reality.
So your mother is a bitch, most mothers are bitches. So your mother didnt say you were beautiful, I'm fucking sobbing over here.
Is she unpleasant? Sure, I'll give you that. This isn't worth the drama you're giving it. Sounds like a bunch of spoiled, sheltered, mommy doesn't love me bullshit to me.
Go out to brunch and get over yourselves.
Family members say fucked up things to each other. That is the way things go. Get over it. Your idyllic vision of a mother-daughter relationship does not exist in reality.
So your mother is a bitch, most mothers are bitches. So your mother didnt say you were beautiful, I'm fucking sobbing over here.
Is she unpleasant? Sure, I'll give you that. This isn't worth the drama you're giving it. Sounds like a bunch of spoiled, sheltered, mommy doesn't love me bullshit to me.
Go out to brunch and get over yourselves.
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