goodbye mother.

[stilleto]

I understand.

My point was, perhaps your mom seen 2 J&J people who happened to look like 24 y.o. supermodels and deduced that all people there looked that way.

Not the greatest display of logic, butt when it cums to mom's voicing opinions logic doesn't always prevail.

that would be a very plausible explanation for most people, but it's doubtful that it's the case this time- she does know a lot about pharmaceutical sales- her second husband started his career as one. but she also knows that I work in a corporate environment and not in sales.

i really am not bothered by my mother's thoughts- i don't care if she thinks i'm an ogre.
I come from a long line of models, professional ballet dancers, and plastic surgery recipients. If i was insecure about my appearance, i'd never have a family because i am taller, bigger, and not as attractive as any other woman in my family. i don't care. i just wish my mother didn't feel like she had to remind me of that for no reason.

 

[redsamurai]

and not as attractive as any other woman in my family. i don't care. .

see that's just a bullshit statement right here. Beauty is such a relative thing but we're all so fucking preconditioned by this society it's disgusting. If some people looked at your family tree they may very well agree with your assessment. Others may look at the exact same pictures and say bish you trippin. God when did we become this repellantly homogenized?

 

[stilleto]

see that's just a bullshit statement right here. Beauty is such a relative thing but we're all so fucking preconditioned by this society it's disgusting. If some people looked at your family tree they may very well agree with your assessment. Others may look at the exact same pictures and say bish you trippin. God when did we become this repellantly homogenized?

for the same reason that I don't care if I have a designer purse, is the same reason i don't care if i'm a size 2 with a model's face.

i'm fine with who i am. my mother is not. she told me last night that she has wanted to talk to me about my appearance for years.

what about it? my hair is too long, i don't wear lipstick, anything over a size 8 is fat, tshirts (even on the weekend) are wrong, handmade jewelry (the stuff i make) is ugly, and probably lots of other things I don't pay attention to or care about.

 

[redsamurai]

pics or stfu

for the same reason that I don't care if I have a designer purse, is the same reason i don't care if i'm a size 2 with a model's face.

i'm fine with who i am. my mother is not. she told me last night that she has wanted to talk to me about my appearance for years.

what about it? my hair is too long, i don't wear lipstick, anything over a size 8 is fat, tshirts (even on the weekend) are wrong, handmade jewelry (the stuff i make) is ugly, and probably lots of other things I don't pay attention to or care about.

yeah like seriously, pics now. Can we at least see the twins clothed?

 

[jackangel]

How much can she pull off the floor? Below the knee? If she isn't repping with at least 200*, she's a terrible mother. Tell her I said so.





* chalk only

 

[Razorguns]

God when did we become this repellantly homogenized?

The day that people started goign to clubs on weekends and finding out the hard just how 'attractive' they are when they try to hit on people. "Everyone is beautiful" theory ends at the club door.

r

 

[cindylou]

The day that people started goign to clubs on weekends and finding out the hard just how 'attractive' they are when they try to hit on people. "Everyone is beautiful" theory ends at the club door.

r

the fucking CLUB is ten years of your life tops. TOPS.

what a shallow existance to think what people at a CLUB thinks actually matters in the whole scheme of things

all of those type of people deserve eachother

 

[Razorguns]

the fucking CLUB is ten years of your life tops. TOPS.

what a shallow existance to think what people at a CLUB thinks actually matters in the whole scheme of things

all of those type of people deserve eachother

It's what's important to peoel from ages 14-40. People need to find partners, get married and procreate. No one congrulates someone on EF when they proudly claim they gained 10lbs.

Oh crap, thread going off a tangent! Shit, i've become exaclty who I hate.

r

 

[stilleto]

by the way, i hope she doesn't me saying this, but i got a very helpful, warm, (and long. ) pm from bikinimom, which helped me put some things in perspective and understand a little better.
I want to publicly thank her.

thank you.

 

[cindylou]

why aint she postin anymore