Fuck Buddies who have issues....... play or stay away??

[JoNeS]

Backround: Met this chick Amy 2 years ago over the internet. Talked with her for atleast an hour every day on the phone for a month and a 1/2. I learned just an absolute shit load of personal things about her. ALot of bad things, but non-the less * fell in love with her personality * if you will..... Finally went out with her, had a great time, nothing developed cuz I ended up re-uniting with an ex, and was with her for the next 6 mths.

Kept in touch with Amy, maybe talked once a month, met up with her a few times at some bars, never hooked up she always had a BF.

Flash forward to this week, went over to her place sunday, turns out she's on the rocks with her BF.....ending up messing around, no sex. (could have though, i dunno i dropped the ball) Calls me up, tells me how she had a great time with me, loved hanging out, wants to do it again.

Calls me last night tells me she just broke up with her BF, so we get together, hook up, have sex. It was fucking incredible, probably the best sex I've had, ever.

She starts tellin me how she's liked me forever, we have so much in common, yadda yadda. Practically pouring her heart out to me. I'm honest with her, tell her I like kicking it with her, she's a fun person and I'm super attracted to her. But tell her I won't make a good BF, i'm not looking to date anyone, and I don't want a relationship, with her...or anyone right now.

Suprisingly she says she's cool with that, and is cool with being fuck buddies. No joke!! She says likes hanging out with me, and wants to continue, no strings attached.


Sounds good right?? Heres my dillemma, this girl has fucking issues, fucking Dr. Drew love line style.

- Previous drug addictions, she goes to Annoymous meetings now
- Father abused her
- Older Sister Commited suicide
- Had an abortion this summer
- and i know thers another one i'm forgetting.


I like this girl, she's fun to talk to, she's fun to hang out with, she's Gorgeous, and she's fucking INCREDIBLE in the sack.

Unfortunately, I would never date her. Ever. I had a gf before who had 1/2 of those issues, and that was a fucked up 9 mth's of my life. I learned from that mistake.

My problem is, is she OK to keep as a friend with benefits?? Any of you guys hooked up with a chick who has crazy issues like these before? I'm saying Fuck NO to dating, but i'm not sure about a no strings attached F-Buddy or not.............and I'm afraid if things continue, I might even fall for her. And then get sucked into her life and her problems.

And i know, she's gonna fall for me (even though she says no strings) and I'm afraid things are gonna get nasty. Cuz i WILL NOT, get involved with someone with her history. Too many problems, I've even started to experience some with her. (( she was trying to get me to take some adderall......... i know fucked up right ?? ))

.............But on the flip side, she's Fucking Hot, my best sex ever, and her personality is cool as hell.

Proceede with extreme caution?? Or run? see I don't even think i'd be able to keep her as a"just friends" now, cuz we crossed the line... and it will happen again

 

[Mavafanculo]

 

[The Shadow]

She just broke up but banged you??


dood........

 

[JoNeS]

She just broke up but banged you??


dood........

.... she said she's been on the rocks with this guy. Besides most people don't end relationships untill the have something brewing on the side.

Yea Yea, I know she's not girlfriend material. I'm just worried if she's too messed up to even be friends with benefits material, if there is such a *too crazy, for that.

 

[KillahBee]

lol at Mava

Dude, she is a DIME A DOZEN. Speaking from VAST experience, there is only 1 way this will go:

You keep hittin it, keep telling her you will never be her BF and take all precautions possible...she agrees. You just hit the jackpot, right? Fast forward a few weeks - she's calling you at work sitting inside her car rolled into a ball crying her eyes out telling you she's going to swallow a bullet cause she hates herself so much. You, naturally, play the hero and fill the father figure void and become the shoulder to cry on. Fast forward another few weeks - every time you stick your dick inside her you have visions of bunnies being boiled in your home. With each pump, you hear "I will not be ignored, Dan!", "I will not be ignored, Dan!", "I will not be ignored, Dan!". You bail, tell her she's crazy. She text messages you for months apologizing for being such a terrible person and telling you that "you have helped me face parts of myself I never wanted to". You change your number.


Run broham, run.

 

[Dial_tone]

If you do make it clear you're hittin something else on the side; otherwise she WILL get attached. She probably will anyway. She sounds needy. I would limit the non-bedroom contact and phoning an hour a day for 6 weeks ain't the way to do that.

 

[digimon7068]

Suprisingly she says she's cool with that, and is cool with being fuck buddies. No joke!!

. . .yup. . .you're right. . .that's what's called a fucking L-I-E. . .

 

[Wulfgar]

isnt one of the prerequisites of a FB that they have issues?

 

[seaking420]

Id keep f'n her, but like DT said, limit the non-bedroom contact

 

[Frisky]

you already fucked up fucking her the first time. Cut your losses, no matter how good the sex is... its not good enough to keep her eh? If you already are questioning this fuck buddy and result to asking here... then you've already answered your question.