Fuck Buddies who have issues....... play or stay away??

[JoNeS]

Backround: Met this chick Amy 2 years ago over the internet. Talked with her for atleast an hour every day on the phone for a month and a 1/2. I learned just an absolute shit load of personal things about her. ALot of bad things, but non-the less * fell in love with her personality * if you will..... Finally went out with her, had a great time, nothing developed cuz I ended up re-uniting with an ex, and was with her for the next 6 mths.

Kept in touch with Amy, maybe talked once a month, met up with her a few times at some bars, never hooked up she always had a BF.

Flash forward to this week, went over to her place sunday, turns out she's on the rocks with her BF.....ending up messing around, no sex. (could have though, i dunno i dropped the ball) Calls me up, tells me how she had a great time with me, loved hanging out, wants to do it again.

Calls me last night tells me she just broke up with her BF, so we get together, hook up, have sex. It was fucking incredible, probably the best sex I've had, ever.

She starts tellin me how she's liked me forever, we have so much in common, yadda yadda. Practically pouring her heart out to me. I'm honest with her, tell her I like kicking it with her, she's a fun person and I'm super attracted to her. But tell her I won't make a good BF, i'm not looking to date anyone, and I don't want a relationship, with her...or anyone right now.

Suprisingly she says she's cool with that, and is cool with being fuck buddies. No joke!! She says likes hanging out with me, and wants to continue, no strings attached.


Sounds good right?? Heres my dillemma, this girl has fucking issues, fucking Dr. Drew love line style.

- Previous drug addictions, she goes to Annoymous meetings now
- Father abused her
- Older Sister Commited suicide
- Had an abortion this summer
- and i know thers another one i'm forgetting.


I like this girl, she's fun to talk to, she's fun to hang out with, she's Gorgeous, and she's fucking INCREDIBLE in the sack.

Unfortunately, I would never date her. Ever. I had a gf before who had 1/2 of those issues, and that was a fucked up 9 mth's of my life. I learned from that mistake.

My problem is, is she OK to keep as a friend with benefits?? Any of you guys hooked up with a chick who has crazy issues like these before? I'm saying Fuck NO to dating, but i'm not sure about a no strings attached F-Buddy or not.............and I'm afraid if things continue, I might even fall for her. And then get sucked into her life and her problems.

And i know, she's gonna fall for me (even though she says no strings) and I'm afraid things are gonna get nasty. Cuz i WILL NOT, get involved with someone with her history. Too many problems, I've even started to experience some with her. (( she was trying to get me to take some adderall......... i know fucked up right ?? ))

.............But on the flip side, she's Fucking Hot, my best sex ever, and her personality is cool as hell.

Proceede with extreme caution?? Or run? see I don't even think i'd be able to keep her as a"just friends" now, cuz we crossed the line... and it will happen again

 

[Mavafanculo]

 

[The Shadow]

She just broke up but banged you??


dood........

 

[JoNeS]

She just broke up but banged you??


dood........

.... she said she's been on the rocks with this guy. Besides most people don't end relationships untill the have something brewing on the side.

Yea Yea, I know she's not girlfriend material. I'm just worried if she's too messed up to even be friends with benefits material, if there is such a *too crazy, for that.

 

[KillahBee]

lol at Mava

Dude, she is a DIME A DOZEN. Speaking from VAST experience, there is only 1 way this will go:

You keep hittin it, keep telling her you will never be her BF and take all precautions possible...she agrees. You just hit the jackpot, right? Fast forward a few weeks - she's calling you at work sitting inside her car rolled into a ball crying her eyes out telling you she's going to swallow a bullet cause she hates herself so much. You, naturally, play the hero and fill the father figure void and become the shoulder to cry on. Fast forward another few weeks - every time you stick your dick inside her you have visions of bunnies being boiled in your home. With each pump, you hear "I will not be ignored, Dan!", "I will not be ignored, Dan!", "I will not be ignored, Dan!". You bail, tell her she's crazy. She text messages you for months apologizing for being such a terrible person and telling you that "you have helped me face parts of myself I never wanted to". You change your number.


Run broham, run.

 

[Dial_tone]

If you do make it clear you're hittin something else on the side; otherwise she WILL get attached. She probably will anyway. She sounds needy. I would limit the non-bedroom contact and phoning an hour a day for 6 weeks ain't the way to do that.

 

[digimon7068]

Suprisingly she says she's cool with that, and is cool with being fuck buddies. No joke!!

. . .yup. . .you're right. . .that's what's called a fucking L-I-E. . .

 

[Wulfgar]

isnt one of the prerequisites of a FB that they have issues?

 

[seaking420]

Id keep f'n her, but like DT said, limit the non-bedroom contact

 

[Frisky]

you already fucked up fucking her the first time. Cut your losses, no matter how good the sex is... its not good enough to keep her eh? If you already are questioning this fuck buddy and result to asking here... then you've already answered your question.

 

[string_bean00]

I'd keep hitting it, make some more stupid decisions and end up with the worst possible outcome (she tries to get pregnant, tries to kill you, etc etc)

lol but that's just me

 

[KillahBee]

lol at Mava

Dude, she is a DIME A DOZEN. Speaking from VAST experience, there is only 1 way this will go:

You keep hittin it, keep telling her you will never be her BF and take all precautions possible...she agrees. You just hit the jackpot, right? Fast forward a few weeks - she's calling you at work sitting inside her car rolled into a ball crying her eyes out telling you she's going to swallow a bullet cause she hates herself so much. You, naturally, play the hero and fill the father figure void and become the shoulder to cry on. Fast forward another few weeks - every time you stick your dick inside her you have visions of bunnies being boiled in your home. With each pump, you hear "I will not be ignored, Dan!", "I will not be ignored, Dan!", "I will not be ignored, Dan!". You bail, tell her she's crazy. She text messages you for months apologizing for being such a terrible person and telling you that "you have helped me face parts of myself I never wanted to". You change your number.


Run broham, run.

^^^^^this never happened to me btw. it's just a story I made up

 

[Frisky]

^^^^^this never happened to me btw. it's just a story I made up

lol

 

[manny78]

She just broke up but banged you??


dood........

That tells a lot.

 

[Turd Ferguson]

Backround: Met this chick Amy 2 years ago over the internet. Talked with her for atleast an hour every day on the phone for a month and a 1/2. I learned just an absolute shit load of personal things about her. ALot of bad things, but non-the less * fell in love with her personality * if you will..... Finally went out with her, had a great time, nothing developed cuz I ended up re-uniting with an ex, and was with her for the next 6 mths.

Kept in touch with Amy, maybe talked once a month, met up with her a few times at some bars, never hooked up she always had a BF.

Flash forward to this week, went over to her place sunday, turns out she's on the rocks with her BF.....ending up messing around, no sex. (could have though, i dunno i dropped the ball) Calls me up, tells me how she had a great time with me, loved hanging out, wants to do it again.

Calls me last night tells me she just broke up with her BF, so we get together, hook up, have sex. It was fucking incredible, probably the best sex I've had, ever.

She starts tellin me how she's liked me forever, we have so much in common, yadda yadda. Practically pouring her heart out to me. I'm honest with her, tell her I like kicking it with her, she's a fun person and I'm super attracted to her. But tell her I won't make a good BF, i'm not looking to date anyone, and I don't want a relationship, with her...or anyone right now.

Suprisingly she says she's cool with that, and is cool with being fuck buddies. No joke!! She says likes hanging out with me, and wants to continue, no strings attached.


Sounds good right?? Heres my dillemma, this girl has fucking issues, fucking Dr. Drew love line style.

- Previous drug addictions, she goes to Annoymous meetings now
- Father abused her
- Older Sister Commited suicide
- Had an abortion this summer
- and i know thers another one i'm forgetting.


I like this girl, she's fun to talk to, she's fun to hang out with, she's Gorgeous, and she's fucking INCREDIBLE in the sack.

Unfortunately, I would never date her. Ever. I had a gf before who had 1/2 of those issues, and that was a fucked up 9 mth's of my life. I learned from that mistake.

My problem is, is she OK to keep as a friend with benefits?? Any of you guys hooked up with a chick who has crazy issues like these before? I'm saying Fuck NO to dating, but i'm not sure about a no strings attached F-Buddy or not.............and I'm afraid if things continue, I might even fall for her. And then get sucked into her life and her problems.

And i know, she's gonna fall for me (even though she says no strings) and I'm afraid things are gonna get nasty. Cuz i WILL NOT, get involved with someone with her history. Too many problems, I've even started to experience some with her. (( she was trying to get me to take some adderall......... i know fucked up right ?? ))

.............But on the flip side, she's Fucking Hot, my best sex ever, and her personality is cool as hell.

Proceede with extreme caution?? Or run? see I don't even think i'd be able to keep her as a"just friends" now, cuz we crossed the line... and it will happen again

She probably knows that you will come around becuase the sex is so good. Thats about all it sounds like you love at this point. It always starts that way. Thats how they get you!

 

[bigred133]

They ALL have issues...

 

[FRC21]

I had a F/B chick with major issues also.
>3 abortions in about a 5 year period
>State Jail felony for speed (no job worth a damn after that
>2 year old little girl
>addicted to everything in the past (GHB, coke, speed, etc...)
Many more problems just too many to list.

Talk about a wild 1 year of my life. A wild bitch like this will suck the life right out of you. Best thing I ever did was change my telephone number and hide the fuck out!

 

[Adrian99]

I would keep on hitting it. Keep it as Friends with benefits for as long as you can. The best sex I ever had was with some crazy and psycho bitches. Good luck

 

[bigred133]

For us to really help you decide we need pics and a poll.

This thread is useless without pics

 

[SC4EVA]

Thats why she was the best sex!! With a f'ed life like all she has to fall back on is sex.

I say run though cause she will probably kill you too when she drives the car off a cliff.

 

[velvett]

My problem is, is she OK to keep as a friend with benefits??

Too many problems, I've even started to experience some with her.

But on the flip side, she's Fucking Hot, my best sex ever, and her personality is cool as hell.

Proceede with extreme caution?? Or run?

No.
You just answered your own question.
Stop thinking with your ego.
No.
Yes, run like hell.

 

[Nathan]

You had great sex cause she's crazy. I would play it the way you just did, and then do the foolish thing a few more times. I'd do my damndest to not make a long-term thing out of it though.

 

[Gambino]

Thats why she was the best sex!! With a f'ed life like all she has to fall back on is sex.

I say run though cause she will probably kill you too when she drives the car off a cliff.

LOL
yep, all she's got is the pussy. and it's good and you can't get enough.
peeps are gonna tell you to quit, and you proly should.
but you won't.
not now anyway.
please don't reproduce with her

 

[seaking420]

LOL
yep, all she's got is the pussy. and it's good and you can't get enough.
peeps are gonna tell you to quit, and you proly should.
but you won't.
not now anyway.
please don't reproduce with her

lmfao Thats a fact

 

[Lao Tzu]

lol at Mava

Dude, she is a DIME A DOZEN. Speaking from VAST experience, there is only 1 way this will go:

You keep hittin it, keep telling her you will never be her BF and take all precautions possible...she agrees. You just hit the jackpot, right? Fast forward a few weeks - she's calling you at work sitting inside her car rolled into a ball crying her eyes out telling you she's going to swallow a bullet cause she hates herself so much. You, naturally, play the hero and fill the father figure void and become the shoulder to cry on. Fast forward another few weeks - every time you stick your dick inside her you have visions of bunnies being boiled in your home. With each pump, you hear "I will not be ignored, Dan!", "I will not be ignored, Dan!", "I will not be ignored, Dan!". You bail, tell her she's crazy. She text messages you for months apologizing for being such a terrible person and telling you that "you have helped me face parts of myself I never wanted to". You change your number.


Run broham, run.

Thread of the year right here. LOL.

 

[Sub-Zero]

Backround: Met this chick Amy 2 years ago over the internet. Talked with her for atleast an hour every day on the phone for a month and a 1/2. I learned just an absolute shit load of personal things about her. ALot of bad things, but non-the less * fell in love with her personality * if you will..... Finally went out with her, had a great time, nothing developed cuz I ended up re-uniting with an ex, and was with her for the next 6 mths.

Kept in touch with Amy, maybe talked once a month, met up with her a few times at some bars, never hooked up she always had a BF.

Flash forward to this week, went over to her place sunday, turns out she's on the rocks with her BF.....ending up messing around, no sex. (could have though, i dunno i dropped the ball) Calls me up, tells me how she had a great time with me, loved hanging out, wants to do it again.

Calls me last night tells me she just broke up with her BF, so we get together, hook up, have sex. It was fucking incredible, probably the best sex I've had, ever.

She starts tellin me how she's liked me forever, we have so much in common, yadda yadda. Practically pouring her heart out to me. I'm honest with her, tell her I like kicking it with her, she's a fun person and I'm super attracted to her. But tell her I won't make a good BF, i'm not looking to date anyone, and I don't want a relationship, with her...or anyone right now.

Suprisingly she says she's cool with that, and is cool with being fuck buddies. No joke!! She says likes hanging out with me, and wants to continue, no strings attached.


Sounds good right?? Heres my dillemma, this girl has fucking issues, fucking Dr. Drew love line style.

- Previous drug addictions, she goes to Annoymous meetings now
- Father abused her
- Older Sister Commited suicide
- Had an abortion this summer
- and i know thers another one i'm forgetting.


I like this girl, she's fun to talk to, she's fun to hang out with, she's Gorgeous, and she's fucking INCREDIBLE in the sack.

Unfortunately, I would never date her. Ever. I had a gf before who had 1/2 of those issues, and that was a fucked up 9 mth's of my life. I learned from that mistake.

My problem is, is she OK to keep as a friend with benefits?? Any of you guys hooked up with a chick who has crazy issues like these before? I'm saying Fuck NO to dating, but i'm not sure about a no strings attached F-Buddy or not.............and I'm afraid if things continue, I might even fall for her. And then get sucked into her life and her problems.

And i know, she's gonna fall for me (even though she says no strings) and I'm afraid things are gonna get nasty. Cuz i WILL NOT, get involved with someone with her history. Too many problems, I've even started to experience some with her. (( she was trying to get me to take some adderall......... i know fucked up right ?? ))

.............But on the flip side, she's Fucking Hot, my best sex ever, and her personality is cool as hell.

Proceede with extreme caution?? Or run? see I don't even think i'd be able to keep her as a"just friends" now, cuz we crossed the line... and it will happen again

the classic advice in a situation like this is to remember shes someones daughter (even if he abused her).

have ur fun but if shit starts getting too messed up ( i guess ull have to be the judge or just post on EF and we will tell u when its time to quit it) then ull have to let her go.

btw, just letting u know that she didnt dump her BF till after u guys had sex, and she might have still not have dumped him, and didnt tell him she cheated, so watch out for that mess.

 

[Sub-Zero]

I'd keep hitting it, make some more stupid decisions and end up with the worst possible outcome (she tries to get pregnant, tries to kill you, etc etc)

lol but that's just me

id prolly end up just dating her and getting the HIV

 

[rudeboyja]

You would be good to go if you would have hit it from jump. Since you 1st went down the friendship road, NO way this doesn't turn out ugly.

 

[RottenWillow]

.....she's on the rocks with her BF.....ending up messing around, no sex. Calls me up, tells me how she had a great time with me, loved hanging out, wants to do it again.

Calls me last night tells me she just broke up with her BF, so we get together, hook up, have sex.

She starts tellin me how she's liked me forever, we have so much in common, yadda yadda.

These are the red lights.

- Previous drug addictions, she goes to Annoymous meetings now
- Father abused her
- Older Sister Commited suicide
- Had an abortion this summer

Not these.

 

[string_bean00]

Just think with your dick, not your brain.

 

[EnderJE]

You keep hittin it, keep telling her you will never be her BF and take all precautions possible...she agrees. You just hit the jackpot, right? Fast forward a few weeks - she's calling you at work sitting inside her car rolled into a ball crying her eyes out telling you she's going to swallow a bullet cause she hates herself so much. You, naturally, play the hero and fill the father figure void and become the shoulder to cry on. Fast forward another few weeks - every time you stick your dick inside her you have visions of bunnies being boiled in your home. With each pump, you hear "I will not be ignored, Dan!", "I will not be ignored, Dan!", "I will not be ignored, Dan!". You bail, tell her she's crazy. She text messages you for months apologizing for being such a terrible person and telling you that "you have helped me face parts of myself I never wanted to". You change your number.

Run broham, run.

You forgot the part where she tells him that she missed her last period. Ah...good times.

 

[nimbus]

fuck it man just go for it; if you post on forums you probably need more excitement in your life

 

[dsh89]

Dude run. This always turns bad. And seriously, what if she gets knocked up? WTF you gonna do then? She sounds crazy enough to want to keep it, then you are fucked into dealing with her for the rest of your life! Crazy chicks are great in bed, but it isn't worth it. Chalk it up to a notch on the belt, maybe hit it once more, and split. It just isn't worth it.