CDD Relationships

[misguided03]

aleast im nohomo

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[EarthRider]

plank loves all of us, we are what keep him going each day

 

[cuthroat]

stfu

 

[EarthRider]

fu

 

[misguided03]

Hows my old lady tonight cuthroat ?

 

[cuthroat]

Hows my old lady tonight cuthroat ?

She's great. Says hello.

 

[redshirt27se]

Yeah that's scary to me too. I didnt even say much during lunch bc I couldn't find the words. I was totally tongue tied from the shock.

And I don't necessarily agree with Red. Ya never know, maybe she was telling me because she loves him, but this is hard for her and needs support/validation that it's ok to get out if that's what he wants. She may just be looking for someone to tell her not to bc she's not strong enough to admit it to herself.

You're a bridesmaid in her wedding. You're her friend of years. You're the one who had lunch with her when she told you this. Maybe you're the one who should know this stuff. Cause the internet isn't going to speculate on what we don't know.

 

[pdaddyII]

Is she a very meek and submissive person to begin with? It might work if she never rocks the boat. Ever. On the other hand, if she gets a few beatings and then begins to harbour resentment, this could go sour.
I couldn't support this kind of arrangement myself as I have first-hand experience with physical punishment from an ex, so I couldn't and wouldn't participate as a bridesmaid. It goes against my own beliefs that people should not hit their loved ones for any reason.

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[trex74]

I agree. I wasn't going to say anything because sometimes that is a lesson best learned. I made a similiar mistake 6 or 7 years ago and lost my friend. Since then I've stuck to the rule that if it's not my business then it's not my business.

That sucks. That was the exact excuse used by a so-called friend who witnessed the last time I got punched out by my ex. She let me come to her house to clean up and call the cops, but she refused to be a witness for me in court, and I lost the case because there was not enough proof, despite photographs of bruises on my face, old bruises from prior beatings, split lip, and his prior arrests for domestic violence. All because it was " none of her business". Coward.

 

[cindylou]

That sucks. That was the exact excuse used by a so-called friend who witnessed the last time I got punched out by my ex. She let me come to her house to clean up and call the cops, but she refused to be a witness for me in court, and I lost the case because there was not enough proof, despite photographs of bruises on my face, old bruises from prior beatings, split lip, and his prior arrests for domestic violence. All because it was " none of her business". Coward.

I know it sucks. I doubt I wouldn't be a witness in court for someone if I witnessed my friend getting punched out by her boyfriend.

The reason I suggested it wasn't anyone's business is because I honestly think this is more of a fetish situation than abuse situation. You know how prudish Christians can be when it comes to sex. Yes, I lost my friend because I decided get involved and she didn't leave anyway and now they both hate me.

Of course, I don't really know for sure. If I was Afeedz, I'd keep my eye open for actual signs of abuse and keep talking to my friend...