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If she's your friend and you want to remain friends you'll keep your mouth shut. Nothing good ever happens when you critique a friend's relationship. What two consenting adults willingly decide to do is no one's business but theirs.
 
redshirt27se said:
If she's your friend and you want to remain friends you'll keep your mouth shut. Nothing good ever happens when you critique a friend's relationship. What two consenting adults willingly decide to do is no one's business but theirs.
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I agree. I wasn't going to say anything because sometimes that is a lesson best learned. I made a similiar mistake 6 or 7 years ago and lost my friend. Since then I've stuck to the rule that if it's not my business then it's not my business.
 
AFeedz said:
So I just had lunch with one of my best friends, and she pretty much told me that when she gets married in December, she and her fiance plan on entering in to a "Christian Domestic Discipline" relationship a.k.a. she and her fiance have agreed that he may physically punish her when she does something wrong (but she may not punish him back).

I mean if that works for them, good for them, but I'm supposed to be a bridesmaid in said wedding in support of a marriage type I don't actually support.

Discuss.







(And I already know I'm going to get a few of you telling me that's how it should be)
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wtf?? that's the most fucked up thing i've heard of in a long time :lmao: my wife's from west virginia, if i tried that shit with her, she'd set me on fire while i was sleeping.

what race are these people? just curious??
 
Sub-Zero said:
lol so on the wedding invitation it talked about their CDD and how he is gonna fuck her in the ass and beat her and suff?
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No subz, she didn't put this out there publicly. She told me over lunch today (just me and her). The wedding isn't til December, but I'm positive she isn't telling everybody.
 
digimon7068 said:
wtf?? that's the most fucked up thing i've heard of in a long time :lmao: my wife's from west virginia, if i tried that shit with her, she'd set me on fire while i was sleeping.

what race are these people? just curious??
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They're both hispanic (I know that's not a race). Her family is super white washed though.

And I thought it was fucked up too. I'd break up with someone in a heartbeat. Unfortunately, it's not my relationship and if she wants that then I suppose there's nothing I can do.
 
AFeedz said:
They're both hispanic (I know that's not a race). Her family is super white washed though.

And I thought it was fucked up too. I'd break up with someone in a heartbeat. Unfortunately, it's not my relationship and if she wants that then I suppose there's nothing I can do.
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Friends are supposed to accept each other for who they are. Whether or not you agree with her decision is irrelevant here. If this is what she wants you shouldn't try to change her mind. If you don't agree with it fine, but she confided in you because she assumed you'd understand and not judge her.
 
cindylou said:
Although best employed with the wife stripped from the waist down, pants and panties at the knee or ankle do not necessarily preclude using the above position since it holds the wife's knees against the husband's leg.

Remember to stay in control at all times so her faith in you is not rattled. Her reaction after the lashing will let you know if this punishment works for her. She should be genuinely remorseful, tearful, and sore, but have an overwhelming desire to please you.

I'm getting turned on :confused:
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Rofl the problem with all this is my fiance would become more rebellious cause me mad makes her horny
 
redshirt27se said:
Friends are supposed to accept each other for who they are. Whether or not you agree with her decision is irrelevant here. If this is what she wants you shouldn't try to change her mind. If you don't agree with it fine, but she confided in you because she assumed you'd understand and not judge her.
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I'm not judging her, I'm judging that type of relationship. There's a difference. My problem is with the relationship and her fiance somehow winding her in to this, not her.

The only thing I don't accept is him inflicting pain to make her "obey" him.
 
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AFeedz said:
I'm not judging her, I'm judging that type of relationship. There's a difference. My problem is with the relationship and her fiance somehow winding her in to this, not her.

The only thing I don't accept is him inflicting pain to make her "obey" him.
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somebody is jealous...
 
Anyone have tips on how to beat my future wife so it won't leave marks ? Also I don't wanna do alot of damage you know just break her will and independence etc
 
misguided03 said:
Anyone have tips on how to beat my future wife so it won't leave marks ? Also I don't wanna do alot of damage you know just break her will and independence etc
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Falcon punches are definitely the way to go, no one is gonna check down there and if someone finds out you can accuse her of cheating and discipline her again.
 
redshirt27se said:
Friends are supposed to accept each other for who they are. Whether or not you agree with her decision is irrelevant here. If this is what she wants you shouldn't try to change her mind. If you don't agree with it fine, but she confided in you because she assumed you'd understand and not judge her.
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no...she confided in her because she's a chick and that's what they do...it's genetic...they can't help themselves.
 
I'd guess no less than 25 EF guys are fapping to this thread even as we speak.

And I just asked my wife about this CDD thing. I don't think I can sell it.
 
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AFeedz said:
Yeah, they're living this way after marriage. It'd be hard now seeing as they aren't living together.

She's been my best friend for a while now so it def comes as a shock. She's never said/acted like this before. I was speechless.
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^ ^This is really scary to me, Annie, the fact that she is acting so out of character.




redshirt27se said:
If she's your friend and you want to remain friends you'll keep your mouth shut. Nothing good ever happens when you critique a friend's relationship. What two consenting adults willingly decide to do is no one's business but theirs.
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Red is right, but at the same time you are going to lose her anyway. This man will start to tell her how you are not a good friend to her for a,b,and c reasons. Slowly he will isolate her completely. When she finally wakes up, she may not see a way out because she has no support.

You can do one of two things: Tell her your concerns and face the consequences or keep your mouth shut and watch it all go down. Either way, after this marriage your relationship with her will never be the same.
 
Responses depend completely on the situation, obv. Some things call for your mouth to open while others its better if we STFU.

If her relationship with you as a friend starts noticeably changing and its effecting the way you guys communicate/interact then that will be a stepping stone for you to voice your concerns. But ONLY voice them in relation to you, doing this with open arms and an open EAR may yield good results.

Never insert your opinion on their relationship unless it directly has something to do with you. You will be locked immediately from any and all convos about that topic IMO.
 
just...v said:
^ ^This is really scary to me, Annie, the fact that she is acting so out of character.






Red is right, but at the same time you are going to lose her anyway. This man will start to tell her how you are not a good friend to her for a,b,and c reasons. Slowly he will isolate her completely. When she finally wakes up, she may not see a way out because she has no support.

You can do one of two things: Tell her your concerns and face the consequences or keep your mouth shut and watch it all go down. Either way, after this marriage your relationship with her will never be the same.
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Yeah that's scary to me too. I didnt even say much during lunch bc I couldn't find the words. I was totally tongue tied from the shock.

And I don't necessarily agree with Red. Ya never know, maybe she was telling me because she loves him, but this is hard for her and needs support/validation that it's ok to get out if that's what he wants. She may just be looking for someone to tell her not to bc she's not strong enough to admit it to herself.
 
Lolol yes. Every day I wake up and think "Damn, if only I could find one of the good guys. The kind who will beat me silly when I choose juice over water or when I make the wrong sandwich".

But where do I find a guy who's man enough to break my will, who's man enough to turn my ass a shade of red only comparable to the blood he expects me to spill so that I may be sure I have pleased him and met his ever need?

*sigh* Dream man, are you out there?











/sarcasm
 
AFeedz said:
Lolol yes. Every day I wake up and think "Damn, if only I could find one of the good guys. The kind who will beat me silly when I choose juice over water or when I make the wrong sandwich".

But where do I find a guy who's man enough to break my will, who's man enough to turn my ass a shade of red only comparable to the blood he expects me to spill so that I may be sure I have pleased him and met his ever need?

*sigh* Dream man, are you out there?











/sarcasm
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I'll do it temporarily until you find a permanent replacement.
 
AFeedz said:
Lolol yes. Every day I wake up and think "Damn, if only I could find one of the good guys. The kind who will beat me silly when I choose juice over water or when I make the wrong sandwich".

But where do I find a guy who's man enough to break my will, who's man enough to turn my ass a shade of red only comparable to the blood he expects me to spill so that I may be sure I have pleased him and met his ever need?

*sigh* Dream man, are you out there?











/sarcasm
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You just sent at least 25 juicers fapping.

Hope you are happy!
 
also,

You're only gonna get your ass beat a few times for making the wrong sammich. If you're smart after awhile you'll learn.
 
AFeedz said:
Yeah that's scary to me too. I didnt even say much during lunch bc I couldn't find the words. I was totally tongue tied from the shock.

And I don't necessarily agree with Red. Ya never know, maybe she was telling me because she loves him, but this is hard for her and needs support/validation that it's ok to get out if that's what he wants. She may just be looking for someone to tell her not to bc she's not strong enough to admit it to herself.
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I meant Red is right if you want to keep the relationship with her. Women in these situations are almost like drug addicts, she won't hear that it's bad or wrong unless she wants to. Remember that you can never help someone that doesn't want it. Maybe you should ask her how she feels about this type of relationship. Tell her you will never judge, you just want her honest feelings about it. You know, cause your her friend. Maybe that way you can open the door a bit if she is kinda looking for someone to tell her that it's crazy.
 
just...v said:
I meant Red is right if you want to keep the relationship with her. Women in these situations are almost like drug addicts, she won't hear that it's bad or wrong unless she wants to. Remember that you can never help someone that doesn't want it. Maybe you should ask her how she feels about this type of relationship. Tell her you will never judge, you just want her honest feelings about it. You know, cause your her friend. Maybe that way you can open the door a bit if she is kinda looking for someone to tell her that it's crazy.
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*you're
 
miplank said:
lotta women that need their ass beat too. :)
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I will have to agree with this statement. Like that stupid woman driver that pulled out in front of me today only to go 10 miles below the speed limit while she applied her lip gloss in the rear view mirror. Ugh!
 
misguided03 said:
If I come home one more night and have to cook dinner someone is gonna catch a falcon punch
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Don't worry bout that bro, you won't have to worry about coming home to her, cause she will be cheating on you...

I vote this thread of year, moar stories pleaz
 
bro, you know you're always wanting to hear my opinion. Just admit were friends man, come on you know you want to...
 
in all seriousness i think this is an interesting approach to a healthy relationship in this day and age. women are very feeble minded and spontaneous creatures, and if the male etches himself in her brain as the disciplinarian, and he does not abuse his role, she will be much less likely to lose respect for him, which is how most women fuck up their relationships - bitches get to cocky/ungrateful and take their situation for granted
 
AFeedz said:
Yeah that's scary to me too. I didnt even say much during lunch bc I couldn't find the words. I was totally tongue tied from the shock.

And I don't necessarily agree with Red. Ya never know, maybe she was telling me because she loves him, but this is hard for her and needs support/validation that it's ok to get out if that's what he wants. She may just be looking for someone to tell her not to bc she's not strong enough to admit it to herself.
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You're a bridesmaid in her wedding. You're her friend of years. You're the one who had lunch with her when she told you this. Maybe you're the one who should know this stuff. Cause the internet isn't going to speculate on what we don't know.
 
trex74 said:
Is she a very meek and submissive person to begin with? It might work if she never rocks the boat. Ever. On the other hand, if she gets a few beatings and then begins to harbour resentment, this could go sour.
I couldn't support this kind of arrangement myself as I have first-hand experience with physical punishment from an ex, so I couldn't and wouldn't participate as a bridesmaid. It goes against my own beliefs that people should not hit their loved ones for any reason.
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This
 
cindylou said:
I agree. I wasn't going to say anything because sometimes that is a lesson best learned. I made a similiar mistake 6 or 7 years ago and lost my friend. Since then I've stuck to the rule that if it's not my business then it's not my business.
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That sucks. That was the exact excuse used by a so-called friend who witnessed the last time I got punched out by my ex. She let me come to her house to clean up and call the cops, but she refused to be a witness for me in court, and I lost the case because there was not enough proof, despite photographs of bruises on my face, old bruises from prior beatings, split lip, and his prior arrests for domestic violence. All because it was " none of her business". Coward.
 
trex74 said:
That sucks. That was the exact excuse used by a so-called friend who witnessed the last time I got punched out by my ex. She let me come to her house to clean up and call the cops, but she refused to be a witness for me in court, and I lost the case because there was not enough proof, despite photographs of bruises on my face, old bruises from prior beatings, split lip, and his prior arrests for domestic violence. All because it was " none of her business". Coward.
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I know it sucks. I doubt I wouldn't be a witness in court for someone if I witnessed my friend getting punched out by her boyfriend.

The reason I suggested it wasn't anyone's business is because I honestly think this is more of a fetish situation than abuse situation. You know how prudish Christians can be when it comes to sex. Yes, I lost my friend because I decided get involved and she didn't leave anyway and now they both hate me.

Of course, I don't really know for sure. If I was Afeedz, I'd keep my eye open for actual signs of abuse and keep talking to my friend...
 
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