I meant Red is right if you want to keep the relationship with her. Women in these situations are almost like drug addicts, she won't hear that it's bad or wrong unless she wants to. Remember that you can never help someone that doesn't want it. Maybe you should ask her how she feels about this type of relationship. Tell her you will never judge, you just want her honest feelings about it. You know, cause your her friend. Maybe that way you can open the door a bit if she is kinda looking for someone to tell her that it's crazy.