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they knew the full truth about you that they wouldn't like you?
I'm having a hard time being completely honest about some things, but I also feel like its a barrier between me and anything that is real. Like steroids, you're not going to go tell people that you do steroids - they'll look at you like you're nuts and then hold it against you. But some dude who looks up to you in the gym is asking what you do for a muscle group or whatever and you know he'll never be where you're at...
What about in relationships? this is a really tough one for me. The ex keeps fucking with my head, she can tell when I'm lying to her and has drilled it in with her manipulation that there's something wrong with me. Before I wouldnt give a shit about it.
I was honest with some girl today that I couldn't in good conscience continue to go out with her because I wasnt over my ex still. It sucked, but it felt good to tell her the truth. She thanked me for telling her that. Maybe it was something I learned from my past relationships.
It's like the more honest I am about things the guiltier I feel when I'm not honest. I shouldn't feel guilty about anything I do, afterall I don't owe anyone an explanation for anything I do really. I dont know what the deal is. The ex gf got into my head.
What are your thoughts?
I'm having a hard time being completely honest about some things, but I also feel like its a barrier between me and anything that is real. Like steroids, you're not going to go tell people that you do steroids - they'll look at you like you're nuts and then hold it against you. But some dude who looks up to you in the gym is asking what you do for a muscle group or whatever and you know he'll never be where you're at...
What about in relationships? this is a really tough one for me. The ex keeps fucking with my head, she can tell when I'm lying to her and has drilled it in with her manipulation that there's something wrong with me. Before I wouldnt give a shit about it.
I was honest with some girl today that I couldn't in good conscience continue to go out with her because I wasnt over my ex still. It sucked, but it felt good to tell her the truth. She thanked me for telling her that. Maybe it was something I learned from my past relationships.
It's like the more honest I am about things the guiltier I feel when I'm not honest. I shouldn't feel guilty about anything I do, afterall I don't owe anyone an explanation for anything I do really. I dont know what the deal is. The ex gf got into my head.
What are your thoughts?
