I am not a real big guy, 170, 32 waist, 5'10". No gear. That one pic makes my stomach look real big but it really is just under 32 inches. Not into contests or anything, just being in shape.Had to use the vid cam to take the pix.
na not gay ,
you have good muscle tone , thats really what it come down to alot of times.
like you mentioned you just wanna be in shape. and you have done a good job of doing it