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What EF means... Please read this!

debij

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What Elite Fitness means... Please read this!

Please take a minute to read this. I am posting this with the persmission of Needto and am asking that it not be removed.

As a homecare nurse, I see many different patients. There is one I want to tell you about. He is a 19-year old who was paralyzed when the vehicle he was in was hit by a drunk driver on Prom night. Everyone else in the car died. He is unable to do anything except move his head very slightly. We, (his parents, myself, theraphy) had been having many problems with him cooperating - his depression was so great, he didn't want anything and he didn't want to do anything.

One visit 2 weeks ago he asked me how I lost weight (his speech is very slow and hard to understand from the brain damage he has suffered) so I told him I belong to an exercise, bodybuilding site called Elite Fitness. We took out his computer and I brought the site up for him to see. He looked, asked ALOT of questions, and seemed like a little boy in a candy store. I asked him what he thought about EF and his response was not in words but
through gestures of happiness. I look around his room, full of pictures of himself with his baseball cap turned sideways and tons of CD's not being played. That day when I left his goals were to select a screen name & find an avatar. (each week we set goals that we hope he will meet at our next visit).

He is still deciding what his screen name will be and is selecting an avatar but the change in him has been remarkable. His parents are overjoyed with his zeal to get on the computer (using a stick placed in his mouth) he looks for his avatar. I visited him today and walked in to see him with his baseball cap on sideways and music playing - a huge smile on his face. A huge smile on his parent's faces.

The whole point of this story is to tell you how much life EF has given to this young man. It has given him goals to reach that are fun and are reachable. I spend extra time with him showing him how he can ask a question and get alot of responses, or just read what everyone else is posting, and with March Madness - he is crazy about this site.

We all come to Elite for our own reasons but for this young man Elite has been the start of a new life for him. It has given him hope, it has him excited about the hopes of making new friends and most of all it has helped him face each day with a smile on his face. If only I could tell you where I've seen him at and where he is now - Elite Fitness has changed this family's life.

As soon as we have him set-up I hope you will welcome him as a part of the EF family. I've told a few members previously about him and I doubt his family will have to buy a Plat membership or K for him - these members have been kind enough to offer to do that for him! Great people!

Thanks so much for listening and for allowing myself and my patient to a part of the Elite Fitness family.

Peace,
deb
 
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Make sure you let me know his screen name when he signs up. We will give him a comp plat membership. No one has to pay for it the site will be more then happy to give it to him for free..

He can come post on any of the training or aas forums all he likes. I will also make him a member of the New beginnings group. EliteFitness.com Bodybuilding Forums - A New Beginning this would be a great ef group for him to talk with people in. All of the group members have something hard they have to overcome in life. I think he could not only gain from the group but others in the group could gain a lot from him as well.

I think its great that ef is helping all people from all walks of life. This is what ef is all about. Helping people,giving them hope,giving them new life and a new beginning. He has a home here with us and over time he will make many friends here. He already has a friend in me that is for sure.


Tell him I dug this pick up for him since I know he likes the hulk.

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Great story! Wish I would've thought a little harder about my screen name but I didn't plan on staying here this long lol. That's what this place will do to you. It's almost addictive.
 
As soon as he gets a screen name and is on, tell him to post up a thread in a forum and we will give him tons of words of encouragement.
It's such a sad story, but it would be awesome if we could help him out with daily and weekly goals. That would be great to help someone out like that. Anything we can do to help, just ask! :)
 
great story, just proves once again EF is more than just a forum, it is a family. I am sure everyone will be elated when he starts to post.
 
Please take a minute to read this. I am posting this with the persmission of Needto and am asking that it not be removed.

As a homecare nurse, I see many different patients. There is one I want to tell you about. He is a 19-year old who was paralyzed when the vehicle he was in was hit by a drunk driver on Prom night. Everyone else in the car died. He is unable to do anything except move his head very slightly. We, (his parents, myself, theraphy) had been having many problems with him cooperating - his depression was so great, he didn't want anything and he didn't want to do anything.

One visit 2 weeks ago he asked me how I lost weight (his speech is very slow and hard to understand from the brain damage he has suffered) so I told him I belong to an exercise, bodybuilding site called Elite Fitness. We took out his computer and I brought the site up for him to see. He looked, asked ALOT of questions, and seemed like a little boy in a candy store. I asked him what he thought about EF and his response was not in words but
through gestures of happiness. I look around his room, full of pictures of himself with his baseball cap turned sideways and tons of CD's not being played. That day when I left his goals were to select a screen name & find an avatar. (each week we set goals that we hope he will meet at our next visit).

He is still deciding what his screen name will be and is selecting an avatar but the change in him has been remarkable. His parents are overjoyed with his zeal to get on the computer (using a stick placed in his mouth) he looks for his avatar. I visited him today and walked in to see him with his baseball cap on sideways and music playing - a huge smile on his face. A huge smile on his parent's faces.

The whole point of this story is to tell you how much life EF has given to this young man. It has given him goals to reach that are fun and are reachable. I spend extra time with him showing him how he can ask a question and get alot of responses, or just read what everyone else is posting, and with March Madness - he is crazy about this site.

We all come to Elite for our own reasons but for this young man Elite has been the start of a new life for him. It has given him hope, it has him excited about the hopes of making new friends and most of all it has helped him face each day with a smile on his face. If only I could tell you where I've seen him at and where he is now - Elite Fitness has changed this family's life.

As soon as we have him set-up I hope you will welcome him as a part of the EF family. I've told a few members previously about him and I doubt his family will have to buy a Plat membership or K for him - these members have been kind enough to offer to do that for him! Great people!

Thanks so much for listening and for allowing myself and my patient to a part of the Elite Fitness family.

Peace,
deb




I'm so excited for him, a big hooray!
Deb please pm me his screen name when he selects one so i can make sure he is treated properly around the boards.


RADAR
 
Thats an incredible story. I would of never thought EF could have such an impact on people and their families.
 
eager to meet him. as he is my age.

we all go through challenges in life.
but we all have the power to overcome them.
he will do this.
im sure of it.
 
That is a touching story. Im going to school to be a nurse. I cant wait to help people the way you do deb. I hope im as good at it as you one day. your awesome. I wish you all the best.
 
I know it is 2:15 in the morning, but does the Tags-Keywords say something offensive or is it just me
 
I am very excited to meet this young man.

Maybe he is even a Notre Dame fan! (Probably not, he's probably smarter than that!)

Can't wait to welcome him!
 
Make sure you let me know his screen name when he signs up. We will give him a comp plat membership. No one has to pay for it the site will be more then happy to give it to him for free..

He can come post on any of the training or aas forums all he likes. I will also make him a member of the New beginnings group. EliteFitness.com Bodybuilding Forums - A New Beginning this would be a great ef group for him to talk with people in. All of the group members have something hard they have to overcome in life. I think he could not only gain from the group but others in the group could gain a lot from him as well.

I think its great that ef is helping all people from all walks of life. This is what ef is all about. Helping people,giving them hope,giving them new life and a new beginning. He has a home here with us and over time he will make many friends here. He already has a friend in me that is for sure.


Tell him I dug this pick up for him since I know he likes the hulk.

2qwj6zr.jpg

All I can say is "Oh my gosh" which is what I know he will give me in other words & gestures. You may have found a friend for life Needto!
Thanks much for doing this & for allowing me to share with EF members this story. By the way, everything that was written was with his parents and his permission, so no violation of privacy rights were violated.
deb
 
that braught tears to my eyes.....God bless him!!!
when he gets his name for the site can i have it??
It would be an honor to have him as a friend
 
I noticed that too. Funny thing, I am a mormon.

I'm sorry if something offended the both of you - I'm not too sure what it is but I'll say again I'm sorry. Wrote this to let you all know how important you all are to someone, never with the intention of writing or abbreviating something that would be offensive to others.

deb
 
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I'm sorry if something offended the both of you - I'm not too sure what it is but I'll say again I'm sorry. Wrote this to let you all know how important you all are to someone, never with the intention of writing or abbreviating something that would be offensive to others.

deb
No Deb, your post was awesome. Just something JD and myself noticed. It had nothing to do with what you wrote. Your post was great. You didnt affend anyone, your story was very heart warming, Im glad you shared it :)
 
Deb, toptoon1 is spot on, your posts and this thread are in no way offensive, they are inspiring. Someone posted something in the tag line that should not have been there, and need2, being the good bro he is, removed it.

Any update on choosing a name
 
Just bumping this up because I think it is important
 
Let me know when he picks a name. I might be able to make something happen for him in the avatar department :)


PS: I would be very happy if we could take an active part in his rehabilitation and helping him see his goals through. We could maintain a thread where we stay updated on his progress... It will be a great day when he is here posting and surfing all on his own without anyone's help... It will take time and hard work but I think with the support and encouragement of the EF members, it will happen a lot sooner than later.



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Just to let you know if he has Windows Xp or Vista the Computer should have a language bar ( A Free Program already instaleed in Windows). What is neat about the program is he can speak into a microphone or headset and it will type on forums, notepad, He can cruise the web etc.. Here is a step by step tutorial How to display Language bar

You can Pm me anytime if you are needing some help on anything!
 
Truly touching :)

Infact, as a newbie here ( been around since the last 3 - 4 months or so i guess ), i have felt so much at home, so much, which i really havn't felt in any other forum i've registered myself in...In fact again, this forum is like a second home if you mates know what i'm talking about...Radar, Needto, Omega....i mean these people have helped me out via pms with all my queries....and some pretty silly ones i assure you mates...

Their patience, understanding and answers to every query makes me feel like i was college pals with them, hehe...As though i was there when this site originally started, and as though i've belonged ever since :)

I truly know our new pal joining the forum will immensely benefit and belong. May the Lord Almighty lead him to the fastest possible recovery...
 
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Update is: screen name was selected this morning, and as suggested by someone who knows it when they see it: Fantastic 1 ! He chose this because he loves Fantastic Four but told us he feels 'fantastic' too!! These are huge steps for him !! His avatar is down to two but an offer from BigRick to design one had him excited at the thought of his own design, so BigRick ???? Help please??? As I wrote in my introduction to you about this young man, he has no movement except with his head very slightly. The problem was he didnt want to cooperate with therapy which had atrophy big time starting. But, with the change in attitude, he is allowing us to massage, stretch, range-of-motion exercise with him. Although he has no control of his limbs at least we are hoping something connects in his brain & sends some signals to get things going again. Its highly unlikely that this will happen but hope is a forever with his parents & with his caregivers.
He was injured May 08 - after Prom, a drunken-driver accident, and no one in his vehicle was drinking - all athletic kids. He still has all that "life" deep inside of him, you can see it thru his eyes. The sparkle is there.
Unless a miracle occurs or all the therapy and the positive thinking do magic (which I truly believe in) he will need constant 24 hour care. We get him up now into his chair which before was a big NO with him. The more we can keep him moving from the bed to the chair, turning him, etc all these things lessen pneumonia, sores. My own thoughts are even as he listens to his music the beat to a song may get something to move. A foot, a hand, a finger even. As the weather improves we'll go outside, take him to some games. Its all about his attitude which never would have changed without the help of this site.

I have to thank all the members of Elite Fitness, ESPECIALLY FROM THE ANABOLIC STEROID FORUM. You all have reached out in a way I never expected. I allowed his family to read everything that has been posted and they too are overwhelmed. After time passes, people forget things like this have happened. We all have a tendency to "just go on with our own life" forgetting there are others who might need us. Just a kind word or a smile.

We will keep you updated or I should say, 'he will keep you updated' on his progress and we cant thank you enough for caring. Thanks to everyone!!
deb & Fantastic 1

PS - BigRick - I'll PM you with some details, ok???
 
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I tried to send a pm to that user name and got nothing.

Wait for his avatar too !! He wants to do this, so it takes him more time than for you & I to do it. He wants to fill n his profile page and all that so thats his goal for the next 2 days. Thanks for trying so quick, you guys are great and its a blessing in disguise!!
Elite Fitness!!
 
I'm willing to donate $100 for helping on his rehab. How can I?

Just a quick note to say thank you on behalf of his family. At this time they are doing ok with insurance paying pretty much everything. At one point they did have a fund for all the kid's families that suffered that night but that has long been closed.
As I speak to his family, money - which was such a generous, kind offer from you, is the last thing they think of. A hope for their son to get better is their focus. So, thank you for your thoughtfulness.
I posted an update on things with him yesterday I believe. Soon he'll be able to do this but its one step at a time.
Thanks so much!!

Peace,
debi
 
Just a quick note to say thank you on behalf of his family. At this time they are doing ok with insurance paying pretty much everything. At one point they did have a fund for all the kid's families that suffered that night but that has long been closed.
As I speak to his family, money - which was such a generous, kind offer from you, is the last thing they think of. A hope for their son to get better is their focus. So, thank you for your thoughtfulness.
I posted an update on things with him yesterday I believe. Soon he'll be able to do this but its one step at a time.
Thanks so much!!

Peace,
debi

:)

Whenever he can, his arrival it's expected with much antecipation.
 
Wow. Thisis such an awesome thread and quite touching.

Looking forward to meeting him and helping him in any way that I can.
 
Thouching story and i also hopes he will find this site just as good as i do....wish you all the best:friends:

Thanx for sharing!
 
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