I have never worn a tank top in a club or bar. I wore a sleevless shirt last night in a bar but only because I didn't know we were going and they had a hard enough time trying to get me to wear pants. Frankly though, I get hit on more with a tank top on, which I'm pretty much only wearing when high which makes being smooth tough at times. I agree though, I hate feeling like I'm some ass trying to show off. I'm really not a confident person though so I dunno. I DO wear tank tops when it's sunny out though and I need to tan to get rid of these stretch marks. I'm rambling and I'll thank you not to point and laugh.