Question for the homophobes...

[gymtime]

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I'm trying to say that when I'm horny sex with men is okay but it isn't the same as with women, and I CAN"T fall in love with a man...at least it hasn't happened so far.

That's fine. It's just that when you say, " I love who I love," implying that you can love anyone, that isn't really accurate. Seems to me you can truly only "love" women. Plus the fact that although you can have sex with men, you don't enjoy it. I can only infer from this that you are gay. Without getting into morality here, society does have a word for what you are. Why fight it? It's just a word.

 

[jersey boy]

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same dick, day after day, night after night... heehee.

Used to be that way with the ladies, one day though, someone will awe you in a way that makes you say hummmm. Maybe LOL

 

[68GT350]

Ok, I'm not a total homophobe but I am a bit scared of gay men. Personally, my experience has been that most homosexuals are very flambouyant. This intimidates me.

I'm also scared of the blurring of the sexes. I've been fooled by a hot ass girl on TV winding up being a guy. I think to myself, "If this is attractive, does that make me gay?" It's all very confusing. I do love vagina, though, and the thought of having anything near my ass sends chills down my spine. I've never let a girl go near my ass to this very day.

 

[musclebrains]

the thought of having anything near my ass sends chills down my spine. I've never let a girl go near my ass to this very day.

Just the men send the chills down your spine, where your butt's concerned, huh?

 

[musclebrains]

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You misunderstood me. Yes, most men can separate them, but no one can be "in love" with someone that they are not physically attracted to

I don't think this is true at all. Many people reach states where they lose sexual passion for someone but remain in love with the person. this is somewhat my situation now. Our remedy was an open relationship and it has worked well for six years.

I think this also operates by degree. I was certainly deeply in love with my wife and had plenty of sex with her, but it was a world-making change when I had sex with a man: there I found a greater depth of sexual passion. But I doubt that I have ever loved a man with the same depth I loved my wife. Whether this has anything to do with gender, I don't know. I just don't think you can correlate sexual and platonic, even romantic, love with any degree of certainty.

 

[68GT350]

Just the men send the chills down your spine, where your butt's concerned, huh?

Anything near my ass freaks me out totally. No joke.

I've been piss-ass drunk and my girlfriend and I were doing really crazy shit. She wound up reaching back and trying to stick her finger up my ass. I freaked and the moment was lost--even in my drunken state.

 

[musclebrains]

Anything near my ass freaks me out totally. No joke.

I've been piss-ass drunk and my girlfriend and I were doing really crazy shit. She wound up reaching back and trying to stick her finger up my ass. I freaked and the moment was lost--even in my drunken state.

She must have felt like an evil-fingered filthy slut. Did she apologize for offending you?

 

[MP5]

You have got to be kidding me! Not only are you are black democratic woman, you are a fucking dike too? Bwaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhaaaaaaaaa that explains a lot.

You must be uglier than a bucket full of assholes. 99% of real life dikes are pigs that could not get a guy unless he was drunk so they had to turn gay.

 

[68GT350]

She must have felt like an evil-fingered filthy slut. Did she apologize for offending you?

No, she was surprised and scared from seeing an irate James that few ever really see. Very seldom do things really piss me off like that. I didn't hold it against her, though. She was just being her usual evil-fingered filthy slut.

 

[gymtime]

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I don't think this is true at all. Many people reach states where they lose sexual passion for someone but remain in love with the person. this is somewhat my situation now. Our remedy was an open relationship and it has worked well for six years.

I think this also operates by degree. I was certainly deeply in love with my wife and had plenty of sex with her, but it was a world-making change when I had sex with a man: there I found a greater depth of sexual passion. But I doubt that I have ever loved a man with the same depth I loved my wife. Whether this has anything to do with gender, I don't know. I just don't think you can correlate sexual and platonic, even romantic, love with any degree of certainty.

Let me put it another way. I won't use any absolutes here, but I think it would be extremely rare for someone to FALL in love with someone they are not attracted to physically. If a label such as "gay," "bi," whatever applies to both physical attraction as well as the capacity for true affection, then I don't think someone can say "I love who I love regardless of bodyparts," then completely eliminate one sex from the equation.