Question for the homophobes...

[gymtime]

.....I am not, in my mind, gay or straight or bi. I love who I love. Body parts are body parts, to me, just like calves, pecs, biceps, etc. Love, however, is a completely separate issue...I have never been in love with a man, and probably never will. This is not something I can explain.

I don't think you can separate love and physical attraction. In other words, I don't see how you can say, "I love who I love" regardless of body parts, then say you have never, and probably will never be in love with a man in the same sentence. How can you say I love who I love, but that doesn't apply to men?

 

[LeviathanX]

I don't mind if someone is gay or lesbian, but it becomes bothersome when they throw it in your face by altering their voice, and acting abnormally to flaunt their sexuality.

This leads me to the conclusion that a a lot (NOTE I DIDN'T SAY ALL POTENTIAL FLAMERS) of homosexuals are not biologically homosexual, but suffered some traumatic event to push them to homosexuality.

 

[strongchick]

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I don't think you can separate love and physical attraction. In other words, I don't see how you can say, "I love who I love" regardless of body parts, then say you have never, and probably will never be in love with a man in the same sentence. How can you say I love who I love, but that doesn't apply to men?

My tendency is to toss men aside when I am 'finished'.

Most men can certainly separate love and physical attraction...!

 

[spentagn]

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My tendency is to toss men aside when I am 'finished'.

Most men can certainly separate love and physical attraction...!

Nice stereotype.

 

[gymtime]

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My tendency is to toss men aside when I am 'finished'.

I have no idea how this answers my question, but whatever.

Most men can certainly separate love and physical attraction...!

You misunderstood me. Yes, most men can separate them, but no one can be "in love" with someone that they are not physically attracted to. You are not physically attracted to men, yet you say you can love, meaning "be in love with" anyone. How is this possible?

 

[##spiderbaby##]

Strongchick,

I know someone who I consider a friend. She is gay. I am a homophobe to a point. I consider the act of sleeping with someone of the same sex to be absolutly disgusting. I was raised in a home where you love everyone, meaning you dont hate someone for being gay. I dont hate people that are gay, not at all and I dont feel sorry for them either. I wouldnt hate my friend if he told me he was gay but I also know in reality that we would drift very far apart as friends. It just is that way.

I know that my friend sometimes wishes she wasnt gay but she is and shes a 40 year old profesional woman. I dont feel sorry for her but i wish she was able to let go of the fact that other people "society" doesnt approve. They never will. I never will give my badge of aproval. I hope I never have any gay children but I will still love them if they are.

heres the meat of my post please read this as I was telling you with grave sincerity.

*I do not understand being gay. I mentaly and emotionaly cannot understand it. I have tried but cannot, maybe only gay people can understand gay people, I really have tried to understand their perspective.*

I know this probably doesnt help much but thats where I stand to date without going into detail. I dont think gay people are bad people but it still "weirds" me out when I think about the act of sex or love with the same sex. Male or Female.

Suposedly every guy loves hot lesbians and I used to drol over pictures in magazines when i was younger but as I get older It just doesnt do it for me, not at all. Maybe I am at the "marrying age" of my life. Hell I dont know. Just some insight on one "homophobe" as you put it.

My advice to you would be to get over it and enjoy your life. If I had someone who wasnt white calling me "cracker" on this board I think I would laugh, because it has happened in real life and its hilarious really. Your gay- Who cares. the world doesnt hopefully you find someone who does in this life.


##spiderbaby##

 

[Rex]

I don't care who you fuck. Your business, not mine.

 

[strongchick]

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I have no idea how this answers my question, but whatever.



You misunderstood me. Yes, most men can separate them, but no one can be "in love" with someone that they are not physically attracted to. You are not physically attracted to men, yet you say you can love, meaning "be in love with" anyone. How is this possible?

I'm trying to say that when I'm horny sex with men is okay but it isn't the same as with women, and I CAN"T fall in love with a man...at least it hasn't happened so far.

 

[jersey boy]

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My tendency is to toss men aside when I am 'finished'.

Most men can certainly separate love and physical attraction...!

A little afraid of commitment are we??
As far as the homo thing is concerned, it is simply a perception of the public and the way in which the weak follow suit.

 

[strongchick]

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A little afraid of commitment are we??

same dick, day after day, night after night... heehee.