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I would be very hurt if someone said those things to me, if they were my real life friends. I'd like to believe that none of my friends would do that to me. But I dont put too much faith in others...

And I understand badmouthing the site on other forums - I dont expect HR to think kindly of this site though. Hopefully her and Arabian can settle their shit with eachother , but there are so many others...Which I dont understand because most all of them are good peole who I like. lol.

I guess I just never saw/read HR badmouth you personally...ever. You guys are friends....maybe she did...I didnt read it though. I was just trying to understand where you were coming from because you too kinda, piling it on, shocked me a little cuz you guys always seemed to take up for eachother....but I wasnt around when she was pulling the shit she pulled when she got banned...so I dunno

Her comments on other forums were subtle. I know that she is being fueled by others which bothers me even more.

It sickens me to see her make comments like "I took up for BIKINIMOM'S ASS"... xcuse me? I didn't ask anyone EVER to "take up for me" nor did I ever have a problem with anyone who did NOT (except in one case - but that is for my book, not for here).

When you take up for someone it is because you feel that it is the RIGHT THING TO DO and NOT BECAUSE YOU "LIKE" SOMEONE. <--- a valuable lesson I learned from Frisky.

I have NEVER bad-mouthed Ms HR, not out in open and certainly not behind her e-back. I defy ANYONE to prove otherwise. If I had an issue with anything that she has said/done I told her right here to her e-face, as civil adults should feel comfortable doing... no? If I didn't *e-like* someone I would never bother taking the time to point out what I feel is an error in judgment/behavior. That is what our friends are SUPPOSED to do. Hell, my parents were pretty fucked up but one good thing they did teach me is that "the only ones we correct are the ones we love." In other words, if I didn't give a shit that I thought you were making a mistake and I wasn't trying to be helpfull the best way that I know how, then guess what? I would keep my mouth shut and let you flail. "Talking smack behind someone's e-back" is NOT in alignment with this life lesson that I, personally adhere to.

I also take TREMENDOUS EXCEPTION to anyone even hinting that I have ever gotten *special protection* that wasn't warranted. We squelched that bullshit theory the other day though. :)
 
Her comments on other forums were subtle. I know that she is being fueled by others which bothers me even more.

It sickens me to see her make comments like "I took up for BIKINIMOM'S ASS"... xcuse me? I didn't ask anyone EVER to "take up for me" nor did I ever have a problem with anyone who did NOT (except in one case - but that is for my book, not for here).

When you take up for someone it is because you feel that it is the RIGHT THING TO DO and NOT BECAUSE YOU "LIKE" SOMEONE. <--- a valuable lesson I learned from Frisky.

I have NEVER bad-mouthed Ms HR, not out in open and certainly not behind her e-back. I defy ANYONE to prove otherwise. If I had an issue with anything that she has said/done I told her right here to her e-face, as civil adults should feel comfortable doing... no? If I didn't *e-like* someone I would never bother taking the time to point out what I feel is an error in judgment/behavior. That is what our friends are SUPPOSED to do. Hell, my parents were pretty fucked up but one good thing they did teach me is that "the only ones we correct are the ones we love." In other words, if I didn't give a shit that I thought you were making a mistake and I wasn't trying to be helpfull the best way that I know how, then guess what? I would keep my mouth shut and let you flail. "Talking smack behind someone's e-back" is NOT in alignment with this life lesson that I, personally adhere to.

I also take TREMENDOUS EXCEPTION to anyone even hinting that I have ever gotten *special protection* that wasn't warranted. We squelched that bullshit theory the other day though. :)




I HATE it when someone says I never asked you to do anything for me. Its a slap in the face. Most people dont do things because you ask them to, but because they DID feel it was the right thing to do and most of the time because they had the other persons feelings in mind. Most of the time when some says those words, "I didnt ask you...." its because they couldnt return the same kindness when the tables are turned.


I was just trying to see where you were coming from because I could tell you were bothered/upset in your posts towards HR but I couldnt get what happened between you two..and its none of my business but I was curious, lol so I'm satisified and can see your point of view.
 
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