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heavy_duty said:
"A long time ago" LOL you aint even been on EF "a long time".

I NEVER announced I was leaving. I said I was going to Japan for a while and wanted to give my K away before I left.

Anyway as far as kids go I have my own 2 lovely, gorgeous, beautiful daughters who I pick up at school every day and kiss good night every night. I make them their breakfast, help them with their homework and teach them martial arts....I skate with them and shoot the puck around with them too. You see I actually have a real life.
Now if your wife didn’t think you were such a dick she might give you a few babies too.
BUT if you do ever have kids, make sure you hang on to them BRAH!!!
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So your saying you want to Put a bun in traz's oven??????????
 
Angel said:
Holy fucking shitballs, somebody better say I am the queen bitch or you are all fucked.

Admitting it is half the battle, or some stupid shit.
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Angel > Snacky
 
Well, lets face it. EF was getting painfully boring in chat from what I hear. Nothing to talk about but me for 20 pages when I'm not even here. Every other thread has been an exchange of "you're gay. No, you are gay." or an appreciation thread. I chat for 2 days on here and this place gets more action than pick3's hot tub on gay pride week. Love me or hate me, you all sure do obsess on my goings on. Glad I could entertain you for a couple of days. lol.

The way I see it, it's one of those things where people love to hate someone -- makes them feel good like they are on some common team, like they are superior.

Truth is, I'm glad for my babies. I'm glad I didn't rush to marry anyone out of convenience or fear of what people like some of the jerks on here would say. Controversy has never bothered me. People will always talk smack about people who are different. A chinese proverb states ~ The nail that sticks out gets hammered down. Well, I would rather make you take a hammer to pound me down than to sink down in the wood of my own accord.

g'night.
 
Oh, and alc, whose back did I talk behind? I pretty much got banned for talking about all of you mods to you mods on the mod boards and in the open forums! LOL. I didn't mince any words in telling all of you off. No need to talk behind your back, I've been calling you a jerk to your face for months!
 
I think you're a good broette. You take a lot of shit from a few people, but have the vagina to stick up for yourself and not back down. Chat definitely has gotten more entertaining since your return, no matter what anyone says.:theshadow
 
snacky cake said:
Well, lets face it. EF was getting painfully boring in chat from what I hear. Nothing to talk about but me for 20 pages when I'm not even here. Every other thread has been an exchange of "you're gay. No, you are gay." or an appreciation thread. I chat for 2 days on here and this place gets more action than pick3's hot tub on gay pride week. Love me or hate me, you all sure do obsess on my goings on. Glad I could entertain you for a couple of days. lol.

The way I see it, it's one of those things where people love to hate someone -- makes them feel good like they are on some common team, like they are superior.

Truth is, I'm glad for my babies. I'm glad I didn't rush to marry anyone out of convenience or fear of what people like some of the jerks on here would say. Controversy has never bothered me. People will always talk smack about people who are different. A chinese proverb states ~ The nail that sticks out gets hammered down. Well, I would rather make you take a hammer to pound me down than to sink down in the wood of my own accord.

g'night.
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no one was saying a word about you until you showed back up..........it was actually nice, why don't u run back off so we can clear our minds of you again.
 
1500 said:
I think you're a good broette. You take a lot of shit from a few people, but have the vagina to stick up for yourself and not back down. Chat definitely has gotten more entertaining since your return, no matter what anyone says.:theshadow
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Yeah man...........
 
heavy_duty said:
The thing is, she was very popular here for such a long time and it was in vogue to be cool with her but now that the cool kids don’t like her nobody does. I was never a bitch to HR so why should I start now?

I'm not afraid to still like somebody that the queen bitch doesn’t like any longer :)
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The people who enjoy me don't want to get in the fracas with plunkey, jnev, alcatraz, 75th and tony roma and a couple others. They don't let anyone have a nice time in a thread if I'm in it. It all has to be heather bashing or nothing. That is why I'm not going to stay. It isn't fun for anyone. I did get sucked in to the arabian thing yesterday and today because I just find it amazing how much that guy lies about me for no apparent reason other than the fact that I didn't date him.

Really, you can't be all things to all people, and if a forum has people, especially moderators, chasing me around calling me a whore for being a single mom, then I would be foolish to stay and listen to that, especially while pregnant and hormonal, anyway.

I won't mention the board i frequent but it has been nothing but nice people who act like grown ups. That's a cool change. There are good nice people on ef but they can't get a word in edgewise for the few idiots.
 
mwm5 said:
no one was saying a word about you until you showed back up..........it was actually nice, why don't u run back off so we can clear our minds of you again.
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true. until 2 days ago when there was word of the unbanning, this place was free of any heather-talk, good or bad.
 
I am not going to read all the shizzle I missed... esp with that crazy bright ass text you used... wtf girl? I am like old and shit, that hurts my eyes. LOL...

Any who, my suggestion to you would be to just stick around the womans forum. You have alot to offer, and you need not allow others to sway you off, it only makes you seem weak. Yes, I know of the forum you speak of... and great people there to. But don't forget, we still have alot of amazing people here, just have to wade thru...

I never had any problem with you, never any reason to bash you. I don't know exactly what went down and honestly... I really can give a care less. It will not one way or another change my mind about what a good mother and person you are. This is a chat forum... and with that I think i've said enough.
 
mwm5 said:
no one was saying a word about you until you showed back up..........it was actually nice, why don't u run back off so we can clear our minds of you again.
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Dude, you're gonna be married soon. You should take this opportunity to practice your "yes ma'am's" and get ready for what's to come.
 
mwm5 said:
no one was saying a word about you until you showed back up..........it was actually nice, why don't u run back off so we can clear our minds of you again.
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oh fuck...

there is this button its called ignore, if the woman has done something so damn wrong to irritate you use it.

What happend to just having a set of balls around this place and ignoring people?

I said I would keep my damn mouth shut but hell... its the nature of the beast and I can't. Leave the damn woman alone, she was allowed back, and could have actually come back on a different handle but had the balls to face her demons head on. Give her that damn much.

You people run off more good ones than bad ones... its pathetic.
 
Frisky said:
oh fuck...

there is this button its called ignore, if the woman has done something so damn wrong to irritate you use it.

What happend to just having a set of balls around this place and ignoring people?

I said I would keep my damn mouth shut but hell... its the nature of the beast and I can't. Leave the damn woman alone, she was allowed back, and could have actually come back on a different handle but had the balls to face her demons head on. Give her that damn much.

You people run off more good ones than bad ones... its pathetic.
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A karma-worthy post if ever I saw one.



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Frisky said:
oh fuck...

there is this button its called ignore, if the woman has done something so damn wrong to irritate you use it.

What happend to just having a set of balls around this place and ignoring people?

I said I would keep my damn mouth shut but hell... its the nature of the beast and I can't. Leave the damn woman alone, she was allowed back, and could have actually come back on a different handle but had the balls to face her demons head on. Give her that damn much.

You people run off more good ones than bad ones... its pathetic.
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true indeed
 
snacky cake said:
The people who enjoy me don't want to get in the fracas with plunkey, jnev, alcatraz, 75th and tony roma and a couple others. They don't let anyone have a nice time in a thread if I'm in it. It all has to be heather bashing or nothing. That is why I'm not going to stay. It isn't fun for anyone. I did get sucked in to the arabian thing yesterday and today because I just find it amazing how much that guy lies about me for no apparent reason other than the fact that I didn't date him.

Really, you can't be all things to all people, and if a forum has people, especially moderators, chasing me around calling me a whore for being a single mom, then I would be foolish to stay and listen to that, especially while pregnant and hormonal, anyway.

I won't mention the board i frequent but it has been nothing but nice people who act like grown ups. That's a cool change. There are good nice people on ef but they can't get a word in edgewise for the few idiots.
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not that i read any of that garbage, but those are some good bros
 
mwm5 said:
no one was saying a word about you until you showed back up..........it was actually nice, why don't u run back off so we can clear our minds of you again.
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+1

When you leave, you quickly become a controversial but largely forgotten EF character.

Then you return and people remember what you were really like and start piling-onto you again.
 
calveless wonder said:
not that i read any of that garbage, but those are some good bros
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Im just wondering if shes read any of my other posts throughout my time here that werent directed at her.

gjohnson and I dont agree on one single thing in the world (except for the fact that he is blaque) yet we are good bors together. I have no problemo with people that dont agree with me on stuff.

I just dont like HR's attitude and her (in my opinion) lack of debating skills combined with her insistence to try and debate stuff.
 
Frisky said:
oh fuck...

there is this button its called ignore, if the woman has done something so damn wrong to irritate you use it.

What happend to just having a set of balls around this place and ignoring people?

I said I would keep my damn mouth shut but hell... its the nature of the beast and I can't. Leave the damn woman alone, she was allowed back, and could have actually come back on a different handle but had the balls to face her demons head on. Give her that damn much.

You people run off more good ones than bad ones... its pathetic.
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god bless you
 
heavy_duty said:
But I say to you, That you resist not evil: but whoever shall smite you on your right cheek, turn to him the other also.

Forgive and Forget

Build a Bridge and Get Over It :biggrin:
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how about an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth?
 
Ijust read this thread again in an attempt to find the post that said "this will be my last post - signed Snacky"

someone want to help me find it? :confused:
 
the_alcatraz said:
Ijust read this thread again in an attempt to find the post that said "this will be my last post - signed Snacky"

someone want to help me find it? :confused:
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well, there's this::

snacky cake said:
The people who enjoy me don't want to get in the fracas with plunkey, jnev, alcatraz, 75th and tony roma and a couple others. They don't let anyone have a nice time in a thread if I'm in it. It all has to be heather bashing or nothing. That is why I'm not going to stay. It isn't fun for anyone. I did get sucked in to the arabian thing yesterday and today because I just find it amazing how much that guy lies about me for no apparent reason other than the fact that I didn't date him.

Really, you can't be all things to all people, and if a forum has people, especially moderators, chasing me around calling me a whore for being a single mom, then I would be foolish to stay and listen to that, especially while pregnant and hormonal, anyway.

I won't mention the board i frequent but it has been nothing but nice people who act like grown ups. That's a cool change. There are good nice people on ef but they can't get a word in edgewise for the few idiots.
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heavy_duty said:
"A long time ago" LOL you aint even been on EF "a long time".

I NEVER announced I was leaving. I said I was going to Japan for a while and wanted to give my K away before I left.

Anyway as far as kids go I have my own 2 lovely, gorgeous, beautiful daughters who I pick up at school every day and kiss good night every night. I make them their breakfast, help them with their homework and teach them martial arts....I skate with them and shoot the puck around with them too. You see I actually have a real life.
Now if your wife didn’t think you were such a dick she might give you a few babies too.
BUT if you do ever have kids, make sure you hang on to them BRAH!!!
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hey ALC. I think this was an IN YO FACE post. just sayin.
 
the_alcatraz said:
Oooooooo...you pulled the whole "alcatraz has no life" on me crap...lol I've never heard that one before...nigga pls im on here 24/7 anyone with a pea sized brain can determine that my social life at the moment is nill

yes, I'm saving up so I can have a kid someday...

I'm glad you have a good family, I aint hatin on that that's admirable in my book just yankin ur chain dood...relax with all that tension stuff....

saving damsels is hard eh?
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there is never enough money or the right time to hve a kid. just do it bro. it is the best thing you will ever experience when your kid loks up at you and hold his/her arms up wanting to be held and that child hugs you and pt head on shoulder. Man it is great to be a daddy
 
stilleto said:
i've been pregnant 5 times. which is strange, cause i've only had sex 4 times.
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It just goes to show how mazing you really are.
 
Pat_McCrotch said:
there is never enough money or the right time to hve a kid. just do it bro. it is the best thing you will ever experience when your kid loks up at you and hold his/her arms up wanting to be held and that child hugs you and pt head on shoulder. Man it is great to be a daddy
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you still need financial stability to raise a kid bro...I don't have that atm.
 
Frisky said:
oh fuck...

there is this button its called ignore, if the woman has done something so damn wrong to irritate you use it.

What happend to just having a set of balls around this place and ignoring people?

I said I would keep my damn mouth shut but hell... its the nature of the beast and I can't. Leave the damn woman alone, she was allowed back, and could have actually come back on a different handle but had the balls to face her demons head on. Give her that damn much.

You people run off more good ones than bad ones... its pathetic.
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Amen to running off the good ones. Really do parents no longer teach how to treat ladies with respect and if you don't have anything good to say, don't say anything at all?

I am not saying this place has to be all gayed up with appreciation threads, good disagreements are fun but personal attacks are just bad manners - it is that simple.
 
PICK3 said:
I don't own a hot tub :p

Anyways ... ololololol! @ anyone's opinion on your personal life.

Nobody is perfect.
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whoa whoa whooa wait one gaddamn minute your not perfect?
 
billfred said:
Amen to running off the good ones. Really do parents no longer teach how to treat ladies with respect and if you don't have anything good to say, don't say anything at all?

I am not saying this place has to be all gayed up with appreciation threads, good disagreements are fun but personal attacks are just bad manners - it is that simple.
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what's bad manners is someone talking shit behind your back, coming into your house and saying shit to you, and then expecting that you wil treat them like nothing happened. That's bad manners.

Personal attacks are all in good fun.
 
the_alcatraz said:
you still need financial stability to raise a kid bro...I don't have that atm.
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that would be nice but you would be suprised at what you can do when you have a kid with what money you have.
 
Pat_McCrotch said:
that would be nice but you would be suprised at what you can do when you have a kid with what money you have.
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I don't know about that bro...I got too many bills to pay as it is. I love kids, but I'm just not ready financially and I would think I need a ton more maturity.
 
LOL @ the hypocrisy and ironic self pwnage contained in this thread.
 
the_alcatraz said:
what's bad manners is someone talking shit behind your back, coming into your house and saying shit to you, and then expecting that you wil treat them like nothing happened. That's bad manners.

Personal attacks are all in good fun.
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I think she made it quite clear she did not stab you in the back, more like right in the heart.
 
I am still waiting to hear who this "QUEEN BITCH" that is calling ANYONE a "whore" is and talking smack behind ANYONE'S back and "running off Ms HR" or anyother damned body is.

Put up heavyduty or SHUT THE FUCK UP. :)

I find it ironic that Ms HR posts up elsewhere that "I am an idiot if I am so easily led" when I saw the words she typed with her fingers. Though she did not use the word "CRAZYTOWN" herself, she was in agreement with it. If this is "CRAZYTOWN" then why is she here? What does she hope to prove/gain when mixing with a bunch of "crazies"? Interesting she herself called the author of THAT COMMENT crazy to me several times. But since WE ALL KNOW that person is truly certifiable, nobody really gives a damn. Just thought that it was in poor form for Ms HR. <--- that is me, calling it like I see it without assassinating anyone's character.

Meanwhile I have NEVER EVER posted up anything derogatory, hatefull, ill-spirited, or anything that one might remotely construe as "trying to run someone off"... specifically when it comes to Ms HR. Hell, I asked her to spend more time on the women's forum! <---- sorta contradicts your theory, don't it?

I have never EVER questioned Ms HR's morals or her love/decidation to her children. Why should I? As for the fathers... I have stated openly I willingly chose SATAN to father the only children I will ever have... so I am casting stones?.... or making an observation based on what SHE TOLD US?

Whether I like someone or not if they are in the wrong about something, I will tell them TO THEIR E-FACE - as I did, out here in the open. I don't EVER talk behind someone's e-back as I don't now, nor have I EVER felt the need for such sketchy behavior. My honor is UNQUESTIONABLE... All the shit that has been rained down on me? Pfffffffffffffttttt you don't have a clue because you are too busy stirring e-shit then laughing as those who seem to be taken in by your behavior dance for your pleasure.

:whatever:

I say, until those parties are tired out, LET THE MUSIC PLAY!!!
 
75th said:
Im just wondering if shes read any of my other posts throughout my time here that werent directed at her.

gjohnson and I dont agree on one single thing in the world (except for the fact that he is blaque) yet we are good bors together. I have no problemo with people that dont agree with me on stuff.

I just dont like HR's attitude and her (in my opinion) lack of debating skills combined with her insistence to try and debate stuff.
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Same. Buuut, since we agree on that it means we hate women, chilrens born out of wedlock (like mine was), and do nothing but pull girls' hair in the playground.

So yeah.
 
Is that what you are upset about? Heather agreeing with blueta that this place can be a crazy town? Are you taking that comment about this place being crazy, about YOU being crazy?

Does anyone not agree that this place is nuts? Thats why I like it.
 
cindylou said:
Is that what you are upset about? Heather agreeing with blueta that this place can be a crazy town? Are you taking that comment about this place being crazy, about YOU being crazy?

Does anyone not agree that this place is nuts? Thats why I like it.
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That is a small portion of it, yes. The originator of that comment (little does everyone here know) began a massive PM campaign that accused both me AND my husband of out and out CRAZY shit, like us going to other boards where she was a moderator and starting trouble there) Ummm NOT. Hell, I didn't even know about it until people started PMing me telling that the bitch was doing it. Newsflash: most of those people's attitudes about her doing that was, "Bitch is nuts." ...which clearly she is. Not my problem cause the bitch ain't here and I don't really give a fat rat's ass where she is.

Interesting that while any of those who got themselves bannt from elite thought it was valuable enough to spend more than a few moments every now and then posting up. Then when THEY MESS UP they wander off *someplace else* and smack talk a site that I personally have devoted unbelievable amounts of time and effort to, a place where I am part of THE TEAM that tries to help countless people with NO PAY.

Chat IS nuts... it always has been. Sometimes it has been so much worse than *the funny* definition of nuts. It had been a downright bloodbath where sheeples would enjoy kicking people and laugh as they flailed on the ground. Hell, I think I have to be one of THE WORST examples of how REAL LIFE friends laughed at me all over the fukking web. How would you feel, Cindy, if say, your best friends (I mean real life friends) and someone who you loved who SAID they loved you had a good old time laughing over your baby being taken from you, called you whore, etc, etc, etc when you didn't do a fucking thing wrong?

Ms HR doesn't have a CLUE what that is like and yet she runs to *a place* where she has no problem rubbing elbows with some that she, personally called crazy, toxic, whathaveyou... but I still don't care about that. I am not in the business of worrying who goes where. I just don't understand why she felt the need to smacktalk mods and admin HERE while she is over there. Just leave and stay there and be done with it. Right? How hard is that to do?

I've NEVER done that, though I would certainly have been justified. There was a time when I modded and traveled to a few boards. That shit ended THE FIRST TIME I saw some bitches that I bent over backwards to help who were soooooooo e-nice to me here but would literally CACKLE when they thought I couldn't see.

See, that sort of behavior, while it is understandable, to me denotes a character flaw.

Ms HR is bright enough to know that if she chooses to have children out of wedlock many people will say derogatory things. Regardless of how *socially acceptable* this choice might seem for many, fact is it like a lady getting a very prominent tatttoo. When she does it she had better be prepared that MANY may not say something to her face, they might even be nice. But behind her back, MOST WILL STILL JUDGE. If she thinks for ONE MOMENT that the same people who have had YEARS of saying shit about me won't ever say shit about her, then I am thinking that she is the one that is being easily led.

Either way, matters not to me...

I just get stuff stuck in my craw when peeps badmouth the site where I dedicate(d) A LOT of my time and attention to trying to help people and yes, where I have openly debated and comforted and many times, typed things that I wished I hadn't because I was hurt and angry and lashed out when I felt attacked. I've been on elite for over 8 years and who can be in the middle of a storm for nearly 6 of those 8 years and not have lost their cool or committed an error in judgment? But I am not the one whose honor is being questioned. Well e-tards like heavyduty crop up every now and again and make weak attempts to shit stir but for the most part those of us who have HALF a brain sorta chuckle.
 
Bikinimom has the record for the longest posts ever on a bodybuilding forum...just sayin

Respect woman respect!!!!

I luv me some BM!!! :wavey:
 
I would be very hurt if someone said those things to me, if they were my real life friends. I'd like to believe that none of my friends would do that to me. But I dont put too much faith in others...

And I understand badmouthing the site on other forums - I dont expect HR to think kindly of this site though. Hopefully her and Arabian can settle their shit with eachother , but there are so many others...Which I dont understand because most all of them are good peole who I like. lol.

I guess I just never saw/read HR badmouth you personally...ever. You guys are friends....maybe she did...I didnt read it though. I was just trying to understand where you were coming from because you too kinda, piling it on, shocked me a little cuz you guys always seemed to take up for eachother....but I wasnt around when she was pulling the shit she pulled when she got banned...so I dunno
 
cindylou said:
I would be very hurt if someone said those things to me, if they were my real life friends. I'd like to believe that none of my friends would do that to me. But I dont put too much faith in others...

And I understand badmouthing the site on other forums - I dont expect HR to think kindly of this site though. Hopefully her and Arabian can settle their shit with eachother , but there are so many others...Which I dont understand because most all of them are good peole who I like. lol.

I guess I just never saw/read HR badmouth you personally...ever. You guys are friends....maybe she did...I didnt read it though. I was just trying to understand where you were coming from because you too kinda, piling it on, shocked me a little cuz you guys always seemed to take up for eachother....but I wasnt around when she was pulling the shit she pulled when she got banned...so I dunno
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Her comments on other forums were subtle. I know that she is being fueled by others which bothers me even more.

It sickens me to see her make comments like "I took up for BIKINIMOM'S ASS"... xcuse me? I didn't ask anyone EVER to "take up for me" nor did I ever have a problem with anyone who did NOT (except in one case - but that is for my book, not for here).

When you take up for someone it is because you feel that it is the RIGHT THING TO DO and NOT BECAUSE YOU "LIKE" SOMEONE. <--- a valuable lesson I learned from Frisky.

I have NEVER bad-mouthed Ms HR, not out in open and certainly not behind her e-back. I defy ANYONE to prove otherwise. If I had an issue with anything that she has said/done I told her right here to her e-face, as civil adults should feel comfortable doing... no? If I didn't *e-like* someone I would never bother taking the time to point out what I feel is an error in judgment/behavior. That is what our friends are SUPPOSED to do. Hell, my parents were pretty fucked up but one good thing they did teach me is that "the only ones we correct are the ones we love." In other words, if I didn't give a shit that I thought you were making a mistake and I wasn't trying to be helpfull the best way that I know how, then guess what? I would keep my mouth shut and let you flail. "Talking smack behind someone's e-back" is NOT in alignment with this life lesson that I, personally adhere to.

I also take TREMENDOUS EXCEPTION to anyone even hinting that I have ever gotten *special protection* that wasn't warranted. We squelched that bullshit theory the other day though. :)
 
BIKINIMOM said:
Her comments on other forums were subtle. I know that she is being fueled by others which bothers me even more.

It sickens me to see her make comments like "I took up for BIKINIMOM'S ASS"... xcuse me? I didn't ask anyone EVER to "take up for me" nor did I ever have a problem with anyone who did NOT (except in one case - but that is for my book, not for here).

When you take up for someone it is because you feel that it is the RIGHT THING TO DO and NOT BECAUSE YOU "LIKE" SOMEONE. <--- a valuable lesson I learned from Frisky.

I have NEVER bad-mouthed Ms HR, not out in open and certainly not behind her e-back. I defy ANYONE to prove otherwise. If I had an issue with anything that she has said/done I told her right here to her e-face, as civil adults should feel comfortable doing... no? If I didn't *e-like* someone I would never bother taking the time to point out what I feel is an error in judgment/behavior. That is what our friends are SUPPOSED to do. Hell, my parents were pretty fucked up but one good thing they did teach me is that "the only ones we correct are the ones we love." In other words, if I didn't give a shit that I thought you were making a mistake and I wasn't trying to be helpfull the best way that I know how, then guess what? I would keep my mouth shut and let you flail. "Talking smack behind someone's e-back" is NOT in alignment with this life lesson that I, personally adhere to.

I also take TREMENDOUS EXCEPTION to anyone even hinting that I have ever gotten *special protection* that wasn't warranted. We squelched that bullshit theory the other day though. :)
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I HATE it when someone says I never asked you to do anything for me. Its a slap in the face. Most people dont do things because you ask them to, but because they DID feel it was the right thing to do and most of the time because they had the other persons feelings in mind. Most of the time when some says those words, "I didnt ask you...." its because they couldnt return the same kindness when the tables are turned.


I was just trying to see where you were coming from because I could tell you were bothered/upset in your posts towards HR but I couldnt get what happened between you two..and its none of my business but I was curious, lol so I'm satisified and can see your point of view.
 
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cindylou said:
I HATE it when someone says I never asked you to do anything for me. Its a slap in the face. Most people dont do things because you ask them to, but because they DID feel it was the right thing to do and most of the time because they had the other persons feelings in mind. Most of the time when some says those words, "I didnt ask you...." its because they couldnt return the same kindness when the tables are turned.


I was just trying to see where you were coming from because I could tell you were bothered/upset in your posts towards HR but I couldnt get what happened between you two..and its none of my business but I was curious, lol so I'm satisified and can see your point of view.
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The only time anyone ever says, "I didn't ask you to do that for me" is when "the person who *did something they percieved as being nice* throws that up in to the other person's face".

Standing up for what you believe to be is right is not a NICE thing to do. You don't do it because you want something back. You do that because you feel it is THE RIGHT THING TO DO.

Also by this train of thought I should be PISSED for all those who "didn't take up for my ass"? Come on, does that make ANY sense?

I have NEVER said, "I did this for you (even though you never asked me to) and THIS is how you repay me?" I just simply make a mental note and walk away. You should never EVER do something for another because you want something back. The fact that you thought you helped someone should be payment enough... no?

I don't "do" face-slapping, Cindy. I do "walking away with honor."

And I know you were just curious. :) I answered your inquiries though... honestly and fully which = I've got nothing to hide all the more.
 
BIKINIMOM said:
The only time anyone ever says, "I didn't ask you to do that for me" is when "the person who *did something they percieved as being nice* throws that up in to the other person's face".

Standing up for what you believe to be is right is not a NICE thing to do. You don't do it because you want something back. You do that because you feel it is THE RIGHT THING TO DO.

Also by this train of thought I should be PISSED for all those who "didn't take up for my ass"? Come on, does that make ANY sense?

I have NEVER said, "I did this for you (even though you never asked me to) and THIS is how you repay me?" I just simply make a mental note and walk away. You should never EVER do something for another because you want something back. The fact that you thought you helped someone should be payment enough... no?

I don't "do" face-slapping, Cindy. I do "walking away with honor."

And I know you were just curious. :) I answered your inquiries though... honestly and fully which = I've got nothing to hide all the more.
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Translation: Cindy you are wrong to say "Its a slap in the face. Most people dont do things because you ask them to, but because they DID feel it was the right thing to do and most of the time because they had the other persons feelings in mind. Most of the time when some says those words, "I didnt ask you...." its because they couldnt return the same kindness when the tables are turned."


So now you must thank BM for correcting your lack of knowledge!!!
 
heavy_duty said:
Translation: Cindy you are wrong to say "Its a slap in the face. Most people dont do things because you ask them to, but because they DID feel it was the right thing to do and most of the time because they had the other persons feelings in mind. Most of the time when some says those words, "I didnt ask you...." its because they couldnt return the same kindness when the tables are turned." So now you must thank BM for correcting your lack of knowledge!!!
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LMFAO... You truly are limited.... but please, do go on! We are enjoying the show. Clearly you failed miserably in your attempts to be witty regarding politics so now you go back to what you DO KNOW = shit stirring.

Ms CindyLou is intelligent enough to read and comprehend. I highly doubt she needs the "heavyduty super secret decoder ring" to understand my posts. :lmao:
 
BIKINIMOM said:
The only time anyone ever says, "I didn't ask you to do that for me" is when "the person who *did something they percieved as being nice* throws that up in to the other person's face".

Standing up for what you believe to be is right is not a NICE thing to do. You don't do it because you want something back. You do that because you feel it is THE RIGHT THING TO DO.

Also by this train of thought I should be PISSED for all those who "didn't take up for my ass"? Come on, does that make ANY sense?

I have NEVER said, "I did this for you (even though you never asked me to) and THIS is how you repay me?" I just simply make a mental note and walk away. You should never EVER do something for another because you want something back. The fact that you thought you helped someone should be payment enough... no?

I don't "do" face-slapping, Cindy. I do "walking away with honor."

And I know you were just curious. :) I answered your inquiries though... honestly and fully which = I've got nothing to hide all the more.
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Yeah, I guess what is right is relative. I dont guess..I know that.

You dont have to take up for HR I wasnt implying that ...I just didnt understand why you had to help pile it on with the rest of them......when she was one of the few that had your back when so many didnt. I had assumed that you two had a friendship. I guess you are trying to help her out but there is little she can do about who fathered her child now.....

She bad mouthed elite and that was enough for you to change your mind about her...I get it :) Thats fine...like I said, what I would do and what you would do in two different situations is entirely different. I dont get you all the time right away, but eventually I like to try. lol. I like elite...but not enough to get mad when someone bad mouth's the site. Sorry elite! Not everyone has to like it or appreciate its craziness. ITs not for everyone.

whoops sorry for taking the thread in the wrong direction.

hell I like all of you guys

back to snacky........

oh, and P.S. I love you all
 
cindylou said:
Yeah, I guess what is right is relative. I dont guess..I know that.

You dont have to take up for HR I wasnt implying that ...I just didnt understand why you had to help pile it on with the rest of them......when she was one of the few that had your back when so many didnt. I had assumed that you two had a friendship. I guess you are trying to help her out but there is little she can do about who fathered her child now.....

She bad mouthed elite and that was enough for you to change your mind about her...I get it :) Thats fine...like I said, what I would do and what you would do in two different situations is entirely different. I dont get you all the time right away, but eventually I like to try. lol. I like elite...but not enough to get mad when someone bad mouth's the site. Sorry elite! Not everyone has to like it or appreciate its craziness. ITs not for everyone.

whoops sorry for taking the thread in the wrong direction.

hell I like all of you guys

back to snacky........

oh, and P.S. I love you all
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CindyLou, I respect your comments. I am thinking that the reason you don't care whether or not someone bad mouths elite is because you don't PERSONALLY identify with the site?

And I am not talking chat. All of elite does not = chat. There are many here who NEVER wander into chat that bust their asses trying to help people. If CRAZYTOWN = chat. Well hell, I agree and I do apologize if I misunderstood.

I don't dislike Ms HR... I just think it is odd that she posted up snide comments here about how "she had took up for my ass"... especially when I continued to do THE SAME FOR HER "ASS" even AFTER she dissed me on another site.

I didn't "help heap anything on her". Do you remember that thread few days back where the entire direction changed for ONE REASON: I told everyone in chat to cut out the whole "whore/slut" talk specifically directed AT HER.

Then she turns around and "slaps me in the face"? (Your words CindyLou).

Now I get K-messages about me being on a soapbox?

Guess what? I have earned the right to be on a soapbox that is FIFTY FEET TALL...

I didn't pile on Ms HR, nor have I said anything remotely hurtfull, offensive or deragatory about her. Why should I? :whatever: What usefull purpose would that serve? Obviously some others have certain issues with her and they glean some pleasure from stuff like that. Right or wrong, I am not judging them either. We are human and I understand it.

As for who fathered any of her children, everyone on elite knows who fathered the only children that I have ever had or will have - IT WAS SATAN. So I am not casting stones. I am speaking from experience and based on what she willingly posted up here about either of these men, though they may not be as horrible as my ex, they certainly aren't princes by any stretch. So because I am making this experienced observation it means that I am "heaping something on her"?

Come on... I wouldn't say *boo* if I didn't care to try to help her see that she says one thing about a fella one day then next day he is the greatest thing since sliced bread.

That does not = me hating on HR. That = me trying to help her see that something might be a bit askew in her judgment. If that means she feels that I participated in some sort of pile on, I am sorry, that was not my intent.

Regardless, none of this = me, trying to run her off elite, have her banned, questioning her morals, calling her hurtfull names or EVER questioning her devotion or love for her children so I am still trying to figure out where any of this lands in MY BACKYARD? Why I had to read comments about how "BIKINIMOM got special protection"... I didn't put that crap up in reference to her... did I?

I have stated many times publicly and privately that she is bright, beautiful, has a heart that is too big (if that is possible). She also has many accomplishments that are commendable - made something great of herself despite all of the obstacles life has put in her way. I just wish that she would see that there are MANY MANY MANY good men out there that would lay down their lives for her AND her child(ren), men that are kind and decent and TRULY loving. She can't tell me today (because she is pregnant) that the man she posted up all over on elite about how shabbily he treated her and her son that we all advised was a collosal JERK *magically* he is a prince today.

I hope she is right, though because at the end of the day he is at least biological father to ONE of her children.

Married or not, if the guy is a douche to her then he will be WORSE to her kids... and who knows that better.... THAN ME? :(
 
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