Is that what you are upset about? Heather agreeing with blueta that this place can be a crazy town? Are you taking that comment about this place being crazy, about YOU being crazy?
Does anyone not agree that this place is nuts? Thats why I like it.
That is a small portion of it, yes. The originator of that comment (little does everyone here know) began a massive PM campaign that accused both me AND my husband of out and out CRAZY shit, like us going to other boards where she was a moderator and starting trouble there) Ummm NOT. Hell, I didn't even know about it until people started PMing me telling that the bitch was doing it. Newsflash: most of those people's attitudes about her doing that was, "Bitch is nuts." ...which clearly she is. Not my problem cause the bitch ain't here and I don't really give a fat rat's ass where she is.
Interesting that while any of those who got themselves bannt from elite thought it was valuable enough to spend more than a few moments every now and then posting up. Then when THEY MESS UP they wander off *someplace else* and smack talk a site that I personally have devoted unbelievable amounts of time and effort to, a place where I am part of THE TEAM that tries to help countless people with NO PAY.
Chat IS nuts... it always has been. Sometimes it has been so much worse than *the funny* definition of nuts. It had been a downright bloodbath where sheeples would enjoy kicking people and laugh as they flailed on the ground. Hell, I think I have to be one of THE WORST examples of how REAL LIFE friends laughed at me all over the fukking web. How would you feel, Cindy, if say, your best friends (I mean real life friends) and someone who you loved who SAID they loved you had a good old time laughing over your baby being taken from you, called you whore, etc, etc, etc when you didn't do a fucking thing wrong?
Ms HR doesn't have a CLUE what that is like and yet she runs to *a place* where she has no problem rubbing elbows with some that she, personally called crazy, toxic, whathaveyou... but I still don't care about that. I am not in the business of worrying who goes where. I just don't understand why she felt the need to smacktalk mods and admin HERE while she is over there. Just leave and stay there and be done with it. Right? How hard is that to do?
I've NEVER done that, though I would certainly have been justified. There was a time when I modded and traveled to a few boards. That shit ended THE FIRST TIME I saw some bitches that I bent over backwards to help who were soooooooo e-nice to me here but would literally CACKLE when they thought I couldn't see.
See, that sort of behavior, while it is understandable, to me denotes a character flaw.
Ms HR is bright enough to know that if she chooses to have children out of wedlock many people will say derogatory things. Regardless of how *socially acceptable* this choice might seem for many, fact is it like a lady getting a very prominent tatttoo. When she does it she had better be prepared that MANY may not say something to her face, they might even be nice. But behind her back, MOST WILL STILL JUDGE. If she thinks for ONE MOMENT that the same people who have had YEARS of saying shit about me won't ever say shit about her, then I am thinking that she is the one that is being easily led.
Either way, matters not to me...
I just get stuff stuck in my craw when peeps badmouth the site where I dedicate(d) A LOT of my time and attention to trying to help people and yes, where I have openly debated and comforted and many times, typed things that I wished I hadn't because I was hurt and angry and lashed out when I felt attacked. I've been on elite for over 8 years and who can be in the middle of a storm for nearly 6 of those 8 years and not have lost their cool or committed an error in judgment? But I am not the one whose honor is being questioned. Well e-tards like heavyduty crop up every now and again and make weak attempts to shit stir but for the most part those of us who have HALF a brain sorta chuckle.