need advice on child custody

[wootoom]

i need this attitude to support my 5 kids. nice life.

 

[mrplunkey]

It's going to vary widely from state-to-state.

Normally child support is a function of both parenting time and the relative incomes of both parents.

Parenting time is influenced by a huge number of factors including who works, relative stability of the two homes and even the state (i.e. Tennessee favors mothers heavily, whereas California is more egalitarian).

Check on the rules regarding parenting time. The magic of 50/50 is it's almost impossible to relocate the kid for anything but the absolute best of reasons. In Tennessee, getting something like 10 out of 14 days means you can move the kid for almost any reason (i.e. new BF in Texas).

 

[calveless wonder]

get a new gf

 

[ortiz34]

get a new gf

lol

 

[binö]

well i've said my piece with her about the matter...my bro is a attorney and told her what's up.
just sucks seeing this pig faggot push her around, if i ever see him/meet him he's gonna regret being such a cvnt.
dude already got my criminal background check, and can clearly see i'm not afraid to throw down.
really don't need trouble, but my ego won't allow myself or my girl to get bullied esp by some punkass fat slobby pig (ex pig)

 

[wootoom]

well i've said my piece with her about the matter...my bro is a attorney and told her what's up.
just sucks seeing this pig faggot push her around, if i ever see him/meet him he's gonna regret being such a cvnt.
dude already got my criminal background check, and can clearly see i'm not afraid to throw down.
really don't need trouble, but my ego won't allow myself or my girl to get bullied esp by some punkass fat slobby pig (ex pig)

Like i said bro, please be careful...I'm a fucking maniac also and it just makes things worse

 

[jackangel]

infract the sonuvabitch.

 

[puddlemonkey]

unfortunatly i have become somewhat invovled in this...GF has a real dickhead ex, dude is a angry controlling ex-pig who wants to call the shots with his ex even though they are divorced.
and she is so passive she let's him abuse her and force his will on her.
well, they did informal custody but now it's going to be offical and thru the courts...dickfuk is insisting on having the 51% and seems to think he is entitled to it since he is the primary provider (the kid is split equally amongst the two houses, but the loser doesn't have a job and can spend more time with the son, whereas she has a full time job and isn't afforded that luxury).
he is threatening to fight the manner if she doesn't capitulate, and she is willing to allow this so it doesn't fuk the kid up going thru a lengthy court battle...plus she doesn't have the funds to pay for a represenative attorney...he has money from a settlement to afford good lawyers.
is it really that big of a deal having 49%? the way he is making it seem, he will be able to dictate what she does with the kid and where he goes...she will have to inform him everytime she takes him ouf of town or out of state, whereas he has free reign to go wherever he pleases.
i foresee a decade of trouble for my poor GF, allowing her ex to still control her sound decisions because that is his nature...I'm trying to be chill about it, but it is starting to effect me, watching her willling get run over.
is 49% that big of a deal?

good luck with all that baggage

 

[binö]

Like i said bro, please be careful...I'm a fucking maniac also and it just makes things worse

a sweet passive loving girl, abused by a power hungry small dicked cop that lost his badge, it's almost too much for me to bear.
he's gotten away with it for so long...what's a good bro to do?

 

[ortiz34]

Relax bro, be supportive, she and her kid need the stability of SOMEONE, be their rock.
Be the bigger man, and she should focus on being the best parent.