Is it wrong to tell a female that you want to @#$%

[Carmen]

That is exactly what I'm trying to avoide. I don't have the time, energy, or desire to get mixed up in some crazy courting ritual that leads to false pretenses. Need to treat this whole thing like a trip to In-N-Out.... just get in and out.

It all gets sticky around the respect factor. Too easy to look like a complete weiner with this kind of approach.

now that i think of it, it might be best to be not QUITE so blunt... like maybe just asked if she'd like to come by your room/apt./house and get drunk with you. (its kinda implied that fooling around is an ingredient)
if she's up for it, she might say yes. and if she's not, you haven't said anything too innapropriate for her to be mad or offended.

 

[Gigantasor]

So just showing her my Nads and winking isn't a good idea?

 

[Nathan]

If you are pretty sure she would take it in a non offensive manner how direct should you be?

Fact is I don't want a relationship with her I just want to catch and release.

Is that wrong?

I'm serious here. Cause I don not want to come across as a total dick.

If you were to do it how would you?

I've said, "I vote you be quiet and we have sex now." It worked but we were already alone and in my room and I knew that was what she came back for. I've thought about being upfront with girls about my intentions but common sense always got the better of me.

 

[Gigantasor]

Common sense or fear?

Some of those women can get mad as hell bro and they bite hard.

 

[Nathan]

Common sense or fear?

Some of those women can get mad as hell bro and they bite hard.

I wouldn't call it fear per se since, after all, I usually have a solid 110 pounds on the girls I date. Do you date heifers or something? By common sense I just meant that by saying you want to get laid, often that may be the phrase that prevents you from getting laid.

 

[Gigantasor]

I wouldn't call it fear per se since, after all, I usually have a solid 110 pounds on the girls I date. Do you date heifers or something? By common sense I just meant that by saying you want to get laid, often that may be the phrase that prevents you from getting laid.

I agree. That's the whole point of this thread. When is it ok and how the hell do you pull it off withouth blowing a couple hunderd bucks and an entire weekend plus on a couple hours of fun.

As far as heifers.... You get like four for the price of one. How the hell can you go wrong there . It's liek a group thing every time.

Gig