I'm watching this 20/20 episode about asexual people/couples

[Scotsman]

do you actually live in scotland bro? I've seen pictures from some of those strongman competitions in scotland and there's always some hot buff athletic scottish girls running around. That's where I would be if I was in scotland. Not sure what your tastes are though.

No I live in Colorado. I have spent a good deal of time in Scotland and yes there are some very beautiful women there. Unfortuneately giant Americans aren't terribly popular with them.

Cheers,
Scotsman

 

[redsamurai]

No I live in Colorado. I have spent a good deal of time in Scotland and yes there are some very beautiful women there. Unfortuneately giant Americans aren't terribly popular with them.

Cheers,
Scotsman

I thought you might be living in the states, but I also thought you were an indigenous scot. You shouldn't let on you're american, just you live in america. Get the accent down and you should be golden ....no?

 

[Scotsman]

I thought you might be living in the states, but I also thought you were an indigenous scot. You shouldn't let on you're american, just you live in america. Get the accent down and you should be golden ....no?

Oh I have the accent down pretty well. I can even do the regional dialects fairly well. When I'd get drunk the Scots were always surpised I was an American since I sounded like them.

And trust me once the accent thing wears off there's still the personality issue with women.

Cheers,
Scotsman

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

asexuality exists in the animal world, but what about humans?

You'd think people would be more capable of it than animals, being an advanced species n all. Then I see a nice pair of tits and it's like bam! I get kicked up a notch.

 

[Sub-Zero]

Honestly not something you can judge from reading posts and the 15 or so minutes of phone conversation we've had. There's a lot of things that I would say in real life that I won't type out here. I have a very mean-sarcastic sense of humor that offends most people(especially women). I'm actually a very difficult person to get along with IRL, probably a good part of the reason I spent ~90% of my time alone.

Cheers,
Scotsman

with girls iv found you have to go the extra step to let them know ur joking.

lately if i let a snide comment slip, i do the "awww im just kidding c;monnn" or ill do an exagerated laugh or smile.

i think the hardest thing for me is competition. id just rather stay silent or completely bail than compete with someone for another person's attention, male or female

 

[Sub-Zero]

I have a very hard time wanting sex for a host of reasons. We got the hormonal issues straightened out but the other issues remain. My husband loves me and is very attracted to me but still there are many times where sex is NOT at the forefront of our relationship and yet I have no desire for the relationship to end.

My husband loves me every minute of every day WITHOUT sex and he is very understanding in that I don't want sex for reasons that have naught to do with him.

So I do understand how there are people who live like this.

Don't get me wrong. I don't WANT to live my life like this forever. I long for the day when we can be "normal". But if we never get there, there isn't a singular doubt in my mind that my husband will cast me aside because of this.

if your not pleasing your spouse sexually, then you are nothing more than FRIENDS.

 

[Smurfy]

Honestly not something you can judge from reading posts and the 15 or so minutes of phone conversation we've had. There's a lot of things that I would say in real life that I won't type out here. I have a very mean-sarcastic sense of humor that offends most people(especially women). I'm actually a very difficult person to get along with IRL, probably a good part of the reason I spent ~90% of my time alone.

Cheers,
Scotsman

So are you trying to tell me youre a fucking dickhead?

 

[Stefka]

i think the hardest thing for me is competition. id just rather stay silent or completely bail than compete with someone for another person's attention, male or female

I do that too

 

[musclemom]

if your not pleasing your spouse sexually, then you are nothing more than FRIENDS.

Don't be so quick to judge, Sub. The sexual dynamics of a relationship change and evolve when you're older, that doesn't invalidate the love.

 

[Bikini Mod]

if your not pleasing your spouse sexually, then you are nothing more than FRIENDS.

Why would I marry a man that is anything less?