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cindylou said:
I wanted to hit it twice, until I hit it once
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It only SEEMS like *a lot of guys* if the sex was "meh".
If the sex was always GREAT, then it would seem like you hadn't been with enough!
If the sex was always GREAT, then it would seem like you hadn't been with enough!
BIKINIMOM said:LOL, no it didn't.
.... but I know EXACTLY what you mean. Goodness if I had a dime for all of the lackluster sex I had... What men don't realize is that sex is percieved differently for us. Men say there is no such thing as bad sex because afterall it IS sex. LOL For us, if it is *eh* then all we can do is roll our eyes at ourselves and think, "And I got nekkid for THIS?"
Good point, but it goes both ways. I bartedned on and off since 1995, the girls I met while working were usually pretty young. One fling (started New Year's Eve 3 hours after the ball dropped and ended New Year's Day around 11pm) the girl was on top @ one point and she was jumping up and down like one of those construction guys with a jackhammer. I had to tell her (nicely) "Easy babe, find a rythm with you hips, etc" In her defence she was only 21 (I think) at the time.....
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nimbus said:
After you have had a couple of *icky* or *eh* encounters you realize that the sex is always best if there is some sort of relationship established first. And yes, this goes for the men too as they mature, they will see that the wind blowing won't make their winkies hard - there has to be something more for you to make the effort to get nekkid.
When I split from my ex I had some fun *finishing my adolescents*. I learned a lot about myself, sex in general and how it all fit together best for me.
Some of THE WORST sex I had was with guys who were stunning in every sense of the word, but for the most important part = how much they stimulated my OTHER senses (meaning more than just my eyes). During my personal evolution I realized that a man had to touch my mind, then my heart and FINALLY my eyes...
I said it many times, "I don't date pretty men. I only date men that were stunningly beautiful." I married one of the most stunningly beautiful men EVAH."
BIKINIMOM said:After you have had a couple of *icky* or *eh* encounters you realize that the sex is always best if there is some sort of relationship established first. And yes, this goes for the men too as they mature, they will see that the wind blowing won't make their winkies hard - there has to be something more for you to make the effort to get nekkid.
When I split from my ex I had some fun *finishing my adolescents*. I learned a lot about myself, sex in general and how it all fit together best for me.
Some of THE WORST sex I had was with guys who were stunning in every sense of the word, but for the most important part = how much they stimulated my OTHER senses (meaning more than just my eyes). During my personal evolution I realized that a man had to touch my mind, then my heart and FINALLY my eyes...
I said it many times, "I don't date pretty men. I only date men that were stunningly beautiful." I married one of the most stunningly beautiful men EVAH."
Over the last few years any girl I met that was just a fling, knew it would be just a fling, we had mind-numbing sex. Any girl I wanted to be my girlfriend.......not as good.
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