Listen, when I see a dude with muscles and he wears a tight shirt, I love it and I do not think AT ALL he is showing off.
That's like some babe getting implants and wearing a tight sports bra to cover them puppies.
I was always buggin my guy to wear tight shirts cause he has a great body, but he feels like you do and doesn't want to show off.
Forget modesty.......show them muscles
im never tan, except i got a little more tan from this vacation, and we will probably always think of ourselves as fat small noobs, it comes with the constant need to be bigger and better.