I broke up with bf/ I'm back

[H_T_]

y'all just simmer down now.

 

[RottenWillow]

However, when he pushes and shoves, throws things, etc I have always just tried to get him to quit and calm him down.

Probably b/c he pressed your "mommy" button and you tried to help him.

 

[H_T_]

Probably b/c he pressed your "mommy" button and you tried to help him.

sounds dirty.

 

[heatherrae]

Holy shit girl, I am so sorry. I cannot see the pics as my comp screen is messed up, and also I am not sure that I really want to see them.
If you need any one to talk to or vent/bitch to I will listen.
Btw, glad you are back. Shit loads of people have noticed you missing!

THanks sweetie! =-)

 

[heatherrae]

THanks sweetie! =-)

EEEeeeckk, I think you are right. I always took pride in thinking that living in an abusive home as a child had no impact on me and was proud that I went on to be an attorney, didn't need anyone, etc. etc. Then, something like this happens and I realize that I try to make nice with people like that. The more they act up, the more I try to fix it, fix them, fix all their problems, blah, blah.

 

[Cutiebaby]

EEEeeeckk, I think you are right. I always took pride in thinking that living in an abusive home as a child had no impact on me and was proud that I went on to be an attorney, didn't need anyone, etc. etc. Then, something like this happens and I realize that I try to make nice with people like that. The more they act up, the more I try to fix it, fix them, fix all their problems, blah, blah.

Girl you need to leave and never look back. You are worth far more than to ever be treated like that. There is absolutely NO excuse at all for a man to act like that reguardless of what he believes his woman is doing.
I am truly glad that you are ok..Stay strong hun, things can only go up after they have gone down.

 

[gotmilk]

does this make you want to work with abused woman in the future? First hand experience can be a powerful motivator.

 

[heatherrae]

does this make you want to work with abused woman in the future? First hand experience can be a powerful motivator.

I actually thought about that. Back when I had my own shingle hung, I did lots of work for abused children. Those cases only paid $250 per case, and I usually spent more out of my own pocket than I made, but I felt like I was making a difference, which is good.

Maybe there is a reason that life sort of took me in a full circle to my past. ??? I like to look at the silver lining to every cloud.

 

[velvett]

They give exactly what they know you'll take. Dont take anything at all, ever.

You said a mouthful.

 

[heatherrae]

God, thanks so much guys! I feel like this huge weight has been lifted off of me. I have been kept under this weird isolation and secrecy for so long. As embarassed as I am, I feel so much better to have gotten it out in the open.

You are really a great group of people.