It wasn't my idea. A judge ordered him to leave and ordered his kids somewhere else (I think they're at their grandparents). The judge ordered him to leave not contact me in any way. None of it was my idea. I wasn't even present in court at that hearing. He isn't allowed to contact me, so he still keeps tabs through other people. I would give him anything that he wanted out of here and make any accomodations that he needed. He just is scaring me because I don't know when I come in if someone is going to be in the house. Then, every day there are drive bys to see if I'm here. There are all sorts of people I haven't met just walking in and taking stuff or demanding me to go get things. They are sort of frightening. I can't imagine he needs to send people every day. He could get it all at once. I could just put a stop to it, but I'm trying to not be petty. Life is too short for pettiness. On the other hand, when I see 2 truck and 4 people out in the driveway every day, it gets a bit ridiculous.