I broke up with bf/ I'm back

[H_T_]

and in answer to your question
I don't think she's drinking still
she came from a very conservative "Church of Christ" family
our 2 years of marriage were a lie to her family
she came to the funeral home for a visitation after we had been divorced a number of years
she apologized to my mom(I wasn't there)
pregnant now and married again
I had apologized to her family long before

sounds painful.

 

[needtogetaas]

I'm from the slapahoe tribe.protectors of the get in the kitchen and make me a sandwich bitch.

 

[heatherrae]

yeah I guess that depends on where you live.

my long lost best friend had been living with a fireman whose father was also the mayor and whose brother was on the police f0rce in this town. everytime he's beat her ass and she'd call the cops - guess who shows up to their house/ daddy and brother. until the day I was there and witnessed him choking her out in a locked bedroom. her sister and I called the cops and they real deal actually showed up but it took quite a bit of explanation and convincing for them to believe it was anything more than an alcohol-induced lover's quarrel.
anywho he was convicted (not sure of the exact charges) and he never lost his job as far as I remember but this was a while ago so I could be off there. but anywho yeah. that fucker knocked me down to the concrete when I yelled obscenities at him in a distraction attempt. I basically yelled hey fuck you motherfucker come fucking hit me and see what you got coming you pussy. at least it was enough for him to to let go of her throat so she could breathe but that concrete did hurt my toosh LOL then I went home and told my daddy.

That's Smurfy for you! YOu are the best Smurf!

I grew up in a very violent household. I saw my stepdad beat my mom so badly that he broke bones, kicked her in the stomach when she was pregnant, causing a miscarriage, etc.

I really honestly thought that it would never happen to me because I thought I would never fall for that type of guy. I generally like more nerdy, smart, professional types. I really sort of jumped in this headlong without getting to know him well enough first.

It sort of started out like a fairytale and slipped slowly backwards, and by then I was too ashamed to admit to my friends and family that I had made a mistake. I am proud to a fault.

I still don't want to tell my family that I screwed up.

 

[RottenWillow]

He says that everyone else needs to be "normal" so that he won't get pissed off. !!!

Well bless his heart.


I ended up with a dude once that evolved into posessivenss and abuse. First time he hit me I hit him in the face with a serving bowl and broke his nose. Then he threw me headfirst into a sheetrock wall. I retaliated by pulling the sparkplug wires out of his car since I knew his ride was his baby. Then he tried to come after me again and I whipped the hell out of his face with the wires till he was on his knees covering his face. His neighbors called the police saying a woman was killing the guy next door. We both got arrested. Then he moved onto a chick what would take his gay bullshit.

They give exactly what they know you'll take. Dont take anything at all, ever.

 

[Smurfy]

That's Smurfy for you! YOu are the best Smurf!

I grew up in a very violent household. I saw my stepdad beat my mom so badly that he broke bones, kicked her in the stomach when she was pregnant, causing a miscarriage, etc.

I really honestly thought that it would never happen to me because I thought I would never fall for that type of guy. I generally like more nerdy, smart, professional types. I really sort of jumped in this headlong without getting to know him well enough first.

It sort of started out like a fairytale and slipped slowly backwards, and by then I was too ashamed to admit to my friends and family that I had made a mistake. I am proud to a fault.

I still don't want to tell my family that I screwed up.

Right. The thing you know though is that your family loves you no matter wha, and ultimately they want you to be safe and happy.

 

[heatherrae]

Well bless his heart.


I ended up with a dude once that evolved into posessivenss and abuse. First time he hit me I hit him in the face with a serving bowl and broke his nose. Then he threw me headfirst into a sheetrock wall. I retaliated by pulling the sparkplug wires out of his car since I knew his ride was his baby. Then he tried to come after me again and I whipped the hell out of his face with the wires till he was on his knees covering his face. His neighbors called the police saying a woman was killing the guy next door. We both got arrested. Then he moved onto a chick what would take his gay bullshit.

They give exactly what they know you'll take. Dont take anything at all, ever.

Damn Girl! LOL. Remind me not to tick you off. I do believe you could whip my butt. You know what is weird? Whenever anyone has ever tried to hit me in the past (not bf's. This is the first for that) I have always kicked their butts. However, when he pushes and shoves, throws things, etc I have always just tried to get him to quit and calm him down.

Damn, when the hell did I become an enabler, rewarding his outbursts by cooing at him to calm down? DUH!

 

[biteme]

Well bless his heart.


I ended up with a dude once that evolved into posessivenss and abuse. First time he hit me I hit him in the face with a serving bowl and broke his nose. Then he threw me headfirst into a sheetrock wall. I retaliated by pulling the sparkplug wires out of his car since I knew his ride was his baby. Then he tried to come after me again and I whipped the hell out of his face with the wires till he was on his knees covering his face. His neighbors called the police saying a woman was killing the guy next door. We both got arrested. Then he moved onto a chick what would take his gay bullshit.

They give exactly what they know you'll take. Dont take anything at all, ever.

It only takes once for me and I'm done with them. And women are just as violent as men. Most men are just too embarrassed to admit it.

 

[biteme]

BTW, did I say I'm sorry and that we're glad to have you back!

 

[heatherrae]

It only takes once for me and I'm done with them. And women are just as violent as men. Most men are just too embarrassed to admit it.

I don't doubt that a bit. Women think they can do it and get away with it. Either way is wrong!

 

[Cutiebaby]

Holy shit girl, I am so sorry. I cannot see the pics as my comp screen is messed up, and also I am not sure that I really want to see them.
If you need any one to talk to or vent/bitch to I will listen.
Btw, glad you are back. Shit loads of people have noticed you missing!