Arnold'sApprentice said:
everthing is to failure bro...its a habit i cant seem to stop now.i instinctively go to failure...i used to do heavy negs and drops but i think that overtrained me
btw i should have mentioned i'm 6'2 and about 14 stone...total guesstimate ...15-20% bf
Give the 5x5 a try. Read the whole thread and follow it exactly. I wouldn't worry about your diet to much right now, it's seems that you are eating enough to where you should gain.
Do not change the program. Follow it exactly as designed. See where you are, and how you feel in 3 months.
Keep us posted here on each workout on how it went, progress, and how you felt afterwards. (You've seen the posts many have already put up of their workouts. Do the same.)
Joker