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For your brother Bino, here's a quote from my book on internet dating and relationships regarding the matter:
"So what then should we look for when pursuing a long term and committed relationship?
The answer isn’t complicated at all. The answer is LIKE, RESPECT and common life goals.
It is far easier to find someone that you are sexually attracted to than it is to find someone whose company you genuinely enjoy long after the sheets stop rustling. In other words you would do best to find a person who is not only your lover but someone who is also your friend. Think about it this way: ask yourself if for whatever reason the two of you were no longer able to have sexual intercourse, would you still want to share your life with them?
But isn’t passion important? Yes, a passionate/satisfying sex life is very important to a healthy long term relationship, however, having said that be cognizant that this is NOT the most important component. Remember, it is far easier to find a good or even exciting sexual partner than it is to find another human being that you want to share a large part, if not the rest of your life with...."
"So what then should we look for when pursuing a long term and committed relationship?
The answer isn’t complicated at all. The answer is LIKE, RESPECT and common life goals.
It is far easier to find someone that you are sexually attracted to than it is to find someone whose company you genuinely enjoy long after the sheets stop rustling. In other words you would do best to find a person who is not only your lover but someone who is also your friend. Think about it this way: ask yourself if for whatever reason the two of you were no longer able to have sexual intercourse, would you still want to share your life with them?
But isn’t passion important? Yes, a passionate/satisfying sex life is very important to a healthy long term relationship, however, having said that be cognizant that this is NOT the most important component. Remember, it is far easier to find a good or even exciting sexual partner than it is to find another human being that you want to share a large part, if not the rest of your life with...."