going into a marriage sexually frustrated...

[nefertiti]

100% agreed. That is why I always say that LIKE is so much more important than *love*. In the beginning none of us REALLY knows what love is. We really get married because of sexual attraction.

You gotta still have something to talk about long after the sheets stop rustling as life has many ways of taking that aspect of marriage.

Like

Respect

and

Common Life Goals

If any one of these three components is missing the union is doomed to failure.

I do applaud you for your dedication Army Vet and hope that you and your wife find a way to resolve these issues and that your family remains intact and HAPPY.

Love should include like. And respect. Or it's just not love, in my eyes.

Common life goals is the one area I think good matches in other areas fail - but it is OH SO CRUCIAL to the survival of a relationship.

 

[Creepusmaximus]

Id have sex with everyone in this thread.

That a girl, take a few for the team.

 

[binö]

No. Won't ever work out unless hubby can have a girl friend but then what's the point of the wife? He's not 50 or so is he?

lol this is terrible but this would be ideal.
have a nice little wifey for house chores and raising chilrens
smurfy,frisky,maybe even BM, etc for this role....then have a saucy gf to shag mercielessly and without love on the side.
utopian dream

 

[nefertiti]

lol this is terrible but this would be ideal.
have a nice little wifey for house chores and raising chilrens
smurfy,frisky,maybe even BM, etc for this role....then have a saucy gf to shag mercielessly and without love on the side.
utopian dream

The best partner is the one who knows how to be the wife/husband as well as mistress/lover. I won't get married till I know I have both in one man.

 

[javaguru]

my bro is in the prime of his sexual life
makes over 100k, pussy getting thrown at him constantly, and he has to let it all pass
sad

Send him the link...nomarriage.com

 

[EnderJE]

Id have sex with everyone in this thread.

 

[mrplunkey]

i thought the only point of marriage was guarnateed poonani for life?

what is this business about LESS sex after marriage? oh boy am i screwed

Marrying to have steady access to sex is like buying a 747 so you can have steady access to those little bags of peanuts they give you during the flight.

 

[b fold the truth]

not a chance. only gets worse. give your bro my condolences.

Gosh, I had a headache ONE night in 5 years. Can't a guy get a break every once in a while? I'm not JUST a piece of meat you know.

 

[b fold the truth]

Roofies will work.

I take them by prescription and I'd be pretty upset if my wife raped me and didn't at least video it so I could watch it later.

On another note...if you are hoping that marriage will be THE THING that will make you and your life happy and complete, you should reconsider your needs in life. I am an athlete, special ed consultant, and mostly a house dad. My wife is a work-a-holic. I wear the skirt, she wears the pants, and we like it like that.

If you leave the marriage or don't start it because you aren't completely satisfied by something then you are destined to fail. You will never be satisfied with someone elses actions really. I'm not.

Or maybe it is just that sex with you is boring. I'm game for about anything when it comes to making my wife happy.

 

[Smurfy]

Gosh, I had a headache ONE night in 5 years. Can't a guy get a break every once in a while? I'm not JUST a piece of meat you know.