Ever physically hurt your SO, or been hurt by?

[stosstruppe]

One gf I had backhanded me while we were driving home - I went directly to the police station (didnt even yell at her or do anything physical)to file a complaint and the cops turned it on me !!!! They took us in separate rooms and this one dickhead cop kept asking me were you driving drunk.... We did have a few but I wasnt drunk - she wasnt either but prob mean buzzed. . So after 2hrs at that police station they let both of us go and didnt do shit to her.......

You are lucky she didn't turn that one around on you.

Fucking lucky.

Really fucking lucky.

 

[*The_West*]

You are lucky she didn't turn that one around on you.

Fucking lucky.

Really fucking lucky.

very true. i was once seeing a girl with serious issues who probably would have smashed her head off the car a few times when i pulled up and said she hit me in self defence!
bishes be crazee.

 

[bodybyjake]

You are lucky she didn't turn that one around on you.

Fucking lucky.

Really fucking lucky.

yeah: luckily she never did that.. i think she was more shocked that i did that but then when she saw the outcome in her head she thought she was always in the clear so she'd occasionally get violent with me. I had had enough and left her...We had a lot too.. beautiful house together, great combined income, we both worked out/etc but it just wasnt worth it.. I always just took it when she'd batter me. once i did reataliate but i didnt strike her but i did wrap a vacuum hose around her neck. after that incident i knew we were done and that was the final straw when i let her go.

 

[velvett]

My Ex told me after I shook her that time that it turned her on.
She said when I got really angry in general she was terrified, but turned her on in a way as well. She loved to get a rise out of me because I would purposely down play shit all the time.

Sorry, your EX is f**ked in the head.

A friend of mine a 5'10" 250 power lifter had a girlfriend 5' 90lbs tops that used to scratch or hit him with her fists or throw heavy objects at him because she liked to fight, it was exciting to her but he'd sit there and take it. When he didn't reacted she accused him of not loving her, that he'd found someone else, yahda yahda. They would get together and breakup every few weeks for 8 years, they got engaged and shortly thereafter she got him in the face three good and bloody scratches across his face and he had finally had enough.

She was a real head case too, everyone was overjoyed when he finally dumped her ass.

A lot of guys I grew up with or have known in passing love those wacko bitches, high maintenance, either coke heads or always drink too much and have so kind of "drama episode" every time they go out in public, either fighting with other girls or with their boyfriend and interesting enough they were always those short little 90lb girls.

 

[swole]

only when i forget to pay their electric bill

 

[jerseyrugger76]

We were roughhousing, we're both guys, it's different.

 

[gonelifting]

Some people live for drama. You can see it how they get aroused as they're yelling and screaming at each other. These people really deserve each other. Takes them out of the loop.

 

[p0ink]

We were roughhousing, we're both guys, it's different.

are poppers involved?

 

[jerseyrugger76]

Yes, in both directions.

The physical shit started early on. We were arguing one morning early in the marriage and I did something dumb and stupid (which 19 y/o girls are prone to do) and dumped raw scrambled eggs over his head. He turned around and literally decked me (fist to the eye). I walked around with a black eye for more than two weeks.

After that I made sure he never got the first hit in and I went for pain. I've broken plates over his head, took a baseball bat to him, and the last fight I had him on the ground beating his head against concrete and would have busted his skull open if someone hadn't stopped me.

For his part he's thrown me so hard I hit a piece of furniture and split my shoulder open, he gave me numerous bad bruises and came very close to choking me to unconsciousness on several occasions. Between us we destroyed several pieces of solid furniture, put holes in plaster (not wallboard) walls, and wrecked numerous doors, not to mention a ton of destroyed glasses, plates, bowls, etc.

But for some reason whenever I said I wanted a divorce he threatened to kill me and then himself, go figure

Oh, and everyone who thinks he was some skinny little pussywhipped piece of shit, uh uh, no, this guy was 6'5" and over 250. We were just a fucking BAD combination.

And anyone who wants to say I'm a c**t, no. I rarely, if ever, fight with my current husband and when we do have disagreements it's perfectly civilized. My ex fought dirty and thought it was funny to push my buttons on purpose when I was already angry.

So, I guess you're into UFC and MMA, right?

 

[velvett]

Never been hit by or hit an SO.

I did date a guy that did start to raise his hand to me and if was over right when I saw his hand - it's not something I will tolerate - my mother was the 1st and last person to raise their hand to me and I would be afraid of what I might do to someone if it ever happened again.