Ever physically hurt your SO, or been hurt by?

[ortiz34]

never hit a woman in my life
never even crossed my mind

 

[Smurfy]

never hit a woman in my life
never even crossed my mind

has a woman ever tried to get rough with you? every been slapped?

 

[Srben]

I don't hang out with females that hit me. Not even playing. I had a girl start a date by reaching over and backhanding me in the chest in, to her, a playful manner. I turned the car around and dropped her right back off. Never talked to her again. We're not 5 y.o. anymore, and I let anyone I date know right up front my rules. I've seen enough domestic violence growing up to last a lifetime. Now, I have held a girl down and tickled her pretty good...

 

[-SD-]

Yea kind of like all the women who never admit how theyve been bitches to men in relationships.

 

[musclemom]

Yes, in both directions.

The physical shit started early on. We were arguing one morning early in the marriage and I did something dumb and stupid (which 19 y/o girls are prone to do) and dumped raw scrambled eggs over his head. He turned around and literally decked me (fist to the eye). I walked around with a black eye for more than two weeks.

After that I made sure he never got the first hit in and I went for pain. I've broken plates over his head, took a baseball bat to him, and the last fight I had him on the ground beating his head against concrete and would have busted his skull open if someone hadn't stopped me.

For his part he's thrown me so hard I hit a piece of furniture and split my shoulder open, he gave me numerous bad bruises and came very close to choking me to unconsciousness on several occasions. Between us we destroyed several pieces of solid furniture, put holes in plaster (not wallboard) walls, and wrecked numerous doors, not to mention a ton of destroyed glasses, plates, bowls, etc.

But for some reason whenever I said I wanted a divorce he threatened to kill me and then himself, go figure

Oh, and everyone who thinks he was some skinny little pussywhipped piece of shit, uh uh, no, this guy was 6'5" and over 250. We were just a fucking BAD combination.

And anyone who wants to say I'm a c**t, no. I rarely, if ever, fight with my current husband and when we do have disagreements it's perfectly civilized. My ex fought dirty and thought it was funny to push my buttons on purpose when I was already angry.

 

[digimon7068]

i've never laid a hand on a woman in anger. . .i had an ex punch me in the jaw at a party once though. . .glancing blow, no damage. . .my friends remind me about it once in a while and we all get a good chuckle. . .

 

[needtogetaas]

Angel has thrown almost everything in the house at me. Slapped me a few times. She scratched me with her nails a few times and some other shit. Meh Its just what women do some times when they get to pissed I guess. I can take way more then she could ever throw at me so its no big deal.

I can't even shake my wife. I mean look at her and look at me. If I shook her I would prob snap her in half. I use the walk out the door and wait for her to call me and tell me she misses my method.

Works out great. I get a little vacation and no one gets hurt lol.

 

[Johnny Cakes]

does it count that a chick that wanted me, mickey'd my drink with a 714 and I fell out a second floor window, only to be awoken by a nurse the next day with a glass of OJ?

 

[-Ariel-]

Pretty personal question, I personally never have hit a woman.
I have done the old shake the shit out of a chick thing though.
I have had woman hit me on a couple of occasions and throw shit at me.
My friend hurt his girl the other day twisting her wrist and she had to gom to the hospital, he's got some issues.

Good question...
nope not even close... if I notice I'm getting even close, I just fucking leave... and I have left in the middle of an argument before... seen some pretty fucked up shit before and stepped in... but any man that hits a woman is gonna regret that big time... physically that shit will catch up to him but more importantly emotionally/spiritually.

 

[hog#head#cheese]

does it count that a chick that wanted me, mickey'd my drink with a 714 and I fell out a second floor window, only to be awoken by a nurse the next day with a glass of OJ?

That happen to you also?