im super polite and comforting. its why floorstaff/barstaff love me to bits.
ive worked a lot of different jobs (from construction to pharmacist to contractor to bodyguard almost lol) and when you experience the almost reverence of your patients looking at you when youre in a white coat, to being looked at almost scornfully when youre working floor in a bar and someones dropped a drink, and then almost everything in between, so you develop an appreciation for making the guys doing the shitty job feel good, by way of compliment, asking about their day, what their name is, or just passively being polite
the same mindset is why i get so many girls, come to think of it