do you guys think that stay-at-home mom is a full time job?

[Dry Muscle]

What about the Moms who have all the responsibility of a stay-at-home-mom (i.e. take care of the household, the kids, the husband cooking cleaning laundry) but who also work a full-time job?

I did a seven week stint when my daughter was 6 months old, an hour and a half commute with her twice a day, got home after dark to pick up my son and go home with just enough time to prepare baby bottles and food for her the next day, spend not nearly enough time with my son before he went to sleep, and get my clothes and stuff ready for the next day. Forget housework or eating..it had to wait until the weekend. It was brutal and I lost 15 pounds.

Likewise when my son was three with severe asthma, I commuted every day for two years an hour away to school, while my son was in daycare an hour away from me. Got up at 4:30 to make it to the train station to catch the 6:30 bus to arrive at 7:30, and walked the nine blocks in rain, sleet, or snow, to finish by 1:00pm and commute back to get home by 3 and proceed to complete the six hours of homework I had every night, while caring for my toddler, and then also working part-time as a waitress, and only be able to start my housework at midnight on the average and hopefully get to bed by 1pm, only to get up at 4:30 and start over again. I did this for two years and sort of wasn't surprised when my hair fell out 3 months after graduation, or why my ribs were sticking out through my chest.

I deeply admire any person who raises kids, works and keeps house.
I deeply admire any person who raises kids and works.
I deeply admire any person who raises kids.

 

[manny78]

no choice because my husband works from 7pm till 5:30 am. He drives 55 miles to work each day. He leaves at 4pm and comes home at 6:30-7 am. Wakes up at 3pm. Now, tell me, how am I gonan be able to go to work.

Before he started these hours, we were just fine with both of us working and taking care of our kids

Tell him to get another job or find another wife lol Go hardcore, have him sleep on the couch, it should do the trick.

 

[victoria978]

curriculum vitae = resume. I wouldnt hire people who stayed home and used their kids as an excuse. As far as I'm concerned, my parents worked both full time and we all grew happy at home.

KIDS..............are NOT an excuse. They are a reason. And a God damned good one at that! YOU may have turned out okay, but there are scores of others who did not and it was because mom was never home and dad was never home and neither of them gave two shits about what their kid(s) did. When the "parents" (and I use this term loosely) got home they were so tired from work that they ate dinner and flaked in front of the TV. And where's Mikey today? Oh, he's just in his room building pipe bombs and collecting rifles so he can massacre his entire class at school tomorrow. Can you say Columbine? Maybe if Mommy and Daddy actually paid attention to exactly what those little shit heads were doing then it may have never happened. You don't plan something like that over night. It's months, maybe years of NEGLECT! So go have some kids and then maybe one of us will actualll value your baseless opinion.

 

[Spartacus]

"Dont EVER post up to or about me ever again you fucking loser retard. FUCK YOU"
heh

 

[manny78]

FUCK YOU ASSHOLE

Dont you ever ever EVER fucking post up to me or about me again you MOTHER FUCKING ASSWIPE.

Go clusterfuck yourself cause baby - you aint NEVER gonna come within 10 feet of this.

Feel me motherfucker?

I am done with you asshole - hear me? fucking DONE. Go fuck yourself and the lameassed pisspoor excuses for females that would give you and your sorry ass the time of day.

I am going to bed now, my girls are waiting.

Is it for you the only way to make your point ? Insults ? Nothing makes you special btw, what is valid for others is valid for you too....

 

[foreigngirl]

Tell him to get another job or find another wife lol Go hardcore, have him sleep on the couch, it should do the trick.

lol...sleep on the couch so he will be in my way He goes to bed at 8am, just about the same time I get up. No point in that lol

lol..no, no way. He works for the Big Three and if he doesnt get layed off, I wouldnt force him to quit..lol....I just wish that todays grandparents werent working people themselfs too, you know. It was a bit different for my moms generatio, cause the generation of her mom and mother-in-law never worked. So, there was a grandparent that was right there to watch the kids.

Oh, Manny, you would understand all when you gonna be in the same situation

 

[Bikini Mod]

Baby - I am BEYOND special. Too bad you dont see yourself the same way.

And when dealing with an asshole like that bastard the answer to your question is:

Yes... when dealing with fucking retards who only understand profanity... sadly, even THAT goes without understanding. And you, darlin are hardly one to talk.... Dont talk to me silly little wannabe internet strong boy. You are no one to me. I have not violated any TOS. That cocksucker was ignored ad nauseum. How dare that simpleton even TRY to question my mothering? Who the FUCK does he think he is? And you try to defend him? You make me sick... I have been through REAL hell. Not pretend internet drama bullshit. So you just go sit in some corner somewhere and moderate yourself because you need it. Either apologize for your lack of finesse or just keep your trap shut. Thank you very kindly and good night to you, simple sir.

Is it for you the only way to make your point ? Insults ? Nothing makes you special btw, what is valid for others is valid for you too....

 

[manny78]

KIDS..............are NOT an excuse. They are a reason. And a God damned good one at that! YOU may have turned out okay, but there are scores of others who did not and it was because mom was never home and dad was never home and neither of them gave two shits about what their kid(s) did. When the "parents" (and I use this term loosely) got home they were so tired from work that they ate dinner and flaked in front of the TV. And where's Mikey today? Oh, he's just in his room building pipe bombs and collecting rifles so he can massacre his entire class at school tomorrow. Can you say Columbine? Maybe if Mommy and Daddy actually paid attention to exactly what those little shit heads were doing then it may have never happened. You don't plan something like that over night. It's months, maybe years of NEGLECT! So go have some kids and then maybe one of us will actualll value your baseless opinion.

No need to have kids to prove my point. Stay at home moms is a dead concept. You'd see this with immigrants mostly but as far as I'm concerned, no one at school was in this situation and none of them turned into a "pipe bomb" terrosrists because we had friends, real people to enjoy life with, not just the internet.

 

[manny78]

Baby - I am BEYOND special. Too bad you dont see yourself the same way.

And when dealing with an asshole like that bastard the answer to your question is:

Yes... when dealing with fucking retards who only understand profanity... sadly, even THAT goes without understanding. And you, darlin are hardly one to talk.... Dont talk to me silly little wannabe internet strong boy. You are no one to me. I have not violated any TOS. That cocksucker was ignored ad nauseum. How dare that simpleton even TRY to question my mothering? Who the FUCK does he think he is? And you try to defend him? You make me sick... I have been through REAL hell. Not pretend internet drama bullshit. So you just go sit in some corner somewhere and moderate yourself because you need it. Either apologize for your lack of finesse or just keep your trap shut. Thank you very kindly and good night to you, simple sir.

Ever heard of the ignored feature ? Btw I've edited people's post for less.

 

[foreigngirl]

KIDS..............are NOT an excuse. They are a reason. And a God damned good one at that! YOU may have turned out okay, but there are scores of others who did not and it was because mom was never home and dad was never home and neither of them gave two shits about what their kid(s) did. When the "parents" (and I use this term loosely) got home they were so tired from work that they ate dinner and flaked in front of the TV. And where's Mikey today? Oh, he's just in his room building pipe bombs and collecting rifles so he can massacre his entire class at school tomorrow. Can you say Columbine? Maybe if Mommy and Daddy actually paid attention to exactly what those little shit heads were doing then it may have never happened. You don't plan something like that over night. It's months, maybe years of NEGLECT! So go have some kids and then maybe one of us will actualll value your baseless opinion.

I have another example. My in-laws were working all the time. When one comes home, the other leaves right away. The parent at home is too tired and falls asleep on the couch and doesnt have time to spend with the kids. The result of this in a foreign household? My husband didnt know ANY english when he started school. He had to take special classes and that put him behind the kids of his age. He was thrown out of many schools cause he was never disciplined well and thought manners. All that they didnt or did to him, I had to un-do it when I married him. I wont let that happen to my kids. My kid is gonna know how to talk and write some english before she starts even pre-school. And I am already working on it