Daisy wants me back.......

[Lestat]

Wow man, that is tough. I am all for second chances, but you seemed to have moved on well, and sure enough as soon as you are comfortable again, she sees that and now wants you back. Do whatever you think will bring you long term happiness.

 

[heavy_duty]

If we are secure and mature in our manhood we can forgive.

It aint gonna be easy though.

My wife and I have been back together for 7 years now and a couple times I told her "fuck why did you come back? you're still a crazy redhead!"

Then life goes on.

I know a few bro's on their 3rd marriage who claim they should have just stuck with the first wife!!!

 

[digimon7068]

it will never be the same again.

considering the events of wootoom's recent past, that would probably be a good thing, no??

 

[blueta2]

it will never be the same again.

very true, it actually could be much better. But only with help and a lot patience.

Woot, this would have to be a two way street. You'll need to address the issues about you that she may have not liked.

Depression puts people in a different mind-set.

 

[wootoom]

shes the mother of my kids.....its so hard there will always be feelings there..

 

[digimon7068]

shes the mother of my kids.....its so hard there will always be feelings there..

of course there will. . .

 

[theoldone]

post partum is real though brosky

If she is honest and REALLY wants to work it out, it may be worth a shot. With the kids and all it means so much.

Either way, things have a way of working themselves out.

Post Partum maybe be real...but cheating because of it is a lousy excuse.

 

[Mr. dB]

I think some counselling sessions are in order, either way. You guys are gonna need some professional help whether it's for reconciliation or closure. And until then, don't touch her, in any way.

Hate to see you get jerked around like this.

 

[bw1]

That's a very personal decision Woot. There are many reasons why people cheat and many dynamics to factor into the mix and we know only the surface details of this thing.

Whatever you decide, I pray for God to grant you and your family peace and love.

Well said....No one is going to be able to give you the answer bro. You got to make this call on your own, tough place to be in.

 

[Arabian]

Do not listen to anypone here. You and Daisy need to get into therapy asap.. you two need to fiqure out what went wrong and see if its fixble