Daisy wants me back.......

[txbondsman]

try and remember the bad times as well as the good. What part you played and can you change and what part she played and the fact that she may change and then revert. I'd expect things not to be too different than they were after a time. I wouldn't put the kids through this adult "on again-off again" game that yall would be playing.
Tough call bro, you went through HELL for many weeks, I'd hate to have you go through that again. Yalll need to do some serious soul searching and do what's best for the kids, together OR apart.

Good luck, I don't envy your situation.

 

[superqt4u2nv]

I think you should go to couples counceling first before you even consider moving back in together. This way there is time before you invest your feelings back into her to see if she flips again or not. Additionaly you can see if your able to work through the issues that caused the break up. If she is not willing to do that then IMO she is not serious and will like jerk you around down the road.

 

[Dial_tone]

If the reasons for the breakup haven't been truly solved, don't.

 

[wootoom]

oh there is going to be alot of steps to climb before i move back in there if we ever got back together.

 

[superqt4u2nv]

That's another good point. I personally believe cheaters will always cheat again. It's as much a function of the person as it is the specific relationship.

The big thing in my opinion is that she was postpartum, not saying that is a good reason or anything to cheat but she was for sure not of sound mind for a while not sure is she is now either that is why I suggested counceling.

 

[fistfullofsteel]

100% NO. No ands, ifs, or buts about it. It will only lead to more pain in the future.

 

[mrplunkey]

The big thing in my opinion is that she was postpartum, not saying that is a good reason or anything to cheat but she was for sure not of sound mind for a while not sure is she is now either that is why I suggested counceling.

Interesting twist. But why not turn toward your hubby instead of away from him during trying times?

But that's definitely something to take into consideration...

 

[wootoom]

fuck!!!!

 

[stosstruppe]

Don't do it orb.

 

[superqt4u2nv]

Interesting twist. But why not turn toward your hubby instead of away from him during trying times?

But that's definitely something to take into consideration...

Well from my understanding postpartum makes you very irrational so doing something like turning to your husband for support and help might never even crossed her mind. When things were first going to shit I told him she needs to see a Dr. it was clear that her extreme flip was caused by some sort of imbalance but she refused to then.