I suggest you start drinking heavily
I dunno, I love my wife enough at we are apart, if she fucked a guy I would be pissed off and I, myself would never cheat on her. But wimminz are strange ones, I wont ever understand their thinking or logic. She is as close to logical as a woman I can meet and I trust her that she wouldnt. I mean, lol, she is as cold as the refrigerator, so its not something applicable to me. BUT, if it happened, I wouldnt dump her. I mean, is it cheating for me as she is away to wank to a porno?
Maybe teach her how to masturbate and show her how to get free pron can solve the woes.
I know, when I get the urge to rip off a woman's clothes and stick my root in her, rather go to prison for rape, its much easier to go to the internet and watch sluts.
Now, if I see my wife on the internet in one of those videos, I dunno, probably feel like you did. If my wimminz got a bf though, game over, fuck you, fuck you and forever and goodbye.
I think I am pretty liberal about a woman getting gratification through random sex but if she established a new relationship, piss off. OR, she has to do some monumental grovelling and I would hold it over her head for the rest of her life. Make her clean shit up b/c she cheated and deep throat type stuff on demand. It could work out to your benefit if you play your cards right.
Hope that helps but I know it didnt lol