Daisy wants me back.......

[wootoom]

i just want to work on being friends again....

 

[wootoom]

Seriously, I know you loved her and she loved you, I used to play poker with you turds when it was open a coupla years back and pm'd with her many times and I thought she was a sweetheart.
I didnt know you were busted up so this thread is kinda shock to me.
She's a decent woman who is making many mistakes in her life as we all do and did.
If I didnt know Daisy I would be knee-jerk fuck her you can get better, but since I do know her a bit. I'd rethink the macho stuff.
The fe-male gave the best advice and that is counseling.

There, you can flush out the issues that caused her cheating and also flush out if she is serious about getting back together or is she just become Britney Spears.
Under no circumstances should you enter a renewed interest with her without professional counseling. If you pay them an extra hundred per session, they can convince her to be your slave. That's my recommendation

Thanks for the concern whoever you are man...

 

[miplank]

see man...pretty much what I said.


Take it slow, go on a few dates. Just start over, and get some counseling!

 

[wootoom]

i think i remember you zee....

 

[wootoom]

she loves her kids soo much but i dont think she loves me

 

[stosstruppe]

well keep this in mind... She might have fallen on hard times with her new relationship and sure enough what does she do? Turns outward toward you instead of inward toward her bf/husband.

Sound familiar? Its just this time, you'd be the other guy.

qft.

 

[digimon7068]

I dont know what do....i still love her in a way but i dont feel like i could ever go back....i have started a new chapter in my life...it feels like a trap...im happy right now but i love my kids more than anything in the world and would love to see them everyday and have my family back together again..its the most difficult thing i have and ever will have to deal with in my life..i still have feelings but i feel the damage has been done...i went through hell for 6 months of my life was on anti-depressants to pretty much stay alive...i know i should do whats right for me but its so difficult....i dont think she can change and it would take so long to build that trust back again....i put a ring on her finger for a reason because i loved her and i always will but i feel the damage is too much too handle...please no fucking stupid posts in this thread...i could never handle getting hurt or going through this process again either.

it is a trap. . .i'm sure it's not planned that way. . .but that's exactly what it is. . .i would admire you for being able to set everything aside and give it another try. . .that would take big balls. . .bigger balls than i have. . .but honestly?? i give it MAYBE a 5% chance of success. . .and i'm all about believing in the power of love. . .good luck. . .no matter what you decide. . .i'm no relationship expert by any stretch of the imgination, but if you wanna talk, even just to blow off some steam, pm me and i'll pm you my cell number. . .

 

[puddlemonkey]

Absolutely not! Talk to my father, he can give you 1,001 reasons why it would be a bad idea.

 

[gotmilk]

uhh...run Forest...run

 

[stilleto]

I dont know what do....i still love her in a way but i dont feel like i could ever go back....i have started a new chapter in my life...it feels like a trap...im happy right now but i love my kids more than anything in the world and would love to see them everyday and have my family back together again..its the most difficult thing i have and ever will have to deal with in my life..i still have feelings but i feel the damage has been done...i went through hell for 6 months of my life was on anti-depressants to pretty much stay alive...i know i should do whats right for me but its so difficult....i dont think she can change and it would take so long to build that trust back again....i put a ring on her finger for a reason because i loved her and i always will but i feel the damage is too much too handle...please no fucking stupid posts in this thread...i could never handle getting hurt or going through this process again either.

i haven't read the other posts- so my advice is mine alone.

try it. it couldn't hurt. it will be a lot of work and a lot of counceling, but you may end up with something better than you ever had.

it's happened before.



good luck.