been cheated on

[fistfullofsteel]

Yes, but if I could do it again, I wouldn't have aired it on here.

don't even tell us you didn't kick that bitch to the curb

 

[canadianhitman]

Yes, but if I could do it again, I wouldn't have aired it on here.

Why the hell not? The only way it's any sort of mistake to air it here is if you stay with they cheating cunt...because in that case...we all know that you're a pathetic loser. If you did the right thing and threw her out like a sack of trash, where's the downside in telling the EF community??? Please clarify.

 

[canadianhitman]

My suggestion; do not throw her to the curb

Terrible advice.

 

[blueta2]

Terrible advice.

Maybe for you......and we need to keep in mind, we're only hearing a very VERY small portion of this actual story.
On line advice for this sort of thing needs to me taken with a grain of salt.

I give auggestions on my own experience only.

 

[Stefka]

if dealing with the social stigma and weirdness of loving someone who cheated on you is too hard for you move on...otherwise deal with what works for you and make the most of it

I like this advice.
Some people are better at getting over it than others.
I sucked at getting over it.
My ex cheated on me after the first year, and I stayed with him for 4 years after that.
I never got over it. It continued to fuck with my head for 4 years.

So if you can let it go, then try and work it out.
Be honest with yourself.
If this is going to be too much for you, then just leave.

And about you wanting her to tell you...
You really dont want that.
It wont make things better.
You think you want the details, but the more you know the more it will hurt.

 

[canadianhitman]

Maybe for you......and we need to keep in mind, we're only hearing a very VERY small portion of this actual story.
On line advice for this sort of thing needs to me taken with a grain of salt.

I give auggestions on my own experience only.

The rest of the story is irrelevant: she cheated, throw her out...simple as that. Why deal with it??? Life is too short to invest further time and effort into someone who isn't loyal. Better to spend that time getting out there to seek someone who is worthy of sharing your life with you.

 

[Razorguns]

Terrible advice.

I have NEVER seen an instance, where a partner cheats - and later on, they're enjoying their 50th golden anniversary.

It all comes to understanding why she cheated on him in the first place. Unless one understands that first, and resolves it -- it'll just happen again.

Next time, she'll just break-up, and then date that guy. That's what most women wind up doing. Much easier.

If you're a guy - you can cheat as much as you want. Love the double standard. lol.

r

 

[blueta2]

The rest of the story is irrelevant: she cheated, throw her out...simple as that. Why deal with it??? Life is too short to invest further time and effort into someone who isn't loyal. Better to spend that time getting out there to seek someone who is worthy of sharing your life with you.

Because there are instances where people actually make mistakes. He's been with her for 4 1/2 yrs. You don't throw that away just like that.

Believe me, there are MANY MANY people that have come through the devastation of a cheating spouse to go on and have a healthy and happy relationship with that same person.

 

[Wulfgar]

I like this advice.
Some people are better at getting over it than others.
I sucked at getting over it.
My ex cheated on me after the first year, and I stayed with him for 4 years after that.
I never got over it. It continued to fuck with my head for 4 years.

So if you can let it go, then try and work it out.
Be honest with yourself.
If this is going to be too much for you, then just leave.

And about you wanting her to tell you...
You really dont want that.
It wont make things better.
You think you want the details, but the more you know the more it will hurt.

word on the PM circuit is you like anal

can you verify this to be correct?

 

[Stefka]

word on the PM circuit is you like anal

can you verify this to be correct?

never tried it