been cheated on

[fistfullofsteel]

I agree with your avi

i agree with you agreeing on her avi, while she was agreeing with manny. are we all agreed?

 

[lartinos]

dude trust me..you do NOT want to know about the act itself...you may think you do...but you dont. trust me on this

Ive given a lot of girls a lot of 2nd chances. Guess what, WITHOUT exception they cheat again.

and whats the confession going to do?

you have to ask yourself what it is you are fighting for? you want to see her squirm and feel terrible and guilty confessing what she did to you? come on man
right now it comes down to how you want her to remember you as. A Stand up Man who could just walk away proudly with his head held high? Or as the guy who pushed her to break down in front of him so he could get irate and yell at her and make her feel terrible for some kind of ghostly "revenge" satisfaction?

I think in your heart you know the right thing to do.



besides we will all be here if you get bored without her around..lol

I'm going through the same thing with a now ex of 3.5 years. Your posts are exactly what I feel like the right thing to do right now. Thanks

 

[lartinos]

women need attention and will get it any way they can, unless I guess if they see a shrink and work out their daddy issues.

 

[javaguru]

I think most people on here, and willing to admit it, will say yes.

 

[OMEGA]

happened to the best of us broly

best thing to do is just stop any and all contact and communication with her. like cut that shit cold turkey. if u have stuff at her place go get it. Put all her stuff outside your front door

dont return her calls, dont return her text messages NO MATTER what

the bigger man walks away...always has always will

this Post is SPOT on

once betrayed never again and that goes with all things

POOF! like you never existed


it is sooo good for you , and believe me it will hurt the person more then you can phathom

I never been cheated on, but have dropped supposed "freinds" as if they were nothing

"I will do anything for you if you my friend, I will do nothing for you betray me"

 

[canadianhitman]

Kick her the fuck out and never look back

Never doubt even for a second that you did the right thing

YOU CAN DO BETTER...even though I dont' know you, I know that. Know how? Because a cheating whore is a piece of shit with no value whatsoever...how hard is it to find a woman that's better than a zero value piece of shit? Not hard, bro...not hard at all.

 

[wootoom]

exactly

 

[Sub-Zero]

hi this is my first post here, im normally in the other forums but here it goes.i recently found out my gf of 4.5 years has cheated on me. ive always thought if it happened i would just end it, but i realy dont want that option, i cant even explane how messed up i feel. i havent confronted her yet, i kinda want her to fess up to it, it happend while we were in a low spot in the relationship and took a couple weeks apart which was the beginning of this month.
i basically just need to vent, there is really no1 i can talk to about this in person not even my best friend.

if dealing with the social stigma and weirdness of loving someone who cheated on you is too hard for you move on...otherwise deal with what works for you and make the most of it

 

[Razorguns]

Kick her the fuck out and never look back

Never doubt even for a second that you did the right thing

YOU CAN DO BETTER...even though I dont' know you, I know that. Know how? Because a cheating whore is a piece of shit with no value whatsoever...how hard is it to find a woman that's better than a zero value piece of shit? Not hard, bro...not hard at all.

What about a cheating guy? Lorena Bobbit him?

r

 

[Sub-Zero]

its not as simple as putting all her stuff on the porch, we 've lived together for 4 years , most of the things we have we bought together. i realy want it to work, i just dont know how or if to confront her with it, from what ive found out i know she feels sick about it and in her head she know id leave her if i found out so its gona be hard for her to confess. it really kills me more that shes not telling me than the act itself because of the situation it happend under.

just dont let her convince you that its your fault....