going into a marriage sexually frustrated...

[wills_got_rythm]

Id have sex with everyone in this thread.

Ok let me get in here too!!!!


He needs to nail the sexatary.....and then just keep one on the side if she doesnt straighten up. They can still be best friends....

 

[chris302001]

...think it can turn around
synopsis-bro is getting married soon, wife has pretty much limited the sexy time.
never in the mood, not feeling sexy enough, rarely initiaes...strong love bond, but weak physical bond.
can it end turn itself around?
discuss

If you care about this doode at all, DO NOT let him fucking marry this chick.

 

[SpyWizard]

Marriage is more than sex.

My marriage will probably end in divorce if things do not change (and it has been the same for about 5 years) but I have not given up yet.

Roofies?!?! lol

i'd get her going on anavar.. 1-2 5mg then 2-8 10mg

Her clit will be in a slight state of arousal all the time.. just one of the many benefits of the substance..

I like the roofie idea though.. hahahah

if she isn't "in the mood" then she's gay, or her mom taught her "Sex is all a man wants" and or "You are the gate keeper" or any one of the idiots ideas i've heard from other guys..

 

[UA_Iron]

A chick I work with yesterday was like
"Are you like me like you need it ALL the time" haha

I thought that was good. I know her husband is doing well.

 

[billfred]

...think it can turn around
synopsis-bro is getting married soon, wife has pretty much limited the sexy time.
never in the mood, not feeling sexy enough, rarely initiaes...strong love bond, but weak physical bond.
can it end turn itself around?
discuss

yes - when he is about 50 and his dick does not work so well and his hormones are worn out. How old is he? There will be lots of wanking until that time.

 

[Bikini Mod]

yes - when he is about 50 and his dick does not work so well and his hormones are worn out. How old is he? There will be lots of wanking until that time.

The hell you say? My husband is going on 58 and the sumnabitch STILL wants it all the time... and for one reason or another - I DONT.... unlike IN THE BEGINNING.

And after 2+ years I am like Smurfy (although I think that she was sorta tongue in cheek - I AM NOT - even began a thread about it in BTS) - I really AM a two pump chump. Sheesh, we don't even get started and the neighbors are holding up scorecards... I don't know if that is a good thing. Maybe it feeds my husband's ego. I hope it does because NEVER have I been like this. Obviously as the man can get me off HARD without me even getting nekkid I am thinkin he is very skilled at the art of making love (which for a woman begins waaaaaaaaay before they ever hit the sheets) nonetheless I still often have issues when it comes to drive. Partly because of physical issues (Even though I feel better when I take my meds, I am still sick on occasion), hormonal issues (yea, perimenopause sucks HYUGE, THANK GOODNESS FOR HRT), but mostly due to tremendous stress and mental issues over the status of my children's situation (I can't allow myself pleasure when I know my children are in pain - not to mention every now and then I flash about what is/has happened to my oldest daughter. The last thing I want is sex. More like I want to vomit.) and finally I am intimidated by my husband's previous life. Believe it not regardless of how attractive I have/am percieved to be by others or by me I have a hard time competing mentally with the fact that my husband has had a bevy of stunning women in his bed and has managed to satisfy them all in one way or another.

Yea - my poor husband is pretty much fucked. I'm appreciative of the fact that he puts up with so much and yet another reason why I would never forsake or dishonor him.

Anyways, Nef - Like and Respect couldn't possibly be part of the *love* that couples marry over. If it were then you wouldn't hear of ANY of the unhealthy relationships that couples have. I am thinkin that peeps like your parents could school us as to what love REALLY is. I don't know what it is, still on the path to finding out. Whatever it is though, I am certain that it ain't sex or flowers or frolicking through the daisies 24/7 as many peeps surprizingly expect.

Plunkey - I must admit that I near busted out laughing by your last post. My goodness it was hysterical but dead on. I do believe that there is most likely a percentage of young men who do marry for this very reason. They really think that the "honeymoon sex" they get in the beginning of a relationship will never end.

BFold - a very enlightened young man. Sounds like you *get it* but BIGTIME.

Bino - life has a way of changing women from *the whores* (and you know what I mean, at least I hope you do. If you don't please ask me to clarify) that men marry, the saucy vixens that *need it* all the time to the boring/proper housewifeys at certain times. Sometimes they *change back* or move ahead. Sometimes they don't.

Believe it or not, this happens to MEN TOO. Ungodly stress has a way of killing ANYONE'S drive. That is why a couple better damned well marry for something way more important than "just sex".

Marriage changes a relationship. I don't care how long the couple has been living together or whathaveyou. That piece of paper and subsequent state of mind changes a couple's interaction. It is a formal and legal commitment that command a greater level of respect and recognition than any other arrangement in our society. Anyone who claims any different is flat out lying to themselves.

If your brother's fiancee has always had a low drive then I suppose it is paar for the course and he knows (sort of) what to expect. If her drive *suddenly dropped* once she got the formal commitment to marry then I would say your brother really REALLY needs to bring this up NOW. May I suggest couples' counseling? If he can't talk to his future mate about this NOW I seriously doubt that he will bring it up to her later.

 

[b fold the truth]

BFold - a very enlightened young man. Sounds like you *get it* but BIGTIME.

I love it when slightly older women talk dirty to me.

 

[Bikini Mod]

I love it when slightly older women talk dirty to me.

LOL I am about 5 days older than dirt!

 

[musclemom]

not a chance. only gets worse. give your bro my condolences.

^^^ TITCR

Simple rule of thumb, NEVER fucking marry someone you already fight with frequently/constantly or are sexually incompatible with.

 

[Sub-Zero]

Marrying to have steady access to sex is like buying a 747 so you can have steady access to those little bags of peanuts they give you during the flight.

haha you love that quote.

i was kidding anyway.

but for real. why buy a 747 that has no peanuts?