I never had that, no matter what shape I'm in. It doesn't matter now, since I'm happy with my wife anyway. I do notice that when I'm more cut than thick, I get a lot more attention and stares, but mainly from other bros who probably think I have a secret or something. What I never will understand, is WHY a slob with a belly, and long messed-up hair, will always have a supermodel hanging off him. Makes no sense. And the two professions that are totally opposite but have all the girls' attention, seem to be lawyers and outdoor contstruction workers. Either of those professions seem to lend toward a smorgasbord of girls! I even did an experiment; didn't shave, put on a pair of holey Levi's, trashed workboots, and cutoff sleeve T-shirt that said Concrete Pumping Service, Inc., and got in our old Ford truck with a wheelbarrow in the back, and went to eat lunch near Cal State Northridge... The women would not take their eyes off me. I don't get it. But it's fact. If I show up in regular clothes like an electronics tech wears, and maybe even the shirt tight in the bi's; Dockers pants, even in a new Lexus, nobody cares.
Charles