I'll preface my remarks by telling you two things: First, I am a surgeon. Second, I've performed over 1000 anterior spine approaches for various spine surgeons in my area over the last 10 years. I am not a spine surgeon myself, I am a vascular surgeon that is asked to provide exposure of the spine from the front.
The symptoms you describe sound clearly to be related to an anatomical abnormality (i.e. a bulging disc or a degenerative neural foramen). This is the type of pain that
can (and really
should) be completely relieved with surgery. I say these things for a reason. There are many individuals (I'd say roughly 50% of the patients) that have back pain without clear anatomic reasons and some get surgery and they usually don't do as well as people in your situation. There are a large number of folks out there that use chronic back pain as an excuse for not living their lives and that is clearly
not you... which is good.
Now for the bad news. I say you
can get better (and not that you will) because back surgeons vary widely in their approach and skill. I've worked with a few that weren't competent. If it sounds scary, then I've succeeded.
Check out your doctor. Get a second opinion (or a third). And for god's sake DON'T LIFT (doesn't sound like you can right now). Also, ask around for how other patients have done with the doctor you're going with. And remember, that this surgery will permanently affect your mobility at this spinal level and will affect the vertebrae next to it as well.
Good luck to you,
Jerol