Yeah, sure, they all say that!!!
No, seriously, here's what I don't get, a LOT of men LIKE the bitchy, materialistic, appearance conscious ones. My ex-husband is the PERFECT fucking example. I was born without the shoe gene, hence I am very easy going, not very image conscious, etc. He hated that. Wanted me in makeup, ragged to shit on me about my nails, couldn't stand that I wanted to lift weights, wanted me to have dinner on the table and make the house look like something out of Home & Garden. I tried but it just wasn't me. He's married to an utter _____ (rhymes with the word Runt) who is a total fucking clothes and shoe horse and goes to the spa regularly, has perfectly manicured nails, apparently collects Coach Bags (?) and she's a real BITCH to him, and he's happy as a clam