lol, every girl i know that's good with women naturally will tell you you're a fuckin tool if you have to really use some of the obvious disingenuine methods. its one thing to delve into evolutionary psychology or notice certain patterns of behavior by women (i.e. not liking needy guys), but to do things intentionally to manipulate or attraction attention is so lame.
You're right about most guys sucking at picking up women, however.Because it's mostly because they're full of shit and dont know hot to get into someones "inner" persona. They shit they say is completely fake, cheesy or lame.once you drop the whole social mask its alot easier to get someone on a 1 on 1 basis.
anyone who knows the true "game" guys will agree with me.Wish GD was still here so he could back me up, although his school of thought is a little different than me
unf. people hear 'seduction book/course' and IMMEDIATELY without even reading it throw it off. I guess 'pickup line, being funny, kissing her ass' apparently is a much better option for them.
With the mystery method (okay let's just say "a method that works for attracting hot females to like you") is about being confident, interesting, strong body language, being likable, funny, dressing well, not using stupid pickup lines, not goign fast/goign too slow, reading body language, etc. etc.
These techniques have been used by successful men for THOUSANDS of years. All that's been done is a book wrapper has been put around it.
I discovered all this by myself as years of a musician. How shocking when I discovered they were all in some book! Would've saved me so much effort if I had just read about them. Good thing is now -- I use these same techniques in better relationships wiht strangers, business folks, friends, etc. It's not just dating - it's for formulating more interesting relationships with people. For all it is when it comes down to -- is communication.
And most people suck at that. Esp when intimidated (hot chick, boss, celebrity, stranger, rich person, etc.).
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