Well, My life is over because I'm a loser and liar.

[Mandinka2]

My daughter was almost aborted.......and when I say almost I mean we went, signed in......and left........

I cried.....she cried........and looking back, I can honestly say I aged 10 years on that day.

What you do is up to you and her (more her), if you know you aren't ready, and you already don't feel a connection to this unborn child, then abortion or adoption are your only answers. Please don't try a home abortion for your girlfriend's sake, as well as your own.

There are plenty of objective support center's and prebirth counselor's at your disposal, USE THEM.

Whatever you both decide it will be the right choice, as long as you make that choice together.

I won't preach to you to keep the child, because I didn't want anyone doing that to me, but I can honsestly tell you that the birth of my daughter, was and is the single greatest thing to happen in my short life.

Good post my Hebrew brother.

 

[F117A Active Stealth]

Ok, I wrote like 4 paragraphs, but then decided to erase them as nothing I say will make the situation better. All I can say is DON'T consider Abortion. Consider everything else that let's the kid live.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

RU486 is basically an abortion via pill.

not neccessarily.

not to be too pedantic, but conception is not instantaneous. it can take quite a long time, actually, depending on a few circumstances- in which case it is not an abortion. its a period.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Paulos -

Sit down with your girlfriend and figure our all your possible options and the possible outcomes of those options. Figure out what you can do and live with while trying not to be influenced by the opinions of others.

This will be one of the most difficult decisions of your life and the choice you make will be the best choice for you at the time of the decision. Know that you may questions yourself and that's normal just don't let it eat at you.

You do have many options even though it doesn't feel as such right now.

Check your PM.

What she said!

 

[Raina]

Ummm...it doesn't sound like a good idea at all to give her medication without having her see her dr. She's old enough that they won't have to contact her parents or anything. But it's risky to just give a girl pills that make her abort if she's not seeing a dr.

 

[Gambino]

Well, on the brightside, it appears you are over decca dick...

 

[KEL]

That's the morning after pill - first 72 hours after unprotected sex.


The morning after pill is basically a high does of birth control.
RU486 is basically an abortion via pill.

Finally the correct information. thank you

 

[velvett]

not neccessarily.

not to be too pedantic, but conception is not instantaneous. it can take quite a long time, actually, depending on a few circumstances- in which case it is not an abortion. its a period.

Either way - they are two different drugs and people especially a women should know what exactly the drug will do her body.

You would not take a morning after pill while you are 3 months pregnant and you should know the possible complications of taking the RU486.

Anywho - I'm not arguing with you but people tend to confuse the two pills and they ought not be confused.

 

[PoyeBoy]

Okay Paulso, I can possibly bail you out, Me and my girl are trying to have a kid, if you guys have it and we arent pregnant by then, maybe we can adopt it, call me with your info bro, you got my number, plus your GF is black if I remember correctly, Id love to have a cute little melado kid

 

[argent]

I say put the child up for adoption bro. Just b/c you and her aren't ready to do the parent thing, there are a lot of couples out there who are but can't physically.