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Well, looks like I'm single again.

nefertiti said:
Good plan!
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You two are killin me over here...

I know it's shitty when things are not what we planned, but laughing about it always make it seem more bearable.

My father always used to say, "If I wasn't laughing right now I would be crying."

To which I can only add, "I am all cried out... BRING ON THE LAUGHING!!!"
 
heatherrae said:
I usually do something constructive on the heels of a breakup, such as sleeping with random strangers.
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Cue the "make the bed" responses
:)
 
heatherrae said:
I usually do something constructive on the heels of a breakup, such as sleeping with random strangers.
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:qt:
 
GoldenDelicious said:
more women love me now im fatter than when i was ripped

women = dumb

if youre gonna shag, strike while its hot!!
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No darlin... it is that women aren't as obsessed with a man's looks as men are with the looks of women. Many of us care more about what that man has goin on upstairs and how treats us and others around him.
 
BIKINIMOM said:
You two are killin me over here...

I know it's shitty when things are not what we planned, but laughing about it always make it seem more bearable.

My father always used to say, "If I wasn't laughing right now I would be crying."

To which I can only add, "I am all cried out... BRING ON THE LAUGHING!!!"
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I'm definitely an advocate of laughing through my tears.
 
nefertiti said:
I'm definitely an advocate of laughing through my tears.
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Sorry you feel so bad.

But, now would be a good time to tell you that you have good form. :evil:
 
BIKINIMOM said:
My father always used to say, "If I wasn't laughing right now I would be crying."

To which I can only add, "I am all cried out... BRING ON THE LAUGHING!!!"
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(insert laugh track)

Were you and your father stuck in a real-life sitcom or something??!

r
 
Razorguns said:
(insert laugh track)

Were you and your father stuck in a real-life sitcom or something??!

r
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You really have NO IDEA...

Think George Lopez only drunk and cussing... Yep, that was us.
 
sorry to hear nef. It'll get better faster than you think. I also recommend going out with your friends often during the next few months. Be active and be around people having fun.
 
Nef,

I've never really been good at certain expressions but I will say this - it's not our success, our great loves or happiness that makes us a better or stronger person it's merely what keeps us going when what we thought we had or who we thought we were fails to be our reality.

Embrace this, learn from it and fly like you haven't before.
 
You are an awesome girl... You will move on and things will be better than before... I admire your courage.
 
nefertiti said:
This blows. I found out about something I couldn't let myself forgive. But walking was harder than anything I've dealt with yet this past year. When I got home I cried so hard I got involuntarily sick. I took today off. Can't deal with people.

I know this is a mememememe thread, but I'm going to go ahead and ask that we keep the bitterness about relationships to a minimum and keep in mind that I'm hurting so badly that I can hardly find the strength to breathe. I told him a while back that no matter what happened between us, I would never regret the time spent with him. That's still true. I don't regret loving him, don't regret letting my guard down, don't regret trusting him.

But I'll be damned if it doesn't feel like someone took a poisoned knife to my gut.
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Sorry to hear
 
biteme said:
You are an awesome girl... You will move on and things will be better than before... I admire your courage.
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Your k message was really touching. Thank you for that.
 
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Neff, so sorry you're hurting.
Sometimes walking away when things are not going well is the best solution.
Take care of you and love you. It takes strength to know you needed to walk away. Don't let anyone supply your happiness, supply your own happiness ok
I'm here if you need to talk
hug
 
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Im sorry for your pain however remember you will find someone... Keep your head up. :artist:
 
heatherrae said:
I usually do something constructive on the heels of a breakup, such as sleeping with random strangers.
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Or eating six bags of Skittles from the pantry :rolleyes:



Nerf:

I'm sorry to hear your hurting. Believe it or not, I do feel fleeting moments of human emotion. Not often, but in your case, I'll make an exception.

Just try to ride the storm out for now. I know it hurts.
 
Smurfy said:
ouch

Obviously not trying to tell you what to do, but if your goal is for this to be over, no contact is really the only way to go.
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I was just typing the same advice
 
Smurfy said:
ouch

Obviously not trying to tell you what to do, but if your goal is for this to be over, no contact is really the only way to go.
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I know...I have to stay strong, but this really fucking sucks.
 
nefertiti said:
I know...I have to stay strong, but this really fucking sucks.
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i dunno what he did, but sometimes, even if the second chance doesnt work out, it will stop you from wondering "what if".

people make mistakes


/devils advocate
 
SublimeZM said:
i dunno what he did, but sometimes, even if the second chance doesnt work out, it will stop you from wondering "what if".

people make mistakes


/devils advocate
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Oh sweet JEsus this is sooooo true.
 
nefertiti said:
lol...Greivis Vasquez?

I'll be back with more later on tonight....gotta get some grub and drown my tears in some red wine with a friend.
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Silly - You're on a fitness board surrounded by 95% guys!

That's like me crying about not finding a chick to the posters on the 6ft blonde nymphomanic expert cook european modelling board.

r
 
Nerf you're definately my favorite chicka on EF, but don't tell the other ones I said that! or things might get all catty!

seriously you're awesome, I hope you find a way to continue to smile and laugh through the pain, and I know it might not seem like it now, but I'm posotive you'll find someone better more perfect and more right for you. that will make you eternally happier.

feel better, eh.

If you want I can take lewd pictures of wootoom without him realizing and pm them too you.. (after I get my hands on a camera)
 
Sorry to hear it Nef. I'll still take you out for greasy burgers once your tummy feels better. :)

Cheers,
Scotsman
 
Razorguns said:
Silly - You're on a fitness board surrounded by 95% guys!

That's like me crying about not finding a chick to the posters on the 6ft blonde nymphomanic expert cook european modelling board.

r
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I'm not crying about not finding a guy. if I just want some beefcake...that's really effing easy to get lol....anywhere. But I've gotten some really great PM and K messages here. I love you guys/girls.
 
nefertiti said:
I'm not crying about not finding a guy. if I just want some beefcake...that's really effing easy to get lol....anywhere. But I've gotten some really great PM and K messages here. I love you guys/girls.
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You want me to send KB back out there??? :qt:
 
Nef, sorry to hear. But as everyone else has said, time will heal it all. You seem like a pretty positive person most of the time so I have no doubt you will be back to happiness sooner than you think.

Best of luck!


BTW....anyone know how I change my name to "random stranger"?



heatherrae said:
I usually do something constructive on the heels of a breakup, such as sleeping with random strangers.
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When a relationship ends it's much the same as a death of a close loved one. It takes time to mourn the passing of something that was so close to you, the sense of loss.

It's ok to feel the way you do, the experience will help make you who you are and who you will become in the future.

People come and go throughout our life time, take and give more than you take..
 
NEO1 said:
Nef, sorry to hear. But as everyone else has said, time will heal it all. You seem like a pretty positive person most of the time so I have no doubt you will be back to happiness sooner than you think.

Best of luck!


BTW....anyone know how I change my name to "random stranger"?
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:lmao:
 
SpyWizard said:
When a relationship ends it's much the same as a death of a close loved one. It takes time to mourn the passing of something that was so close to you, the sense of loss.

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That is so true and I'm glad others feel this way
When my relationship of 11 yrs ended, 4 months into it I was still pretty devastated and my family was telling me I should have been over it by then.

Losing a loved one by death or breaking up has the same effect. In fact, when a spouse leaves you for someone else, it hurts worse than if they died.
Betrayal is hard to swallow
 
ceo said:
You want me to send KB back out there??? :qt:
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Ha...KB's been in touch, actually...with some wonderful words of wisdom and his usual touch of humor.

ATW - check your karma messages.

I'm so effing tired. The last two nights I've been up till four.
 
nefertiti said:
I'm not crying about not finding a guy. if I just want some beefcake...that's really effing easy to get lol....anywhere. But I've gotten some really great PM and K messages here. I love you guys/girls.
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i wish it was that easy for me to get beefcake lol
 
SublimeZM said:
i wish it was that easy for me to get beefcake lol
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lol...I don't think I've ever actually said the word "beefcake" out loud. Just made me laugh reading that quoted...but yeah. I don't need to tell you that any even moderately attractive female can get ass any time she wants without having to work that hard for it. That does me no good, though, since I have no interest in casual sex. Boooooo.
 
nefertiti said:
lol...I don't think I've ever actually said the word "beefcake" out loud. Just made me laugh reading that quoted...but yeah. I don't need to tell you that any even moderately attractive female can get ass any time she wants without having to work that hard for it. That does me no good, though, since I have no interest in casual sex. Boooooo.
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you should really try it, that will definately make you feel better..

just like say it out loud.. "beefcake" have a laugh and say it outloud again..

especially if it's something you've never done, I'm a firm believer in trying new things.

It could just work.
 
RottenWillow said:
Props for making the hard move. Most people tend to wuss out in that situation, and hang around due to weakness rather than a desire to try to work it out.
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heard a comedian explain it best
people hang on because they can't bear the thought/sight of the other person with someone else
he wasn't joking
 
nefertiti said:
I'm definitely an advocate of laughing through my tears.
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as a mortician I consider that my greatest gift/talent
I have to be so precise
 
javaguru said:
Bor...it might be your avatar but every time I think about what you do this pops up...


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I attached the complete text to the scene in the army vet thread
but he self-locked it because the thread had run it's course
 
I'm late to this thread so Nef you have probably either:

1) Found another beau
2) Made up with this guy
3) Forgotten about the whole thing

Either way, hope you have a good weekend. Maybe hit Adams Morgan (I recommend Madam's Organ for some hot blues).
 
blueta2 said:
That is so true and I'm glad others feel this way
When my relationship of 11 yrs ended, 4 months into it I was still pretty devastated and my family was telling me I should have been over it by then.

Losing a loved one by death or breaking up has the same effect. In fact, when a spouse leaves you for someone else, it hurts worse than if they died.
Betrayal is hard to swallow
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I think it would have been worse if my first wife died... I would have had a hard time dealing with that.
 
blueta2 said:
That is so true and I'm glad others feel this way
When my relationship of 11 yrs ended, 4 months into it I was still pretty devastated and my family was telling me I should have been over it by then.

Losing a loved one by death or breaking up has the same effect. In fact, when a spouse leaves you for someone else, it hurts worse than if they died.
Betrayal is hard to swallow
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I think death would be worse.

If my wife just left, I would still have my children to keep me happy
 
Longhorn85 said:
I'm late to this thread so Nef you have probably either:

1) Found another beau
2) Made up with this guy
3) Forgotten about the whole thing

Either way, hope you have a good weekend. Maybe hit Adams Morgan (I recommend Madam's Organ for some hot blues).
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Unfortunately, no on all counts. It hurts. I really don't feel like being social this weekend. it's rainy, which doesn't exactly help my mood. And I don't feel like dealing with the vultures who always seem to pick up the scent when I'm single again.
 
nefertiti said:
Unfortunately, no on all counts. It hurts. I really don't feel like being social this weekend. it's rainy, which doesn't exactly help my mood. And I don't feel like dealing with the vultures who always seem to pick up the scent when I'm single again.
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Hopefully, you can find something to do with your friends. I like to go shopping when it's raining.


At least you are not niave about the vultures. We can pick up the scent of a recently single girl. :evil:
 
all the whey said:
Hopefully, you can find something to do with your friends. I like to go shopping when it's raining.


At least you are not niave about the vultures. We can pick up the scent of a recently single girl. :evil:
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Oh I've been on to those types for years now lol.

I could go shopping...but that's something I usually do alone. I was thinking about a movie, but there's nothing out I want to see that I haven't.
 
all the whey said:
Hopefully, you can find something to do with your friends. I like to go shopping when it's raining.


At least you are not niave about the vultures. We can pick up the scent of a recently single girl. :evil:
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You usually go shopping when it's raining??????

Wtf has curvymommy done to you!!!

I'm getting worried about you now broly, haha.

:heart:
 
FriendlyCanadian said:
You usually go shopping when it's raining??????

Wtf has curvymommy done to you!!!

I'm getting worried about you now broly, haha.

:heart:
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Damn bro I love to go shopping. Especially with women trying shit on.

last yr was the best when a girl that worked at Express asked me to go after the store closed because employees got a special discount. Girls 18 to 40 needed my opinion on the slutty clothes they were trying on. :evil:

Tonight I was asked to go shop for a chick I know's daughters prom dress. She said her daughter really wanted me to go. (no pedo)
 
nefertiti said:
This blows. I found out about something I couldn't let myself forgive. But walking was harder than anything I've dealt with yet this past year. When I got home I cried so hard I got involuntarily sick. I took today off. Can't deal with people.

I know this is a mememememe thread, but I'm going to go ahead and ask that we keep the bitterness about relationships to a minimum and keep in mind that I'm hurting so badly that I can hardly find the strength to breathe. I told him a while back that no matter what happened between us, I would never regret the time spent with him. That's still true. I don't regret loving him, don't regret letting my guard down, don't regret trusting him.

But I'll be damned if it doesn't feel like someone took a poisoned knife to my gut.
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it is the worst pain

but it'll pass.

i'm sorry you are hurting
 
nefertiti said:
And I don't feel like dealing with the vultures who always seem to pick up the scent when I'm single again.
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Perhaps this is a blessing you can count right now. Imagine if you were dumped and vultures were not even interested. :worried:
 
Longhorn85 said:
Perhaps this is a blessing you can count right now. Imagine if you were dumped and vultures were not even interested. :worried:
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It's called being a guy.

Girls are vulchers if you can prove to them you are taken and other bitches want you.
 
Longhorn85 said:
Perhaps this is a blessing you can count right now. Imagine if you were dumped and vultures were not even interested. :worried:
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lol @ your obama avatar.

Yeah yeah, I know. I'd frankly love to be able to turn it off every now and then. Anyway, I just don't want to expose myself to that. A friend invited me to a party tonight and I'm still really on the fence about going.
 
nefertiti said:
lol @ your obama avatar.

Yeah yeah, I know. I'd frankly love to be able to turn it off every now and then. Anyway, I just don't want to expose myself to that. A friend invited me to a party tonight and I'm still really on the fence about going.
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no debate...you're going!

My friends used to tell me this after a break-up. I would be out and miserable, but it was better than being home and miserable.
 
blueta2 said:
no debate...you're going!

My friends used to tell me this after a break-up. I would be out and miserable, but it was better than being home and miserable.
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Hmmm...no one put it that way before...that actually maybe makes a little sense lol. Everyone else says, "you'll feel better!" (I won't) No one ever said, "You'll feel like shit, but at least you'll be with us instead of alone."
 
nefertiti said:
Hmmm...no one put it that way before...that actually maybe makes a little sense lol. Everyone else says, "you'll feel better!" (I won't) No one ever said, "You'll feel like shit, but at least you'll be with us instead of alone."
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I've nursed my broken heart many times, I know all the tricks.
 
Grumpy Old Man said:
Nurse? oh, blue I would never break your heart or Neff's either!

Bof of yous guys are awesome!

:santa:
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that's nice, thanks
A few times I deserved the tears. I wasn't always a wise old owl
 
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