Update on daughters

[chesty]

Well, I have had a few letters from the youngest one Brittany. But nothing from the older two. I sent them some diamond and gold necklaces and bracelets a few weeks ago, haven't heard anything back.

I suspect that in all of the ex's and her twit husband's trying to pretend I didn't exist they forgot to tell the kids that I never intended on not seeing them, just giving them legal control to avoid having them used as a pawn in their twisted games and how she decided not to live up to her promise. To wit, I only agreed to the adoption on the grounds that I could still visit.

I also bet that she and he are feeling a bit threatened now, especially with the younger one writing me and now that I sent birthday, graduation and just cause presents of apparently significant value (to which I could careless about, I just wanted them to be nice) I wonder if they ever received them or if the younger will write back. I hope so, I don't want to have lay out the details to the kids in order to set the record straight, it would confuse them and piss them off as well as probably alienate them further from me and from their mom.

Well, I'll keep you informed.

chesty.

 

[big4life]

Good luck.

The main thing is that you tried. You did the right thing, just hang in there, things will work out.

 

[HighIntensity]

keep fighting man, they are just as much your children

 

[-SD-]

SEMPER FIDELIS.

 

[huntmaster]

Thanks for the update Chesty. Dont worry bro, it'll all work out.

 

[chesty]

I am sure it will. I have waited this long (12 years) I can wait more.

 

[dballer]

To think that there are 1000 guys out there going through this really breaks my heart.

I think you should send a letter to a friend out of state.. then have them mail them to your oldest daughter. Make it look like a pen pal or somthing. That way you will know that your ex is not keeping the mail from them.

I hope the best for you man.. I really do.

 

[WODIN]

I hope you get to see them buddy. Sucks when people try to use others as pawns.

 

[SofaGeorge]

Chesty, keep writing to the older two... even if you don't get anything back soon. Time is on your side.

 

[Mysterio]

Goodluck!