Told my wife about my AS use - well sort of......

[hard]

Last night the wife and i were sittin around watchin the tube and outta no where I tell her that in addition to all the protien drinks and creatine and other suppliments that i am also taking a couple of prescription meds. - Proviron and clomid. I didn't mention the tren and cyp and winny and dbol as I guess I was just testing the waters. Anyway, she asks a few questions about what these two drugs are and what they do and says " Im sure you know what you're doing- you're the one with the great bod. " !! Fuck if that didn't make my night, I was expecting a flip out - problem is now I gotta decied between leaving things as is ( 1/2 truth) or layin the whole deal on her and possbly have her worry herself sick. ( its the injections that would blow her mind ).

There seems to be two camps on this board regarding telling wives/g.friends about AS

1) Never under any circumstances
2) Always - if they can't handle the truth then fuck um.

I guess I'm somewhere in between at this point ( 1.5 ?) and would really appreciate some feedback from the bros before I make a final descision. There are'nt too many people I know outside of elite that could actually relate to this ( or that I would even tell in the 1st place)

thanks guys

( I'm headin to work now so won't be loggin back in till end of day)

 

[dumblucky]

dont do it cause if she says STOP RIGHT NOW...
and of course you dont....then she finds out you didnt YOU WILL REALLY BE FUCKED

 

[JOKER47]

Tell your wife

I told my fiance. She freaked out a little. Especially about the injections. But, after I told her everything I was doing, gave her the names, told her about some sites she could learn about it herself, she gives me my injections. Best thing I ever did, was to come completely clean with it. If she found out later that I had done it behind her back, or caught me.....Dead meat.

Tell her bro...But ONLY tell your wife......


.02
Joker

 

[hard]

Thanks for the input guys........I'm definitly gonna think about this for awhile before I commit. This is a tough one.

peace,

 

[Chuck T]

Next time you start your cycle, just tell her that your friends were telling you about this stuff and you figured you would give it a try...it involves injections..etc....and you wanted to see if it would work. Tell her the info on it and see how she responds, if it isnt too good then tell her :
1. Well I want to try them at least once. Then if she likes the results she might be more open to it.
OR
2. Tell her you wont do them and then just pray that she never catches you
Personally I like the 1st option but then again, I'm only 20. I'm just trying to throw out ideas, I havent been in your shoes before.
Good luck on deciding. Hope I helped out???

-Chuck

 

[Juststartingout]

If you value your relationship, tell her

I don't have much exp with dealing with A/S use in relationships, but now being separated from my wife for 6 months made me realize some things that went wrong in our marriage. A lot had to do with trust and honesty. Hiding things from your spouse breeds contempt, disrespect, and other ill feelings. She should be your ultimate partner, and understand you better than anyone else. It may seem easier to lie at first, but eventually it will catch up to you and be much more difficult (or impossible, in my case) to correct later on.

Take the time to explain to her what you are doing, etc. I wouldn't expect her to readily accept it, but again, that's where the understanding comes in. It's a decision you need to make together.

Transitional G/F's are something different altogether.

 

[fhg43]

Tell her.

Trust is everything in marriage.

FHG

 

[TxLonghorn]

Here is the way I look at it (and I am mostly in camp #1)...it should be like asking the chick to marry you, you should already know the answer, whether by hints, etc.

So, if you know how she is going to respond, base it on that. If you base it on some feminine notion of 'being faithful' or some other crock of shit, you are just flipping the coin. And also, does she use things against you that are not pertinent to the situation at hand? If so, that's another bad sign. Like if you are having an argument, and she is losing so she brings up that time you mugged down with her hotter, younger sister at the family reunion like she didn't know you were drunk. Because if she does stuff like that, if you ever get to a rocky stretch, be prepared to have it brought up. You can do searches on this where guys have been fired because the wife calls up, tells the boss, whammo, blood test, your're outta here. All kinds of stuff.

Not pretty. But some chicks are ok, and would never do that. At least in theory there are some chicks like that.

 

[juice4me]

either tell her straight out when you met her or take it to the grave

 

[flickenu]

what is it with women and injections? my mom was supportive of me doing a cycle, she even said shed pay for it...then i told her i had to order pins and she flipped out saying i could only do orals. i tried explaining how injections are safer because of the liver but she didnt want to hear any of that. my advice- don't tell her about the injections...did you tell her that clomid and proviron were oral? if you didnt then if she ever finds the amps/vials tell her thats what they are.